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New and a little frustrated..

I've been lurking for a while but this is my first post. This is our first cycle TTC. I didn't temp or use OPKs this month (trust me I will be next month if I'm not pregnant!), but I did pay attention to CM. I had suspected ovulation around June 23 based on EWCM, which would put me at 21 DPO. But 2 days after that day, we left for a trip. I was due for AF Sunday. When I woke up Sunday, I had cramps and just felt like I was going to start, but never did. I also had EWCM that day, which may be usual for me (I know that I always have an increase in CM before AF, but I have never paid attention until this month TTC). I went off the pill in March and had two regular cycles (34 days and 33 days). I am now on day 39 of this cycle. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests (EPT Certainty Digital) on 18 DPO and 20 DPO if I did ovulate on June 23. Without temping and OPKs, I know it's impossible to know for sure, and now I'm wondering if the trip could have delayed ovulation which is why AF hasn't shown. It's really getting frustrating getting negatives when AF still isn't here. I have already ordered OPKs online for next month, if I'm not pregnant. Does anyone have any other theories on why AF isn't here and I'm getting negative HPTs? Does anyone know how long ovulation is usually delayed after travel? We've been home for 2 weeks tomorrow. I guess I'll just keep testing every few days until I get a positive or AF shows.
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Re: New and a little frustrated..

  • It could be your body adjusting to coming off of BC--it can take upwards of a year to regulate even if you've had a few "normal" cycles before now.

    I'd test once a week and then call your OB/GYN if/when you get to CD 60 with no + HPT ot period

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  • imagelaf10:
    I've been lurking for a while but this is my first post. This is our first cycle TTC. I didn't temp or use OPKs this month (trust me I will be next month if I'm not pregnant!), but I did pay attention to CM. I had suspected ovulation around June 23 based on EWCM, which would put me at 21 DPO. But 2 days after that day, we left for a trip. I was due for AF Sunday. When I woke up Sunday, I had cramps and just felt like I was going to start, but never did. I also had EWCM that day, which may be usual for me (I know that I always have an increase in CM before AF, but I have never paid attention until this month TTC). I went off the pill in March and had two regular cycles (34 days and 33 days). I am now on day 39 of this cycle. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests (EPT Certainty Digital) on 18 DPO and 20 DPO if I did ovulate on June 23. Without temping and OPKs, I know it's impossible to know for sure, and now I'm wondering if the trip could have delayed ovulation which is why AF hasn't shown. It's really getting frustrating getting negatives when AF still isn't here. I have already ordered OPKs online for next month, if I'm not pregnant. Does anyone have any other theories on why AF isn't here and I'm getting negative HPTs? Does anyone know how long ovulation is usually delayed after travel? We've been home for 2 weeks tomorrow. I guess I'll just keep testing every few days until I get a positive or AF shows.

    I don't know much about the OPK's but I think this is a good idea to follow. Good luck!

  • I'm not an expert, but I didn't know that O could be delayed bc of travel. The only reasons I can think of for AF not showing would be late O, chemical pregnancy, or pregnancy. If you are pregnant, it's possible that your levels just aren't high enough yet for it to show on a test. Or it could have been a CP that you didn't catch. 

    Whatever the reason, I hope you find out soon one way or another. Sorry - I know it's frustrating! 

     

    ETA: ah - I totally missed the part about just coming off BC a few months ago. Your cycles may still be regulating...  

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    imagelaf10:
    I've been lurking for a while but this is my first post. This is our first cycle TTC. I didn't temp or use OPKs this month (trust me I will be next month if I'm not pregnant!), but I did pay attention to CM. I had suspected ovulation around June 23 based on EWCM, which would put me at 21 DPO. But 2 days after that day, we left for a trip. I was due for AF Sunday. When I woke up Sunday, I had cramps and just felt like I was going to start, but never did. I also had EWCM that day, which may be usual for me (I know that I always have an increase in CM before AF, but I have never paid attention until this month TTC). I went off the pill in March and had two regular cycles (34 days and 33 days). I am now on day 39 of this cycle. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests (EPT Certainty Digital) on 18 DPO and 20 DPO if I did ovulate on June 23. Without temping and OPKs, I know it's impossible to know for sure, and now I'm wondering if the trip could have delayed ovulation which is why AF hasn't shown. It's really getting frustrating getting negatives when AF still isn't here. I have already ordered OPKs online for next month, if I'm not pregnant. Does anyone have any other theories on why AF isn't here and I'm getting negative HPTs? Does anyone know how long ovulation is usually delayed after travel? We've been home for 2 weeks tomorrow. I guess I'll just keep testing every few days until I get a positive or AF shows.

    You could've Oed late.  Feel free to look at my last 3 charts- I got fertile CM around the time one would expect to O, but didn't actually O until CD 55ish.  Not saying that you would O as late as that, but that could be throwing you off some.  HTH.

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    It could be your body adjusting to coming off of BC--it can take upwards of a year to regulate even if you've had a few "normal" cycles before now.

    I'd test once a week and then call your OB/GYN if/when you get to CD 60 with no + HPT ot period

    This.  I was on BCP for a year and it took at least 6 months for my cycles to get regular and this current cycle is longer than the ones before.  So keep testing once a week until AF comes or it has been 60 days then call your doctor.  Best of luck!

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  • imageKdgTeacher:

    It could be your body adjusting to coming off of BC--it can take upwards of a year to regulate even if you've had a few "normal" cycles before now.

    I'd test once a week and then call your OB/GYN if/when you get to CD 60 with no + HPT ot period

    This.  I was the most regular person with my cycles before BC (28-29 days) and back in October I had a 42 day cycle.  That's what made me begin charting.  I went to see a doctor and she explained that it may be several factors: coming off BC, stress (new job), and adjusting to a recent move.  GL! 

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    imageKdgTeacher:

    It could be your body adjusting to coming off of BC--it can take upwards of a year to regulate even if you've had a few "normal" cycles before now.

    I'd test once a week and then call your OB/GYN if/when you get to CD 60 with no + HPT ot period

    This.  I was on BCP for a year and it took at least 6 months for my cycles to get regular and this current cycle is longer than the ones before.  So keep testing once a week until AF comes or it has been 60 days then call your doctor.  Best of luck!

    This. I went of BCPs in Jan and it took until June for my body to O on it's own again. I even went 3 months of being anov, and the doc couldn't find anything off or wrong. So, I guess I don't know if being anov was due to my body adjusting to not being on the pill or not, but it's not out of the norm for it to take half a year or even longer to readjust.

    If I were you, I'd test once a week or until you get your period. If you hit CD 60, call and get Provera. GL, hopefully you will get your BFP soon!

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  • Update: Still no AF or positive HPT. I have my annual ob/gyn appt in a week, so maybe the dr can help. I'm currently on day 45 with no usual symptoms of AF. I've had hot flashes and an increased appetite the past few days. I've taken HPTs every few days, with the most recent this morning. I don't think I'm pregnant at this point, I just want AF to show up so we can start over (and so I can chart)!
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