Monday's PityPartyB!tchFest

Rvnsgrl81 · July 2011

Ok ladies let's hear them....

Sorry no one had started it so I figured I would get the ball rolling....

emu0013 · July 2011

My day started off with an email at 7 am saying FYI everyone, the building manager has been contacted in regards to the temperature in the office, I got in and it is 90 degrees in here. Ugh, to help someone went and bought pop sickles, just great! I can not wait for 5pm!

rsrs807 · July 2011

H's ex girlfriend is pregnant. I know I know I know. It doesn't impact me/it doesn't change my chances of getting pregnant/etc.

But still, this is a pity party post so I'm pitying myself. Mainly because I thought for sure I'd be pregnant by now so one more pregnancy just reminds me that I'm not, and considering that we have signficant mutual friends (my HS BFF and H's high school best friend are both very close to his ex) it's not going to be something I can just not think about, you know? Blah. I'm going to have lots of chocolate when I get home. And wine. And then I'll be over it.

But tonight, chocolate and wine.

jmc1017 · July 2011

rsrs807:
H's ex girlfriend is pregnant. I know I know I know. It doesn't impact me/it doesn't change my chances of getting pregnant/etc.

But still, this is a pity party post so I'm pitying myself. Mainly because I thought for sure I'd be pregnant by now so one more pregnancy just reminds me that I'm not, and considering that we have signficant mutual friends (my HS BFF and H's high school best friend are both very close to his ex) it's not going to be something I can just not think about, you know? Blah. I'm going to have lots of chocolate when I get home. And wine. And then I'll be over it.

But tonight, chocolate and wine.

I know the feeling. I know 11 girls who are pregnant right now and I try hard to take it in stride, but there are times where I get really frustrated. I feel like every time I turn around someone else I know is pregnant.

Rvnsgrl81 · July 2011

Mine is we went up to our house yesterday to see the progress. We settle a week from tomorrow. The kitchen ceiling is bowed, the kitchen/hallway doorframe is crooked. The painters appear to have been drunk when they painted the last coat of paint. All door frames and window frames were not sanded before painted and look and feel horrible. Drywall in spots was not sanded before being painted over. Um should I go on?!?

I am not seeing how the heck they are going to get these things done in a week, and our final walk through is this Thursday....who knows what we will find then....

BN+JL2010 · July 2011

My BIL is a royal a$$h@le. He has absolutely no censor button. The other night we were out to dinner (to celebrate his b-day) and he said my son looked like a monkey. I told him that I didn't appreciate it. As soon as we got outside he turned to his GF and said "Seriously, "H" looks like a chimpanzee" and proceeded to laugh. He pulls crap like this all the time and no one ever puts him in his place. I want to tell him off but I have too much respect for my MIL & FIL to do so in their presence. He is 28, lives at home, has no motivation, and they still baby him. I have told my DH how much I dislike the way he acts/speaks around my DS and DH agrees but doesn't know what to do. Ugh, in-laws.

blaharn · July 2011

I'm only 4 DPO, but my temp plummeted this morning...yes, I know it's just one temp and we're looking for an overall trend. I've been feeling less optimistic about this cycle anyways....ugh. There's always next month.

huskymomma94 · July 2011

TTGP related: My chart. WTF is going on.

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

PandaManda23 · July 2011

Please don't know how to deal with their problems and they have to do terrible terrible things to themselves to deal with it, instead of getting help they need.

Michelle_G · July 2011

I woke up, decided to POAS at ~7dpo... BFN. Left for work, got caught in gnarly t-storm as I was pumping gas... soaked head-to-toe, literally. Got to work, stupid generator is working so we have power... lame. AC is cranked in the building because it should be somewhere around 95 today.... I now have 2 sweaters on and my toes are freezing. Oh, and I forgot my lunch on the counter at home.

Mulligan?

rellicdragon · July 2011

Just hating Monday and the heat and everything that goes along with it ... to top it off I haven't been able to sleep the past couple of nights without a Tylenol PM ... I need sleep

rsrs807 · July 2011

huskymomma94:

TTGP related: My chart. WTF is going on.

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

I'm sorry about your grandfather Husky :-(

sunflowers4AC · July 2011

I was at a BBQ over the weekend with babies everywhere. I couldn't help but think about how this might be the cycle.......only to leave the BBQ and go home to find AF. All I could do was lay on my bed and cry.

Oem617 · July 2011

My in-laws had a "meet the baby" party for my SIL and her husband yesterday. While I love my all in-laws and the baby, the rest of the family and friends could not stopping saying things like "you are next", "the pressure is on", and when I would hold the baby, "oh, you better practice" and "you are just a natural." Ok I get it people, I am trying but until then can you just not stay anything. I just hate hearing it and don't really know what to say to the comments. Although I like the comment about I will have a baby 9 months after I get pregnant.

megemoney · July 2011

I'm kind of grumpy.

I don't feel totally awesome.

I don't know how I feel about this cycle.

We are taking a half-day on Friday to start vacation and my period is due to arrive on Monday. So if I do not get pregnant the cycle, I will be on my period for vacation.

I'm kind of mad at my SIL. We have an awesome relationship and get along great, so it sucks that I am kind of mad at her. (My MIL and FIL are still married so there is no two family thing going on there. My parents are both remarried.) This vacation is our second annual family vacation. Last year we were in Delaware and it was me and H, SIL and BIL, MIL and FIL and my mom and step-dad. My dad and step-mom were invited but my dad couldn't make it. This year we are going to Michigan, where my parents live. We are renting a house on Lake Michigan. It will be me and H, SIL and BIL, MIL and FIL and my mom and step-dad... again. My dad has a house on a small lake about 45 minutes away. He has invited everyone over for a day on the lake with a cookout and boat rides and whatever we want to do. For unknown reasons, either H won't tell me or he honestly doesn't know either, my SIL has decided that she is not going now. MIL is now waffling, and my mom and step-dad were included in the invitation but are not going becasue my mom and dad are just now starting to get along post divorce and it is just a little awkward still. So yeah... I am mad at SIL. </vent>

brookelynpaisley · July 2011

I'm exhausted. I had a dream that I woke up late and got to work late and didn't get my stuff done, so I couldn't leave to go to my RE appointment today. Therefore, I woke up almost frantic at 3am thinking I was late. Then I couldn't get back to sleep until maybe 4, and got up at 5. The only good thing is that there was a thunderstorm going on, so I got to listen to that, which was actually calming. On the other hand, my hair is now a frizy mess. Oh, and because Clover didn't want to go potty outside in the rain, she sh!t on my bedroom carpet. Awesome, what a great start to the day.

kimikins79 · July 2011

I am just going back to work after the laperotomy for removeal of a 14 cm cyst. Blah. 4 weeks and going back still stinks! I hoped I'd be energetic and ready to take it on. Instead, I just want to go home and curl up like I did for the past 4 weeks.

OH and my cycle is messed up because of the surgery (normal), but I have no clue when to expect AF (I hate that) and I just want to get the ball rolling with trying again after being on a forced break for 2 cycles.

I am a grump today.

Oem617 · July 2011

huskymomma94:

TTGP related: My chart. WTF is going on.

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

I hope your grandfather is okay. My Thoughts are with you and your family.

lovethoseleaves · July 2011

One of my siblings has a serious mentall illness and she is entirely supported by my mom. Her and my mom got in another big fight last night, and now my mom refuses to support her anymore. She will be homeless next month.

jaworski84 · July 2011

Pissed that I get stuck working every Monday when we are supposed to be on a rotation. It's all because the doctor I work for and the office manager don't like to work with the other technician after the weekend because she's not very efficient. Nice. So she gets FOUR day weekend every couple of weeks and I'm stuck picking up the slack. I keep being told it'll pay off in the long run......just waiting for it to happen. Huh?

mel66 · July 2011

My thoughts are with your family as well huskymomma94. I hope he feels better soon.

I'm on the fence with my feelings today. I'm frustrated with charting in a way - because I still don't really fully understand the temping thing. I have no idea when I ovulated or if I did yet. I'm not doing OPK's until next month (& really wish that I won't need to go there).

I'm annoyed with the price difference of stuff in the US vs Canada. I went on Amazon.com last night to check out the OPK's and HPT's... I almost feel off my chair at how cheap it is. Of course they don't ship to Canada.

But I'm happy because I'm listening to my fave bands new cd! Big Smile

amanda.beth · July 2011

I have jury duty today. Right now. FML.

peril92 · July 2011

I completely understand what you're going through. I have a sister and mom in the same situation. My mom seems to always give in at the last minute though. I hope whatever happens with your sister is the best for her.

Rvnsgrl81 · July 2011

huskymomma94:

TTGP related: My chart. WTF is going on.

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

I hope your grandfather is ok. T&P's to you and your family.

bellablue2 · July 2011

TTC related: I am on to cycle #5, and it started while I was in Santa Barbara having a good time. Kinda put a damper on things. On the other hand, I started right on time! This gave me hope since for some reason when we started ttc in March, my cycles decided to go all wacky on me. The only other cycle that was on time since we began ttc was the one that I got pregnant and had m/c early. So, I am hopeful that with this on time cycle maybe my system is regulating itself again.

bellablue2 · July 2011

huskymomma94:

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

Aw...I have you and your grandfather in my thoughts and prayers that he will get better.

closure17 · July 2011

Having a rough couple of days. Just down in general. I've been sick for most of this summer and that's been really affecting me. I mean I haven't been able to do anything fun or summer related. No beach, no pools, no picnics. We're going to try to have a picnic Friday, but we'll see. Blah.

lovethoseleaves · July 2011

peril92:
I completely understand what you're going through. I have a sister and mom in the same situation. My mom seems to always give in at the last minute though. I hope whatever happens with your sister is the best for her.

Was this directed at me? If it was, thank you. My mom usually does give in at the last moment, but I don't know this time. My sister has a disability hearing on Friday, but the lawyer doesn't think she'll get it. Unfortunately, situations like this are why such a large proportion of the homeless population has a mental illness. Grr

(P.S. if you want to reply to someone in particular, hit "quote" instead of "reply")

closure17 · July 2011

huskymomma94:

TTGP related: My chart. WTF is going on.

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

I'm sorry to hear this. Will keep your family in my thoughts.

LilyPotter218 · July 2011

We had not really shared that we were TTC with anyone other than my mom and MIL know I am off the pill.

My mothers reaction was "I hope you are using some other form of protection"... Um, no that would defeat the purpose. I know she is worried b/c MH just graduated from law school and won't be working until after the Bar in a few weeks, but we do just fine on my salary right now.

Decided it would be nice to have someone IRL to talk to about it, so started to tell my younger sister (KU with #2), her reaction was "can I call you back", and never did.

They both get KU just thinking about it too hard! This is only cycle 1 TTC, but my mom was 22 when she got KU with me and my sister was 25 with her first. I am closer to 32 than I am 31 They think I'm insane to start trying before the "ideal" month, like it just happens that easily for everyone.

barefootbooklover · July 2011

MIL and FIL are going to be staying with us until SIL gives birth this Wednesday, and until the baby is old enough for daycare (6-8 weeks). Kill me now.

stellelinds25 · July 2011

I started my progesterone last night to induce a period and now I feel like every little twinge down there is AF. The Dr said it could be very, very heavy since it's been so long since I've had a period.

Oh and it is FREEZING in my office....I have to sit on my hands to keep them warm. It's 90 degrees outside and probably 68 in here....ridic.

CallieSam · July 2011

My mom has been really sick for the past 6 weeks (long story) and she is starting to recover but the family drama that comes from having someone sick and in the hospital for this long is really wearing me down. Not to mention, of course, how much it sucks that she is so sick and we are worried that her employer might let her go after her FMLA is up.

Also, we are scheduled to close on our house this Friday and the stupid underwriter keeps asking for more and more information and documentation about a stupid deposit to my checking account that was made before we even decided to buy a house! It was a cash deposit from my husband for his part of our rent (we don?t have a joint checking account) so it?s hard to provide a paper trail. Why they care, I don?t even know since it was at the beginning of freaking June and has nothing to do with the purchase of this house. I guess you?re not allowed to deposit money into your bank account!

Jkab0922 · July 2011

I woke up at 4:30am and could not fall back asleep. On top of that, I have been uncomfortably nauseous all morning. The hopeful side of me wants to think it's an early pregnancy sign but trying not to get my hopes up. Then, I come into work and a co-worker completely shoots down any hope I may have had.

Rvnsgrl81 · July 2011

CallieSam:

My mom has been really sick for the past 6 weeks (long story) and she is starting to recover but the family drama that comes from having someone sick and in the hospital for this long is really wearing me down. Not to mention, of course, how much it sucks that she is so sick and we are worried that her employer might let her go after her FMLA is up.

Also, we are scheduled to close on our house this Friday and the stupid underwriter keeps asking for more and more information and documentation about a stupid deposit to my checking account that was made before we even decided to buy a house! It was a cash deposit from my husband for his part of our rent (we don?t have a joint checking account) so it?s hard to provide a paper trail. Why they care, I don?t even know since it was at the beginning of freaking June and has nothing to do with the purchase of this house. I guess you?re not allowed to deposit money into your bank account!

I completely hear you! We are supposed to settle a week from tomorrow and the same thing with deposits, etc. because my DH refuses to direct deposit so he always has to give me the money to put into the joint account. Twice he gave me cash because once he couldn't find his checkbook after moving to our temp housing until the house was ready and the second he had a bunch of cash from bartending (his 2nd job) for a few weeks and didn't feel like depositing it himself. So I hear you! Also my mortgage company keeps loosing my info I send them. They have now asked for the stuff 5 times! DH keeps yelling at them because DH runs a mortgage company and knows you just don't do that!

Side note: We are not using DH's company because in order to get the incentives for the new house we have to use their company and they suck! So does the title company who refuses to move our settlement time from noon to anything later because "it is summertime and they like to leave early" that is excatly what they told DH.

PenelopePond · July 2011

My sister in law is pregnant. That's cool. I can't wait to be an aunt again. But it's her attitude about getting pregnant. Her and I went off birth control at the same time (we didn't know each other was trying) and on her first cycle she got pregnant. Well I am two weeks behind her cycle wise so she said "Well it really isn't that hard to get pregnant as long as you have sex close to when you ovulate."

I know I haven't been trying long so I'm not super upset, but just the way she said that bugged me.

almostapearl · July 2011

huskymomma94:
TTGP related: My chart. WTF is going on.

Non-TTGP related: My grandfather is really sick. I am so worried and stressed and can't focus at work.

So sorry to hear about your grandfather, hope he gets better soon!

almostapearl · July 2011

My complaint: I know I didn't get KU last cycle 'cause DH was OOT during the majority of my fertile time. Well, DH is going OOT again (on business again) tomorrow and doesn't get back until late Fri. He's then going to be gone that following Mon to see a cousin before the cousin deploys...I could very well O on that Monday (or sooner??) but hopefully it'll be later so that I don't miss my fertile window AGAIN. Otherwise, if I think I am O'ing on that Mon, I might have him wake me up in the middle of the night when he gets back that night. (and of course BD the Sat and/or Sun before that Mon) Smile

KLN1179 · July 2011

I am so frustrated! I am on CD 2 of cycle 13. I am now trying to decide what to do. I called my insurance company today to see if they will cover an HSG. They told me they cannot give me that information without a code. So I called my doctor's office to get the code. They did tell me that it is listed under IF. So that means that my insurance will not cover anything. I also got a bill for bloodwork that I had done in June for $1611. The place where I had the blood draw coded it as IF instead of irregular periods so I had to call my Endo's office to have them mail my records to my insurance company! Of course everywhere I call, I have to leave a freakin' message after I push a hundred buttons to finally get to a person! OMG, will this ever end!!!!!!

CallieSam · July 2011

Rvnsgrl81:
CallieSam:

My mom has been really sick for the past 6 weeks (long story) and she is starting to recover but the family drama that comes from having someone sick and in the hospital for this long is really wearing me down. Not to mention, of course, how much it sucks that she is so sick and we are worried that her employer might let her go after her FMLA is up.

Also, we are scheduled to close on our house this Friday and the stupid underwriter keeps asking for more and more information and documentation about a stupid deposit to my checking account that was made before we even decided to buy a house! It was a cash deposit from my husband for his part of our rent (we don?t have a joint checking account) so it?s hard to provide a paper trail. Why they care, I don?t even know since it was at the beginning of freaking June and has nothing to do with the purchase of this house. I guess you?re not allowed to deposit money into your bank account!

I completely hear you! We are supposed to settle a week from tomorrow and the same thing with deposits, etc. because my DH refuses to direct deposit so he always has to give me the money to put into the joint account. Twice he gave me cash because once he couldn't find his checkbook after moving to our temp housing until the house was ready and the second he had a bunch of cash from bartending (his 2nd job) for a few weeks and didn't feel like depositing it himself. So I hear you! Also my mortgage company keeps loosing my info I send them. They have now asked for the stuff 5 times! DH keeps yelling at them because DH runs a mortgage company and knows you just don't do that!

Side note: We are not using DH's company because in order to get the incentives for the new house we have to use their company and they suck! So does the title company who refuses to move our settlement time from noon to anything later because "it is summertime and they like to leave early" that is excatly what they told DH.

I'm glad it's not just me! I'm afraid to do anything to prepare for the move in case it doesn't happen! I mean, I can't imagine they would stop the whole deal over this one deposit but it is really making me nervous.

willamina28 · July 2011

CD63 = still no AF.

makes me mad. waaa! Super Angry

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