Do you think it is better to have a long prodromal labor vs dilating/effacing in just a few days?
I dilated to almost 6 cms and was completely effaced without "being in labor" but had a csection. I was miserable, having contractions and back pain all the times, besides the fact that it doesn't feel very comfortable to be so open down there.
But I am getting really sick of hearing how "lucky" I am to not have had to go through labor.
Re: Long prodromal labor
I've talked to many different women about the whole vaginal delivery vs c-section delivery.
I had a 22 hour labour, progressed very slow in the beginning (induction) and then fast at the end. My sister had an emergency c-section when she went into pre-term labour, different situation, but she still had a section. I would HATE to have to go through the recovery that she is going through. She can't even pick up my daughter whenever she comes to visit because of the section. She has to sit down and then I have to hand her to her, because she's over my sisters limit of what she should be lifting.
Regardless of what type of labour you have, it's painful, and there is a recovery period. I don't think one is "easier" than the other.
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