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FHs still irk me! (vent)

nekillonekillo
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I thought once I was pregnant again the bitter anger that comes with seeing FHs who don't appreciate their pregnancy and the true miracle would be easier to brush off, but *sigh* it's not. 

Last night I was helping out at the waterski show and a certain FH who has irked me for several reasons was there.  She has been posting on FB that she hopes her baby comes any day.  She has been posting things like this since early May.  Earlier in the year she was posting that she wished she wasn't pregnant so she could ski.  I understand that she just has a poor way with words but it drove me nuts.  

She is due end of July, (about a week after my bday, and 6 weeks after my first EDD)   She had the nerve to text me and say, "I could have my baby on your birthday!"  This wouldn't have bugged me except she was the first person I told about my first pregnancy (literally as the pee dried on the stick) but after my m/c she never offered any support or condolences; and actually admitted that she was afraid that thinking about me and my m/c would have caused her to m/c so she "Hoped I understood why she was so distant".   GRRRR... needless to say we aren't friends anymore!  

I am just so annoyed that actually seeing her last night and hearing her complain about how "miserable being pregnant in the summer is" i almost wanted to cry!  (GIve me a break, we have had a total of 7 days over 70 degrees and 2 days over 80 so far this year... it's friggen Wisconsin!  You are a SAHM and sit in your a/c house all day!)

 

OK vent over, I just had to get that out!  

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Re: FHs still irk me! (vent)

  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis
    She sounds like a peach.  How obnoxious!
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  • ksulliksulli member
    Yeah, they don't get any easier to stomach, even when you're pregnant again. She sounds like a joy.
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  • alexa08alexa08
    There are a few choice words I'd like to say about her, but it's not polite.  I'm sorry she's such an insensitive ___ and that you've had to interact with her.
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    Ug. That sounds super annoying. I get jealous of FHs who have the luxury of a carefree pregnancy.
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