so today i asked my boss about maternity leave. he said i will only get one month off. Kinda bummed and upset about it because most companies I have worked for before get anywhere from 3 to 6 months off paid. Since I work for a small company that only employs 6 people including the 2 owners. FMLA does not apply to our company. Just wondering what you are getting and what you are planning to do after you have baby. How many months you plan to be off and when you anticpate going back to work. I think it riduclous that they are going to give me only 1 month. The baby will only be 4 weeks when I come back. My boss' wife just has a baby so I thought he would be more understanding.
Re: 1 month maternity leave
It is actually more the norm for moms to get unpaid leave or have shorter leaves. I consider my maternity leave to be quite a benefit considering what the situation was the first two times.
I'm self-employed, so I'll start working again pretty quickly - I just can't afford to have a long leave since I'm paying for it myself.I won't be full-time immediately, but I expect to be spending time at the computer within a week or two.
Is the one month paid? If so, for a company that's under no legal obligation to offer you leave let alone hold your job for you if you take time off, it seems pretty generous. The office has six people - I doubt they could go several months without someone to do your job (and probably can't pay both you and someone else like a temp to do it for you, either).
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I'm a public school teacher and I don't get ANY time off paid.
I have to use my vacation time if I want to get paid. We do use FMLA, so I can take 12 weeks but I won't get any pay. I've been with the same school district for 6 years and have been saving my state and local days for this reason. I will be paid for all of my leave since I've saved up time.
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I work for the Gov and they don't provide any maternity leave. I can use my personal sick/annual and FMLA though. I plan on taking off untill 1 Feb pending Wyatt's birthday. If he comes right around when he is due that is the plan, it puts me at about 8 weeks off and has me returning on a Wed, which I think will be easier than a Monday.
But either way I plan on taking anywhere from 6-8 weeks. It helps that Christmas and New Years are all within that time frame. Gives me a few extra days to play with.
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This probably won't be of any help to you, but here in Canada we get 1 year maternity leave. It is paid at 55% of your regular earnings and you have to have 600 hours worked before you are eligible.
I wanted to tell all you moms that live in the US that I don't know how you do it (going back to work with such a little baby at home)! I commend you on that! I can't imagine, you are very strong women to be able to do that! Women definately don't get enough credit for everything we do!!
I will only get what sick/vacation time I have but I will be using FMLA and taking 12 weeks off no matter what. With my DS I ended up getting really sick and going to the hospital several times so I got catistrophic illness pay which covered all but 30 days of my leave. Don't get me wrong I would hate to get sick again but it was nice to have paid time off.
I'm in the same boat, except I'll just be starting my 3rd year where I am, so I will only have 36 sick days I can apply to the FMLA to get paid. I'll have 3 personal days on top of that, but I definitely don't want to use them all, just in case I need days to take baby to the dr or in case I get sick after I return. If I deliver around when I'm due (which luckily falls over Christmas break), I should be able to take 6 weeks off (which will be more like 8 because of 2 school vacations) and still have a few days just in case.
Same here. Did this last time and will do it again.
I work for a very small company and honestly I have yet to breech the subject with them. I am not "entitled" to any time off, never mind paid leave. Paid leave is pretty rare in the states (sadly). If you feel like it's not a lot of time and you need more, maybe try negotiating with your boss? If it's not essential for you to be in the office physically you could propose a day (or 2 1/2 days) to work remotely from home, or you could work 4 10-hour days....or back down to 75% time.
Try being creative, and as long as you can do your job to the fullest and maintain your level of work, maybe your boss will be willing to flex a little.
I'll get off as much time as the doctor deems necessary (6w for regular delivery 8w with complications). All I'm guaranteed is to have my job back when I get back. I will not be getting any pay while out.
Why don't you look into short term disability insurance?
My work only give 6 weeks maternity, but then I can take 6 addition weeks through disability.
In Turkey by law we get 16 weeks (18 for multiples) which starts up to 8 weeks before the due date. I'll start mine 2 weeks before the due date. Plus we get "milk" leave which is 1.5 hours a day for the first year, which compresses to about 20 or so days. This is all paid. The last 2 months of the school year I will take unpaid leave.
I feel a lot of respect for you mommas who will be going back to work so quickly. I remember when my sister had her first, she had to go back after 8 weeks, and she cried for weeks every time she had to drop my niece off. It was so hard for her.
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