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Anyone dealing with two BM's / BF's?

PhantomgirlPhantomgirl member
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Kudos to you.

The thought of it makes me want to jump out the window.

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Re: Anyone dealing with two BM's / BF's?

  • NikkiJ19NikkiJ19

    Two BM's for me and I wouldn't recommend it. Tons of times I think how much easier it would be if all the kids had the same mom. The BM's have actually talked trash about the other kids when they argue (like all siblings do). If it was one BM they wouldn't do that.

    On the other hand it is just like all of the other blended family stuff. You learn how to deal with what you have.

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  • J&A2008J&A2008 member

    Agreed, Phantom. 

    Props to you, NikkiJ!

    Stay at home mom to a house of boys: two amazing stepsons, 12 and 9, and our 4 year old.
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  • juliettoddjuliettodd
    imagePhantomgirl:

    The thought of it makes me want to jump out the window.

    Yes LMBO!

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  • urmyantichristurmyantichrist
    We don't have 2 of either, BUT we do have to deal with a BM and a BF. They're both headache enough for at least 2 of each..lol
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  • shellygreen728shellygreen728
    I deal with two BF's and one BM....The BF of the two oldest has his issues and the BF of the the other has his issues which are both totally different.  of course i also have to deal with both of the wives, which one is ok and the other sucks. BM is not bad at all.  Sometimes they do make me want to jump out a window.
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  • oneday4usoneday4us

    ME! And Phantom if you could raise that pane of glass a little higher I might just jump myself ;-) !

    It's exhausting to say the least.

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  • wwnbwwwnbw member
    I have to deal with two BM's. It is awful just awful. One is much easier to deal with than the other but it's still no fun.
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  • mommie-to-be-0809mommie-to-be-0809
    Yes, I deal with 2 BM's for my 4 SK's. 3 from 1 BM and 1 from the other BM. It totally sucks. The BM's are always trash talking the other and talking about the kids which totally just blows my mind!
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  • littlestbear03littlestbear03 member
    Two BMs here to deal with too. Ones great and the other...ugh. It would be Sooo much easier to just have one, the good one ;-)!
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