Heard back from the Insurance Co.

crystalknpp · June 2011

and DH and I are approved to proceed with IVF w/o having to do 3 IUI's first! I'm so relieved but now I'm having a hard time with our decision to wait one more cycle before doing IVF. I know its the smart decision to wait until after were done buying and moving into our house but my heart keeps telling me to just go for it. Since today is CD1 we need to make our final decision about waiting or not. DH is now pretty 100% on waiting so I really don't think that's going to change. I'm just nervous that there is always going to be reason to "put it off for just one more cycle".

DesiraeSunshine · June 2011

i completely understand wanting to go ahead and do it now.

im going to pose this question for you. would you feel you would blame yourseelf if it didnt work? IVF was very emotional for me andi dont knowif with all those hormones i could handle all of those extra stressful emotions that come with moving. (i hate moving).

also but dont forget..... stims enlarge the ovaries. no lifting! i also couldnt bend over. but if you can get out of packing, unpcking, and moving everything...bonus.

sorry bumping from my droid.

crystalknpp · June 2011

DesiraeSunshine:

i completely understand wanting to go ahead and do it now.

im going to pose this question for you. would you feel you would blame yourseelf if it didnt work? IVF was very emotional for me andi dont knowif with all those hormones i could handle all of those extra stressful emotions that come with moving. (i hate moving).

also but dont forget..... stims enlarge the ovaries. no lifting! i also couldnt bend over. but if you can get out of packing, unpcking, and moving everything...bonus.

sorry bumping from my droid.

Deep down I know it's smarter to wait. We don't want our families to know were doing IVF incase it doesn't work and it would be kind of hard to make up excuses as to why I'm not helping move things into my own house. I just want to be KU again so badly I think I'm letting it cloud my judgement. To answer your question if it didn't work, yes I would probably blame myself and all the stress I was under from the move. Thank you so much for the advice!

gina&dave07 · June 2011

Good news about IVF! As much as I want to move on and be KU again, I think I would wait. ((HUGS))

ClaraEarlene · June 2011

That's such good news! I'm sorry you have to wait another cycle, but I'm sure it will fly by with all the moving activities.

chicadelpadre · June 2011

ClaraEarlene:
That's such good news! I'm sorry you have to wait another cycle, but I'm sure it will fly by with all the moving activities.

I agree. The waiting sucks, but it should go faster since you'll be so busy and occupied.

sweepie412 · June 2011

That is fantastic news! You have so much going on this next month will fly by!

MrsJC · June 2011

Yay! Good luck making your decisions, and FX for a successful IVF!

jenniesue · June 2011

That is so great! Hooray for insurance companies for once! I know it is hard waiting but hopefully it will go by fast.

rock-elle · June 2011

::Siggy Warning::

I'm so glad your insurance will cover this part of your journey. I truly, truly hope that this will bring your take home baby home to this new house of yours and and most importantly home to your arms. **hugs**

IMO, DH can wait ONE cycle, after that you are in charge Cool

crystalknpp · June 2011

rock-elle:

::Siggy Warning::

I'm so glad your insurance will cover this part of your journey. I truly, truly hope that this will bring your take home baby home to this new house of yours and and most importantly home to your arms. **hugs**

IMO, DH can wait ONE cycle, after that you are in charge

Hi love! Thank you so much. I really hope this is it for us as well. I can't believe how far along you are already! Your LO will be here in no time!

rock-elle · June 2011

crystalknpp:
rock-elle:

::Siggy Warning::

I'm so glad your insurance will cover this part of your journey. I truly, truly hope that this will bring your take home baby home to this new house of yours and and most importantly home to your arms. **hugs**

IMO, DH can wait ONE cycle, after that you are in charge

Hi love! Thank you so much. I really hope this is it for us as well. I can't believe how far along you are already! Your LO will be here in no time!

Yes, and your sweet @ss will be back KTFU again in no time!!! I just know it Big Smile

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