TTC After a Loss

Well I'm back, my stay at PGAL was very short :(

Well on the Tuesday, the 14th I was so happy to see my BFP. I went to the doctor on Thursday, the 16th and she drew blood and just talked with me and told me that if I started spotting to call her and she would call me in some progesterone suppositories and sure enough that evening I started spotting. I immediately called the doctor couldn't get anyone (nurse, doctor, anyone!) I kept calling all day and leaving about 3 voicemails and tried to talk to the nurse direct and no one would let me! So the nurse called Friday and told me she got my blood work back and said my HCG and Progesterone were extremely low. My HCG was 19 and Progesterone was 1.3. The nurse told me there was nothing they could do and that I was most likely going to miscarry. And of course she was right and late Friday night I started bleeding heavy and cramping. It was one of the worst days of my life. I was so aggrivated that I tried and tried calling and no one cared to call me back or let me talk to the doctor or nurse even when I told them my situation. I believe I have already just about passed everthing. I go Wednesday to get my blood work done again to make sure my levels are dropping and go back to the doctor for a follow up on the 30th of this month. Has anyone been in a situation like mine? What will the doctor do next? All I take now it my vitamins and 81 mg of Aspirin a day.
8 early m/c 1 IUI ended up in m/c Currently doing IVF/ICIS/PGS TESTING ER 2-10-13 (18retrieved,13fertilized, 11embryos, and 6 made it to day 5) FET in March 2013 if any are normal from PGS testing ?
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  • Oh sweety- I am so sorry.  I just came back as well.  Big ::HUGS:: to you

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  • I am so sorry dear. (big hugs) I don't know what the Dr will do for you next, hopefully you'll get some answers.
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  • Big ((((Hugs)))) to you, i'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry you're here. :(

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Big HUGS!
  • I'm so sorry you're back here. I hope you can get some answers soon.

    I had early bleeding with my first (very short) PG - I had a low progesterone issue and once we found out I started taking supplements (orally) after O to help. Now my P4 (progesterone) numbers are good and I also got PG again (see siggy) on Progesterone and for a longer time.

    I hope this helps.

    (((((((((((((((((hugs to you))))))))))))))))

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    8w loss 4/15/11 - EDD November 2011
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    4w c/p loss 10/29/12 - EDD July 2013

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  • I am so sorry to hear about this :( Wishing you a supportive and quick recovery.
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  • I'm so sorry!!

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  • I am so sorry you are back.  I just came back last week.  It really does suck.

    ((BIG HUGE HUGS)).

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  • I am so sorry *hug*It's not fair.
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. T & P are with you.
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  • I am so sorry hun!! It sounds like my c/p that I had. Luckily with a c/p, you usually do not have to take a TTA break and can TTC right away again. {{{hugs}}}


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  • I am so sorry that you're back. It sucks. But we will accept you with open arms.
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  • Oh LoLo, I am so very sorry for your loss and for the staff at your OBs office not being responsive to you. I was rooting for this to be your take home baby. ((((Big Hugs)))) I hope you get to leave us again for PgAL again soon!
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    I'm so sorry you're back. :(
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  • I'm so sorry!  ((huge hugs!!))
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  • I'm so sorry you have to be back here.  Big hugs.
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  • So sorry for your loss.  Hugs to you. 
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  • I am so sorry. Big big hugs.

     

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  • I haven't been in your situation, but wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss.  No one should have to come back here.
  • *hugs*  I'm so sorry, sweetie!!  You're in my T & P!!!
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  • I'm so sorry you had to come back.  No one should have to go through this again.  Big hugs to you.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. the unresponsiveness from your OBs office is unacceptable & I am sure will be nothing you will ever forgive. sending T&Ps your way.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. No one should have to be here and that sucks about your doctor. I haven't been in your situation but I hope you get some answers soon.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and that you're are returning here. It breaks my heart. Please take care of yourself. ((big hugs))
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    It's just not fair.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))

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  • I'm so sorry you are back here :( Hugs.
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  • welcome and I'm sorry you are back. hopefully the stay is short but sweet.

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    I'm so sorry. My second loss was very similar to that. Once my hcg got below 5, my OB had me go in for the repeat loss blood tests (chromosomal analysis for me and DH, testing for clotting disorders). After I get AF, I will have a HSG test. I hope your follow-up appointment goes well next week!
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  I paged you on PGAL yesterday, now I know why you didn't answer meCrying.  Are you going to look for a different OB??  I am furious at their office for you.  Sending you (((humongous hugs)))... take care of yourself.
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    I am so, so sorry! No idea what they will do but you could request a RPL and also ask of progesterone to start 3dpo so you don't have to wait until it's low to hope it will help. (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so sorry for your losses. (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry. How frustrating to not be able to get a hold of anyone. During my miscarriage I was so angry that no one would talk to me. I felt less important because my baby wasn't going to live. I ended up telling my OB that. That office deserves to know how you feel. **Hugs**
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  • I'm sorry you're back.  You're living my worst fear right now.  Thinking of you!
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  • I'm so sorry!! I would talk to the doc's at the office and let them know how hard of a time that you had getting in touch with them. I would go somewhere else if they don't think that is a problem that will never happen again (I am a nurse... that is unacceptable.) Huge hugs to you.
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