My friend's son is around 4 months old and has been EBF, but she needs him to take a bottle now and he wants NOTHING to do with it.
They've tried having other people give him the bottle and they've tried a couple different brands (I think Dr. Brown's and Avent), but no luck.
Isn't there some bottle out there that is supposed to be really good for this transition? I can picture it in my head...like the nipple is really big and round (kinda like a boob)? I just can't think of the brand. I just did a quick google search and can't find what I'm thinking of.
Any suggestions or tips I can give her?
Re: introducing a bottle (need help for a friend ASAP!)
Maybe you're thinking of the Breastflow? They're available at BRU (I think).
I have no advice for your friend - but plenty of "been there!" sympathy. DH and I tried EVERYthing under the sun...methods and locations and positions and bottle types and people, distractions, withholding nursing ("if they're hungry enough, they'll take the bottle" - that's a giant load of BS), formula types and breastmilk, etc. If one single person on the internetz recommended something, I gave it a shot. Neither kid took a bottle until they were 8 and 9 months, respectively. DD was taking a sippy before she took the bottle. Both kids ended up liking the cheap Playtex drop-in systems with the ?latex? (brown) nipple best. Luckily I didn't have a job I had to get back to, because I honestly don't know what I would've done. I'm not exaggerating to say that both DD and DS probably would've gone all day without eating an ounce. I hate to sound pessimistic, but your friend may be out of luck (or at least has a majorly uphill battle) if her DS is as stubborn as my kids were.
is the Mom out of the room when they try? the baby can smell her so it's best if she is not there. Maybe even out of the house!
I once met a Mom at an LLL meeting who had to quit her job b/c her baby would not take a bottle. I was in total shock, there is no way I'd go to that extreme. It's mean but if the baby is hungry enough, the baby will eventually take the bottle!
One mom at LLL swears by the Breast Flow bottles.
Check this out: https://www.kellymom.com/bf/pumping/alternative-feeding.html. If baby won't take a bottle, there are other options.
More Green For Less Green
If she does get him to take a bottle eventually, she should keep giving one to him every few days so he stays used to it.
we tried numerous bottles on DS and he went for the Platex drop ins w/ the brown, really soft nipple. We never looked back. DS was also one of those that never took a bottle until 4 months. I freaked out because I knew I was going back to work. One morning I woke up and gave him a bottle of BM and he guzzled it down.