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What's your opinion on this?

nanabanana06nanabanana06
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I have been dating a guy for a few months now. He and I have known each other for 8 years. We dated back in high school and due to issues at home I moved away. Well now we have picked things back up. Well, he really loves R. They get along wonderfully. 

However, the issue is that things are getting more serious. He wants to start having me spend the night with him more often. Well, thats a wee bit difficult  with R. I can't be getting a babysitter overnight every week. So D has gotten a pack n play for his house. R is 10 months old. We have spent the night at like my dads before. Is this any different? I want to spend more time with him. He wants to be apart of R's life. We are already talking about moving in together in a few months. So what your opinion?

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Re: What's your opinion on this?

  • PrincessFiona9PrincessFiona9 member
    I would do it if my SO had his own place (lives with his sister, BIL and 3 big dogs) so there really just isn't any room for me to bring DD and all of the baby accoutrements with me when I go to his house. I've only been able to stay with him twice when my parents have been able to watch DD. He usually stays with me one night a week on the weekend and we see each other during the day once or twice per week. He wants to move in together this fall, but I'd rather wait till next spring. After the trainwreck of my relationship with EX, I'm not rushing into anything.
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  • evanheuvelnevanheuveln

    Go for it! 

     DD and I stayed at my BF's only once... took the PnP over there and it went well. He stays at my house more then he stays at his house now.... I don't really remember the last time he slept in his own bed (maybe late April) 

    Its not a big deal if you don't  make it one.. She'll be fine sleeping in the PnP at his house. 

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  • LeCarverLeCarver
    Do what your heart says and what feels right to you..nobody else
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