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BD while pregnant....

Msteach09Msteach09
in February 2012 Moms

So- maybe Im just weird, but before we got KU DH and I were BDing all the time! Lately, like since we found out we were pregnant, I just havent really been into it. At night is when my symptoms are the worst, and when waking up I have to eat right away or I get sick. He is at work all day, and until recently so was I.

Im just curious if anyone else is experiencing the same thing or if Im just being mean? LOL.

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  • Kyle523NicoleKyle523Nicole member

    I think everyone is different.  DH and I never really had a super active sex life - until after our BFP.  Now we're doing it almost 3 times a week!!  

    I think so long as you both still have very open communication and he is understanding that right now you just don't feel up to it (or much else, probably!) then you are just fine and no one is being mean.  It's all about talking it out :)

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  • mrh207mrh207 member

    So this may seem silly.. BUT:

     With my previous m/c all my spotting showed after we would have sex.  So this time, we're not doing anything until we get the viability scan & hopefully get the dreaded 'high risk' title taken away.

     DH & are are really open and communication is great he has been really understanding.

    I'm definetly interested, I'm just scared b/c of the previous m/c... Thank GOODNESS our first appoitment is coming up soon!

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  • anigirl16anigirl16
    It really hasn't changed for us. I do have to say that I check to make sure I am not spotting after.
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  • jessieLMKjessieLMK
    different ladies have different BD trends during pregnancy.  for the most part, i've heard the 2nd tri is usually the most sexually active, because the sickness has waned mostly, and the bump isnt so big that it makes everything impossible.  we have BD'ed only twice (we are usually 3-4x per week, schedules permitting), only because i am worried about spotting.  we just took it a lot slower those two times.  it was more for DH's benefit.
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  • keyourtneekeyourtnee member
    We just found out on Monday and haven't had sex all week. Im just so nervous. Maybe Ill throw him a BJ or something this weekend... lol 
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  • Brownie_1234Brownie_1234 member
    We're more weekenders, so things haven't changed for us.

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  • mariekl04mariekl04
    imagemrh207:

    So this may seem silly.. BUT:

     With my previous m/c all my spotting showed after we would have sex.  So this time, we're not doing anything until we get the viability scan & hopefully get the dreaded 'high risk' title taken away.

     DH & are are really open and communication is great he has been really understanding.

    I'm definetly interested, I'm just scared b/c of the previous m/c... Thank GOODNESS our first appoitment is coming up soon!

     

    This for us as well. My hubby is the one who insisted on waiting until after the baby is here which, i'll have to admit, i thought was going to be really difficult, but seeing him so concerned and really wanting this baby to be healthy, i'll do whatever to ease his mind :)  

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  • buckeyebaby814buckeyebaby814 member
    My hormones are raging for it, but I am scared because of my previous m/c.  I know sex won't cause a m/c, I just do not want to give my body any opportunity to spot/ bleed and scare me.  We'll probably wait until after the 1st u/s, until then, we take care of business other ways ;)

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    imagekeyourtnee:
    We just found out on Monday and haven't had sex all week. Im just so nervous. Maybe Ill throw him a BJ or something this weekend... lol 

    I just lol. Hilarious.

    We do it 3-4 times a week. It has slowed since he works 13 hour days starting right after my BFP. It's hard when I am pregnant because I am so dang tired and by the time we get our son into bed (around 8-9) I am usually ready for bed. I am not scared though. I have had several miscarriages. I have had them out running errands, directly after an ultrasound, sitting at work....if it's going to happen, it is going to happen. Sex or no sex. Get it on girls! Ha ha. (I also haven't ever spotted after so that helps too)

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    imagekeyourtnee:
    We just found out on Monday and haven't had sex all week. Im just so nervous. Maybe Ill throw him a BJ or something this weekend... lol 

    I'm in this boat. I'm afraid that something will happen. We stopped having sex in the 2ww, and haven't done it again yet. Took so long just to get this baby, I don't want to mess it up. I know that's probably silly, but I'm paranoid.

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  • PegletPeglet member
    My sex drive has definitely been low. I'm tired and nauseous and things are pretty dry down there so it just combines to me not being excited to get it on...although when we do, things are great, just need a little lube sometimes. I'll be excited to be back to my old self in second tri hopefully.
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  • Msteach09Msteach09

    imagekeyourtnee:
    We just found out on Monday and haven't had sex all week. Im just so nervous. Maybe Ill throw him a BJ or something this weekend... lol 

     

    HAHAHA! I was thinking the same thing! Keep them happy!

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  • karleegirlkarleegirl member
    imagekeyourtnee:
    We just found out on Monday and haven't had sex all week. Im just so nervous. Maybe Ill throw him a BJ or something this weekend... lol 
    I threw dh one last night. I almost vomitted on him twice but it still worked for him. So all is well here.
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