Update on me!

MOHjen · June 2011

First off I just have thank all of you for the amazing support and words of encouragement both here and via messages on Facebook. I can't even begin to tell you how much it has meant to me.

I went to the doctor yesterday and it was GREAT! She was so supportive and honest and understanding. We are going to try some medication and therapy and I'm going to see her every few weeks to assess. She is totally willing to write me a note to take some time off of work. I've given it a lot of thought and I'm not sure I'm ready for that yet, but I like having that option in my back pocket. There are some really amazing things happening at work right now that are the result of all my hard work. So I'd really like to see that through. I did decide to talk to my boss and let her know that I need a better work/life balance and see if we can figure something out without using the doctor's note.

So while I'm still having a tough time, I can see that there might be a light at the end of the tunnel eventually. So that's something.

Plus my H is being incredibly supportive. After I went to the doctor, I went out and ran errands and spent some time alone and when I got home he has cleaned our bathrooms! I could get used to that.

But seriously, thank you so much for the support!!

Maddimom · June 2011

YEAH!!!! Great job J for taking care of yourself. I'm glad you are feeling better. I hope you can get some balance with work. You rock!!!!

dawnies79 · June 2011

I am SO glad to hear that you have a plan and are taking care of yourself. Reading your post really made me smile. I too have battled depression and I know the feeling of relief when you realize there is a light at the end of that tunnel.

KNemo · June 2011

I am so glad that you are finding the support that you so need and deserve! I am also glad that you found such an awesome doctor. I hope things start balancing out for you soon, both at home and at work!

Alli923 · June 2011

That's great news!!! Sounds like you have an awesome support system, and hopefully your boss will be understanding and you guys can figure out a better situation.

And, huge props to you for taking action. That can be the hardest thing sometimes, but it will be SO worth it in the end when you start to feel like yourself again.

kristalovesjared · June 2011

Good for you!

MrsKatie · June 2011

Oh I'm so happy to hear this! I hope that the plan you and your doc have come up with will help! What a great feeling to see light at the end of the tunnel.

iHeartHimMore · June 2011

I'm so, so glad to hear this! I've been thinking about you a lot and I hope that you are able to find a good balance and relax a bit!

MSTie24 · June 2011

That is so fantastic, Jen! You are an awesome mom, a great person and I'm sure a very hard worker and good employee. I am so glad that you are feeling good about getting back on track and hopefully your boss will be accommodating to letting you step back a bit to get things under control. A good doc is worth their weight in gold and that's great you've found one who has been so helpful already. And yay for your H being so awesome! Lots of hugs to you (and Maeve, of course!)

keri1013 · June 2011

I'm so glad to hear this! I have been thinking about you a lot and I'm happy to hear you got good support from your doc and have a plan in place. I hope your boss is equally supportive and I'm sending lots of be healthy vibes to Maeve. Big Smile

We're here for you any time!

StellaZ · June 2011

MOHjen:
I did decide to talk to my boss and let her know that I need a better work/life balance and see if we can figure something out without using the doctor's note.

Great idea, I hope this goes well!

massagegirly · June 2011

Good for you Jenn!!! I am proud of you that you took that step. I know it can be hard but there are so many options to make things better. Keep us updated!

blueLu25 · June 2011

That's great news J! So glad you are getting support from so many people!

zazzu · June 2011

It's really good to hear that you talked to your employer about establishing a balance. I hope things simmer down soon for you.

rachel927 · June 2011

That's great news J! I am so glad that you had a good talk with your Dr and that she was so supportive! I hope your boss is able to be flexible and help you balance work. You can hear the relief in your voice through this post!

newmommy74 · June 2011

That's great news Jen! And awesone that your H is helping out a bit more...hope he continues it

skenyon · June 2011

Glad to hear your doc is being supportive. Hang in there and take care of yourself.

doublem · June 2011

Wow - you got on that project quickly. Good for you! It also really helps that you have such a positive outlook on the situation. Keep us updated on how you're doing and if you need any help at all!

mrssmith717 · June 2011

I'm so glad to hear that things are looking up, Jen. It makes a huge difference to have some alone time and some people listening to your thoughts and supporting you!

Let me know if you need anything.

MrsEditorJax · June 2011

I am so glad that you took the step of getting help and it sounds like your doctor is great. I am thrilled for you that you have some options now, and yay for husbands that clean bathrooms! Huge hugs to you!