my update

MKFC · June 2011

I don't even know where to start! Yesterday was the longest most terrifying day ever. It was one of my worste and one of my best days ever.

I woke up and was getting ready for work. All of the sudden I felt something strange and ran to the bathroom. I had the most horrible bleeding. It was bright red (scary!) and tons of it (scary!). I immediately called my husband and then my doctor's office.

I of course was crying uncontrollably at this point. That is a scary enough thing to experience, but if you just had a miscarriage three months ago... it is extra terrifying.

Fast forward through the day.... I had an appointment at 1pm. I had a urine test, ultrasound, and bloodwork. I was terrified and angry and just wanted to get in and get out. I knew what was coming and didn't want to be around all the happy pregnant people in the waiting room.

I laid down for my ultrasound and let her get started. First thing she says? You ARE pregnant and here is the heartbeat. Then she lets us HEAR the heartbeat!!! I was completely speechless!!! (heartbeat was 129, by the way). Everything was measuring perfectly at 6w3d which is exactly where I should be date-wise. She said that the ultrasound was absolutely great.

The reason for the bleeding is a "bruise" type spot in my uterus. It is either from implantation, sex, or heavy lifting. She said the spot is actually bigger than the baby at this point so I will continue to see some bleeding while it heals.

We were so shocked. SO, we ended up turning that appointment into my pregnancy confirmation appointment, which I had scheduled for next Tuesday. Luckily though, they're letting me keep my appointment for Tuesday just so I can go in for another ultrasound just for peace of mind.

Long story short- after a very scary day, I saw my perfectly healthy baby Now we're just praying that things stay healthy and good. Fingers crossed!!

I just wanted to share this story because it is reassuring that not all bleeding (even if it is a lot, and bright red) automatically means miscarriage. Obviously that isn't always the case, but sometimes we could use some good news.

anardi · June 2011

So happy to hear this!!!

emmasue18 · June 2011

This is awesome! I'm crying---hormones! and I am so, so happy for you and your family. Take it easy!! What a joyous sound to hear the heartbeat of your baby! H&H!!

KSCoffman · June 2011

I'm so happy for you that it ended up being ok. That sounds so scary and can't imagine what you were going through.

mhbuttahs · June 2011

Wow, that is so scary. I'm so glad everything is ok!

girley75 · June 2011

Oh, wow!! Your story just made me tear up!! That is the best news EVER! Congratulations:) I keep reminding myself that God is in control, and he has a plan and purpose for my baby's life!

Marinewifey9200 · June 2011

That is so scary and I am glad everything is okay. Try to take it easy.

Luvmybella · June 2011

I'm so sorry you went through that ordeal. I got my last BFP and miscarried the same timeline as you. I also went to the ER yesterday for bleeding and everything checked out ok. No hb for me yet, but I'm a week behind you. I hope everything continues to progress for you and the bleeding tapers off quick.

MKFC · June 2011

Thank you for all the kind words everyone!!

Luvmybella:
I'm so sorry you went through that ordeal. I got my last BFP and miscarried the same timeline as you. I also went to the ER yesterday for bleeding and everything checked out ok. No hb for me yet, but I'm a week behind you. I hope everything continues to progress for you and the bleeding tapers off quick.

That is strange how similar our experiences have been! Glad that everything looked good for you yesterday after the bleeding. When do you get to go for an ultrasound to check for a heartbeat? Hope you won't have to wait too long!! Good luck!! I'll be thinking about you!