Bad day

buckeyebride22 · June 2011

So this has been my last few days....My mom and I have always gotten along. I never went through that phase where I didn't like her. I think I'm going through it now. It started when I got pregnant last Oct. DH and I weren't married yet and she kept asking if I started my period. And then I ended up having a MC. Fast forward a few months and she was so unsympathetic and didn't understand why I wasn't over it yet. I got yelled at if I brought it up. Now I'm finally pregnant and at first every time I brought it up she changes the subject. Now I wish she would because everytime I mention being pregnant she lectures me on working out, that I need to go back on weight watchers or "just not eat, the baby will be fine"!? Are you kidding me! And you wonder why I have a poor body image!

Then last night I try and take one for the team and do DH (sorry) and we wants me to get on top. I say no I'm to tired, I'm doing this for you. He continues to argue so I say just forget it. He freaking went and slept on the couch. I just got up and he's not here. I have no idea where he is. I want to text him, but if I do that's like saying his behavior is Ok KWIM? I feel like we're in freaking high school! Fighting about something so dumb! All I want to do is crawl back into bed and feel sorry for myself. Ok Aw over.

Jess.O · June 2011

((Hugs)) I'm sorry you're having such a rough day. I'd probably avoid my mom for awhile if she was behaving like yours is. As for DH, I'd just assume he's letting off steam somewhere.

I hope it gets better soon.

Msteach09 · June 2011

Im so sorry you have to go through this... I know its scary and the pressure isnt helping anything. Im sorry your mom is acting like that- maybe she is scared of another m/c? As for your DH- I think men are so out of the loop when it comes to this, and dont understand everything we are going through. I think maybe talking with him about everything and letting him know exactly how you feel, maybe even getting an expectant dad book might help? Thats what I did with DH so he could read it from a guy's perspective, helps to clarify that we arent making this up....

Hope this helps... and let us know how things go!

anardi · June 2011

I'm like a teenage girl - I snickered when I read "do DH".

I hope your day gets better and like a pp said hubbies have no idea what you are going through but talking to him will help!

missycrissy3 · June 2011

I feel you pain girlie. I do.. See post from yesterday. Im have some mom issues as well. I hope your day gets better and you guys work it out.

TLizzy · June 2011

I am sorry you are having a rotten day...hopefully it will turn around soon!

meaganbrand · June 2011

I can sympatize.. my mom wasn't even happy when I told her I was pregnant again. She was very quiet on the phone, and at the end said, "I hope it's not too soon" meaning she doesn't think I should already be pregnant again (the doctor on the other hand said, "i can't wait for you to be pregnant again). Being that my mom and I are really close and we arent telling anyone until after we're in the clear, I was extremely hurt too.

As for DH, mine gets upset sometimes too when he doesn't get any. But he doesn't leave the house without me knowing. He just won't talk to me, and if he does he is very sarcastic, which leads to him not getting any because I'm annoyed. Sometimes they just get grumpy. Just like we do. He'll get over it, I promise!!

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