It was a boy. I almost didn't want to know, but I knew I would always wonder. There was an extra copy of chromosome 22. I am almost glad something was wrong because at least we have an answer. Is that crazy?
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Re: Got our genetic testing back from my D&C :(
Diagnosed PCOS & MFI-Success with IUI
TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP
TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!
I completely understand not knowing if you really want to know. When they called with our CVS results and asked if I wanted to know the sex, I wanted to say no, but I knew I had to know since they had the answer. I'm happy I know because if I didn't I think I would feel like I was denying she existed, but at the same time I think it makes everything more real and a bit harder to cope with. Our daughter had Down Syndrome and I was actually a bit upset that it wasn't something "worse" because many babies survive with Downs and mine didn't.
I'm so sorry you are going through this!
IVF #1 - BFP (6dt)
Unassisted Pregnancy #2 - lost at 15w6d due to T21, severe heart defects, and fetal hydrops
Because we're fancy like that.
Amber
TTC since March '06
MFI, LPD, possible PCOS
3 chem pgs * m/c identical twins at 9w 10.06
IVF w/ICSI #2 - beta - 187! (9dp5dt), beta - 367! (11dp5dt)
IVF w/ICSI #3 - it's a girl!
My IF Blog: Between the Lines
My Parenting Blog: Letters From Your Mama
After 21 cycles, and severe MFI, we finally did it with IVF #1 w/ICSI! Nico arrived 12/3/08!!!
TTC for #2: IVF w/ICSI #2-4/17/10-BFN; IVF w/ICSI #3; 7/4/10-BFP!!! Beta #1- 96; Beta #2-528; Beta #3- 7371; 6w,5d-blited ovum=D&C
IUI #2 1/10/11-BFN; IUI #3 2/18/11-BFN
IVF #4 w/ICSI & PICSI ER 5/13/11, ET 5/1/118-BFP!! Natalee arrived on 1/23/12!!!!
Pregnancy Blog: Miracles Can Happen
Parenthood Blog: The Adventures of Nico & Natalee
I'm so sorry. I had a loss that was discovered at 13 weeks, but because it was a twin pregnancy, it wasn't possible to do any testing. I really wish I had that information. Even though it has been more than 3.5 years, I still think about that baby at least once a week. I wish I knew that something was definitely wrong and also whether it was a boy or a girl (so hard to say "it").
So, that's a long way of saying, no, I don't think that's crazy at all. (((hugs)))