Got our genetic testing back from my D&C :(

TxJen1972

It was a boy.  I almost didn't want to know, but I knew I would always wonder.  There was an extra copy of chromosome 22.  I am almost glad something was wrong because at least we have an answer.  Is that crazy?

Mouseygail

I would want to know too...and answers, no matter how sad they are, help me deal with things.  big hugs!! 

PhillySue

((hugs)) I am so sorry.  I was literally just about to  post the sme thing.   I know exactly how you feel.  We knew with my last miscarriage that it was a chromosomally abnormal male.  I just got my latest one back and it was normal male : (  It was "easier" when I knew what was wrong. 

BeccaLandes

No, I would want to know, too.  I think it would make me feel better to have an answer.

ALY1981

:(:(

desabean

I'm sorry.

kme930

(((hugs)))  I'm so sorry, but I would want to know as well. Hang in there.

+jenjen+

(((hugs)))

naflmj

Not at all, I always think having an answer is easier because either a) you can fix somethign or b) you know there was nothing you could have done differently to change the outcome.

Germanwife2b

I wanted to know too.  It gave me closure.  I hope this gives you your much needed closure so you can move on to whatever the next step is for you.

firsttogo

I am so sorry. I am glad you have a bit of closure, or can begin to have it. 

Carrie25

I am sorry, but I think I would want to know too.  I don't think it's crazy at all.  Like you said at least you have an answer!

pinkcallalily

I completely understand not knowing if you really want to know.  When they called with our CVS results and asked if I wanted to know the sex, I wanted to say no, but I knew I had to know since they had the answer.  I'm happy I know because if I didn't I think I would feel like I was denying she existed, but at the same time I think it makes everything more real and a bit harder to cope with.  Our daughter had Down Syndrome and I was actually a bit upset that it wasn't something "worse" because many babies survive with Downs and mine didn't.

I'm so sorry you are going through this!

DavezWife

I get that. I've had ones where I've known and knowledge was power to me. I'm sorry againg for your loss.

LVBlvd

I'm so sorry, sweetie.  I know I would want to know too.

ladychicago

I would also want to know...but I can only imagine how heartbreaking it is. I am so sorry.

schmoodle

I'm so sorry - and I don't think you're crazy at all, I would also be reassured something was "wrong" and at least have a reason for things. Big hugs.

queenbone

I'm sorry for your loss

j11skate

I would want to know too.  T&P's!

somethingchangd

I'm sorry.  It's not crazy to be thankful for a reason.  Not at all.  Hugs to you today.

JessandJeremy

I'm sorry.

JillRock96

I'm so sorry.  You're not crazy -- I would have felt the same way.

Courted

I am VERY Sorry!!!!  (((HUGS))))

newsbaby

Huge hugs.

crystalgirl

I'm so sorry. I had a loss that was discovered at 13 weeks, but because it was a twin pregnancy, it wasn't possible to do any testing. I really wish I had that information. Even though it has been more than 3.5 years, I still think about that baby at least once a week. I wish I knew that something was definitely wrong and also whether it was a boy or a girl (so hard to say "it").

So, that's a long way of saying, no, I don't think that's crazy at all.  (((hugs)))