In about a year and a half - I'd like them to be between 2 and 3 years apart. Closer to 3 if you ask me, closer to 2 if you ask DH.
I don't want to have 2 babies to look after at once. And I hear the second kicks your arse even harder than the first (which I believe, as I only make it out of bed before 9 or 930 if I have to be somewhere, and I hear toddlers don't really let that happen).
We're done, but I like the spacing of our kids: 27 months apart. DD is independent and can voice what she needs and she helps as much as a 2 year old can.
Pandi, you quit that nonsense! When you get back stateside and the trauma of Germany is way far in the past you will change your mind. And Iris will come be your doula!
I always thought I wanted two kids, and close in age. But to be honest, I'm so focused on loving and enjoying my little girl, I'm not thinking about #2 yet. At all. Now I imagine not trying for another 3 years or so, if at all. Who knows, I may change my mind at any moment, but for now, that's how I feel and I surprise myself with my answer. DH and I haven't discussed TTC #2 yet.
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We are thinking sometime after the beginning of the year. I might change that though. If I do change it then we will wait a little longer. Maybe when she is 15 or 16 months.
In September or August of 2012. If I get KU then LO would be born around the time DD turns 2. I would love to be a May mom again! Maybe I would actually get a May baby next time!
I always thought I wanted two kids, and close in age. But to be honest, I'm so focused on loving and enjoying my little girl, I'm not thinking about #2 yet. At all. Now I imagine not trying for another 3 years or so, if at all. Who knows, I may change my mind at any moment, but for now, that's how I feel and I surprise myself with my answer. DH and I haven't discussed TTC #2 yet.
I agree with this. A 2nd one is not even on our radar right now. We had 2 miscarriages before Nolan and I needed progesterone supplements at the beginning of my pregnancy with him...if we have another one, I would say that Nolan needs to be at least 2 before we even started trying.
5 years at the soonest, at the moment 2 kids in daycare would cost too much for us I wouldn't be opposed if that situation changed to start sooner though, hehe
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I had a m/c before Georgia and my Rh factor and other complications made it pretty difficult to stay pregnant with her. I don't think I'll be able to have a healthy, non-dramatic pregnancy and delivery so I'd rather just focus on her rather than have another year of stress like the last 12 months have been. = (
We'll start TTC again in about 2 years. That way, the earliest baby would come would be the month I graduate from my doctorate program. I don't to have a second baby while I'm still in school. Too much work.
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I think never. 2u2 is kicking my butt!! I thought I wanted 3, but the Toddlermonster (as I lovingly call him) is making me think that if I want to stay sane, I should stop now.
Well, we're not totally sure... we want them around 2 years apart, so I guess we'll start trying next fall. I'd love to wait until DD could go to pre-school a couple hours a day a couple days a week, but I think that usually starts around 3 years old and I don't want them that far apart (not to mention I'm not getting any younger and DH really is trying to talk me into having 3 kids!).
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Either when DD is potty trained or DH gets promoted so I can be a SAHM. Hopefully the later since I'd love to have them closer in age, but like PP said, two in daycare just wouldn't slide right now.
We probably won't try again for three years. We want to enjoy R for a few years before adding a second child to our family and I don't want two in diapers at the same time. We also can't afford daycare for two kids right now.
As soon as my OB says I'm good to start trying, I'll start getting DH drunk
(No, I don't need to have DH drunk to have a good time. However, suggesting we get drunk to celebrate his birthday early and three weeks later, I had a half dozen pregnancy tests that all said 'pregnant.').
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In about a year and a half - I'd like them to be between 2 and 3 years apart. Closer to 3 if you ask me, closer to 2 if you ask DH.
I don't want to have 2 babies to look after at once. And I hear the second kicks your arse even harder than the first (which I believe, as I only make it out of bed before 9 or 930 if I have to be somewhere, and I hear toddlers don't really let that happen).
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In a couple of years. We're waiting until DD#1 is in school - kindergarden at least, which is 2 yrs away.
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I agree with this. A 2nd one is not even on our radar right now. We had 2 miscarriages before Nolan and I needed progesterone supplements at the beginning of my pregnancy with him...if we have another one, I would say that Nolan needs to be at least 2 before we even started trying.
This is exactly what DH and I have decided as well!
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I want to TTC #2 in about 3-4 years.
We're not.
I had a m/c before Georgia and my Rh factor and other complications made it pretty difficult to stay pregnant with her. I don't think I'll be able to have a healthy, non-dramatic pregnancy and delivery so I'd rather just focus on her rather than have another year of stress like the last 12 months have been. = (
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If we do decide to have another baby, we will start TTC when DD3 turns one. I love the age difference between my kids.
If we do have #4...that is it! No more!
As soon as my OB says I'm good to start trying, I'll start getting DH drunk
(No, I don't need to have DH drunk to have a good time. However, suggesting we get drunk to celebrate his birthday early and three weeks later, I had a half dozen pregnancy tests that all said 'pregnant.').