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2nd beta :(

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Looks like I am not staying over here.  My second beta dropped from 281 to 114.  That did not come as a surprise because I started cramping and spotting last night.  My only hope now is that this happens quickly.

Once we get through this DH and I will have a talk about our next step but I think that I am done.  After all the IF bullsh*t I dealt with, I just don't think I can go through this a third time.

I wanted to thank everyone here for the warm welcome and for all the support I received on TTCAL.  I am leaving today for vacation (I think a very drunk vacation) and am not sure if I will jump right into bumping when I get back.

Thanks again ladies, your support and understanding is what is getting me through.

Heather

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  • jen629jen629 member
    Oh no:( I am so so sorry {{{HUGS}}}
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  • D&D4Ever7D&D4Ever7
    Oh hun, I am so sorry.  This is not fair.  I will keep you in my T&Ps. ((((HUGS)))) Is your ob planning to re-test?
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  • kelliandjustinkelliandjustin
    I'm so sorry. :( Try to have a good vacation.
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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    I am so very sorry. =(  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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  • camdenfaithfulcamdenfaithful
    I am so incredibly sorry.  (((((HUGS)))))
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  • celinegcelineg
    Oh no :'( I am so sorry :( You are in my thoughts (((HUGS)))
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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    I am so incredibly sorry ((((HUGEHUGS))))
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • Froggy76Froggy76 member
    I am so sorry :(  I hope your vacation takes your mind off things a bit.
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  • lorlei13lorlei13 member
    I am so sorry sweetie.  You and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member
    I am so, so sorry. It just isn't fair :(
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  • starrynytstarrynyt member
    I am so very sorry for your losses and that you're having to go through this again.  (((hugs)))


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  • RN0107RN0107 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))

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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member
    Oh Heather I am so sorry*HUGS* T&Ps to you as you heal.
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    I'm so sorry hun (((hugs))). 
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  • MissAutumnMissAutumn

    Heather, I am so sorry.. My thoughts are with you and your DH. This is not fair...

    And I wanted to tell you Thank you for all of the support that you offered to me on TTCAL. I hope you and your DH figure out what is best for you and I hope that your vacation helps you get your mind of everything for a few days.

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  • quezzoquezzo member
    I'm so sorry. I hope you can try to enjoy some aspect of your vacation, even if it is the drinking part. T&P to you and your family at this time. 
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  • MommyandKateMommyandKate
    I'm so sorry- please take care of yourself and have a nice, relaxing vacation.
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  • mundayemmundayem member
    So sorry you are going through this again. ((((((HugeHugs))))))
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  • gina&dave07gina&dave07 member

    I am so sorry Heather.  ((BIG HUGS))

     

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  • jldubb0626jldubb0626 member
    Aww! I'm so sorry sweetie!! ((Huge Hugs)) headed your way! I'll be thinking about you!
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  • OatoaOatoa member

    My heart is breaking for you.  I am so sorry you are going through this again.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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    Oh Sweetie, I'm so incredibly sorry!  Sending you lots of T&Ps and {HUGS}!
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    I'm so sorry.  Please take care of yourself.
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  • samm1983samm1983 member
    I'm so sorry.
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    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
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  • StephK86StephK86
    I am really sorry. Drink away hunny believe me after my son passed liquor was always around. I really am sad for you that you have to go through this again. You are in my thoughts.
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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    I'm so sorry...
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  • fightingravityfightingravity member
    Oh no. I am so sorry to hear this. This is so unfair. My heart goes out to you.
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    ((Hugs)) I am so sorry.
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  • jess252jess252
    Oh no. Im so sorry. Its just not fair. Sending hugs your way, and prayers you heal quickly..emotionally and physically.
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member

    I'm so sorry to hear this.  You and your DH are in my thoughts.

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  • rkricheyrkrichey member
    So sorry to hear this :(  I know how you're feeling.  I've been saying if this baby doesn't stick, I don't think I can do this again either.  It's hard to intentionally put yourself through so much crap.  T&P your way.  Try and have fun on your vacation, easier said than done I know.
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  • Manderlin923Manderlin923 member
    I am so, so sorry :(
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  • rvandiver0705rvandiver0705 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • jertiejertie member
    Oh no!  Sweetie - I'm so, so sorry.  (((HUGE HUGS)))

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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    I am so so sorry.  You will be in my t&p.  ((hugs))
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • haziedazehaziedaze member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so unfair with all you've been through that this is happening. I hope your vacation is relaxing and helps you heal. ((HUGS))
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    I'm so sorry (((HUGS)))
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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva
    I am sorry for your loss. T&P with you.  HUGS
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