After posting the "pack 'n play lite vs full size" post below, it got me thinking.. where is everyone planning on having their LO sleep as a newborn? I automatically figured she will sleep in a pack 'n play next to our bed since I plan on breast feeding. Is this what everyone else is doing? Bassinet? Pack 'n play? If you are using the pack 'n play, are you getting the one with the newborn napper or just the removable bassinet? Anyone going to try the crib from the very beginning?
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Re: Where will your baby sleep as a newborn?
We will be side-car-ing the crib like I did at 6 months with DD. But this time I will do it from the beginning. With DD I had her in a bassinet until she started rolling over then put her into her own room in the crib but this exhausted me while trying to breastfeed. I sleep much better with LO in our room until a) sleeping through the night or b) done breastfeeding.
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We are getting a pack n play with the newborn inserts for our baby to sleep in for the first few months. We are traveling over Christmas and it will just be easier to use the pack n play from the start so that our baby gets used to sleeping there. Once we are back home in January, baby will probably be moved to their crib.
She will be with us! Maybe I will change my mind, but I am excited to have her sleep in the room with us. If she has a problem moving to the crib I know it will be my own fault.
We are going to use a bassinet that comes with our stroller.
This!
I'm honestly not sure. Our plan with DS was to have him sleep in the bassinet in our room and then transition him to his crib around three months.
That didn't work. He refused to sleep unless someone was holding him for the first month. We finally got him to sleep in his carseat, and he slept there until he was two months old and then we FINALLY got him to sleep in the bassinet.
That all went out the window when I went back to work after maternity leave. His sleep started getting worse and worse and he would only sleep if he was nursing. I was finally able to transition him to his crib at 6 months.
My plan for this one is to buy the Fisher Price Rock n Play sleeper. I've heard great things about that. I hope this one will sleep better than DS did!
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The plan is the nursery but I'm also a first time mom, so you know that'll probably change
That being said, our master bedroom and the nursery are the only two rooms upstairs, so whoever is taking their turn with the baby can go in the nursery with LO while the other sleeps.
Could someone post a picture of the adapter thing you are talking about? Do you mean there is a second level for the pack n play or are you talking about the small bassinet some come with? I am trying to find something similar here, but wanted to know what exactly you all meant.
Also, I looked up the Rock n Play Sleeper and read far too many reviews saying it flattened their babies heads after two months of use for me to consider buying it. Just something to think about...
ETA: I think I found a picture. Also, I read more reviews and comments about the Rock n Play and it seems this product has not been found to be the cause of this as developing a flat head is fairly common in infants...still not sure I would get it for constant use though.
https://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=4279440&fromRegistryNumber=46894133&product_skn=566066
This is the one I have on our registery right now. The insert is the bassinet on top. You can remove it when the baby gets bigger and just move the bottom up to a higher level for the in between stage.
ETA: This is rated the Best play yard in Baby Bargains. Baby Bargains also says that the newborn nappers are not that safe, so we will be getting the one I linked above that just has the bassinet.
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Those of you who say you'll be sleeping close to baby so you 'don't have to get out of bed', what do you plan to do about diaper changes? I guess I'm not understanding the logistics of changing poopy diapers in your own bed (and then what you'd do with the dirty diapers?!)
I know I'll be going to the babys changing dresser to do that. But then again, it's directly across the hall. Just curious...
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This is the one thing I never figured out. Last time LO slept in a bassinet in our room, but every time I got up to nurse him, I went to the nursery to do that. Newborns are very efficient and tend to poop either while they are nursing or right after, so I would change him before taking him back to the bassinet. I know some people figure out how to do this without moving around quite so much
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We plan to do the same thing we did with DS. We'll have a pnp (just a plain one with no fancy attachments) in our room. When we first put LO down at night s/he will go in the pnp. When LO first wakes at night (assuming I'm already in bed) I'll bring him/her into bed with us & we'll co-sleep for the rest of the night.
We also have a snuggle nest co-sleeper that we used in the first few weeks with DS (it goes on the bed), so we may use that again in the first few weeks with this LO.
This to a T!!! Down to the two rooms upstairs and all! You are thinking my same thoughts, little lady!
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We are doing crib from the very beginning. DH and I have said this from before we got a BFP. This way we are not both getting up when LO needs something.
We have friends who have twins (now 4yo) that still co-sleep b/c that can't get them to sleep in their own room.
^ I know this is only one horror story, but I want to be able to have my own space, from the start.
Also DH and I are people that have to have the TV on to fall asleep and that is not good for the baby. LO needs a nice quiet place of his/her own.
I have this pack n play: https://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=laguna+pack+n+play&hl=en&rls=com.microsoft:en-us&prmd=ivns&resnum=3&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&biw=1659&bih=835&wrapid=tlif130711413653310&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=shop&cid=1130798545396707387&sa=X&ei=lfroTbLHHqXZiAKYpOCMAQ&ved=0CFAQ8gIwAA#
it had a changing station right on it.
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Our master bedroom is small and there is honestly no extra room for a pnp or bassinet. Our goal is to have LO sleep in the crib from day one. We are going to try to put a daybed in the nursery so if one of us has to stay in there we can.
responding to some questions in replies...
Flat head comes from baby sleeping on his back. It's a side-effect of all the SIDS warnings. DS mostly slept on his side (and co-slept for the first 6 months) so never got a flat head. I've seen TONS of babies with flat heads in the past several years, though.
Side-lying nursing is a life saver! It's definitely worth learning. I'm so glad the LC taught us this before we left the hospital. I didn't even have to actually wake up to feed DS.
For changing poopy diapers...I can't remember how long we had to do this. It doesn't seem like it lasted that long. At some point, DS stopped pooping every time he ate, so there were many months of co-sleeping where we didn't really have to change him in the middle of the night. When we were changing him in the middle of the night, we either changed him on our bed, in the snuggle nest, or in the pnp (bigger prefolds make excellent changing pads). We'd just set the dirty diapers aside until the morning. After we moved him to the crib in his room, we changed him on the changing table.
I don't want to have to get a bassinet and a pack 'n play, so we'll probably get just a pack 'n play, with the newborn sleeper. But, my parents also have this antique wooden cradle which is about the size of a bassinet, so we're considering borrowing that and seeing if baby will sleep in it during the first few months.
I'd love to be able to go straight to the crib, but all my friends say their kids didn't tolerate that.
We will keep the baby in a Travel Lite Crib (mini PnP) next to my bed for 4-6 months.
I swore I was going to put DD in her crib from day 1. Well I got home from the hospital and couldn't do it, couldn't have her that far away so small. We had to go buy the Travel Lite Crib the next day.
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