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Back from a/s

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I can honestly say I've never slept so badly in my life - last night I literally watched time pass until this morning and after returning from the scan I tried my best to grab an hour more of sleep before coming into work.

Smart me wants to repeat everything the doctor said at the end of the scan - that everything looks very normal, baby is measuring right on track, congrats and see you next month.

Of course she had to point out the one anomaly - an echogenic intracardiac focus on the baby's heart - she - the most blunt doctor in the world - she then stated that because only that one item was found and nothing else that it was nothing to worry about.  I've read about this online and found plenty of reason not to worry - so believe it or not I think I'm ok with this.

The doctor didn't even suggest an amnio - which I found 'comforting' given the fact that she's a perinatologist.

I also paid way too much attention to all of baby's measurements - something I had plenty of time to do with Jane while slowy watching the ultrasounds confirming her condition.  I noticed some of baby's measurements were different than others --- enough to freak me out but apparently doc said that all was normal.

So there it is --- good news that I've tainted with a bad prior experience!

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    I'm sorry that your previous experiences aren't letting you enjoy this!!  Congrats on your baby girl!! 
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    Congratulations on your little girl!  I think your anxiety is completely normal.  Just take it one day at a time and today the doctor says your baby is healthy and growing.  BIG HUGS!

    Does little girl have a name yet?

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    I did the exact same thing, and I think I always will.  The tech thought all I cared about was the sex, even though I told her about our experience with Bryce.  Honestly, I had to ask my doctor for the specifics of everything, and by the end he was laughing at me.  

    The important thing is that your little girl is healthy in there, and that is all that matters.  (((Hugs)))  I know today was really, really hard.
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    Congratulations on your sweet baby girl!  It sounds like you had a great scan, so I will be excited for you!  I hope that it all starts to sink in soon and you are really able to enjoy this milestone of a day.  Ts and Ps for momma nutshell and baby girl nutshell. =)
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    Congrats on your baby girl! You got through a huge milestone today, so don't forget to give yourself some credit.
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    Congrats on your little girl! I hope that over time you can begin to enjoy this pregancy and the arrival of your LO!
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    I'm so happy to hear!!! Congrats on a good scan!!
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    Congrats on your little girl! 
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    Congrats on your baby GIRL! Sending good vibes your way that everything turns out great for you guys.

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    Congratulations on your healthy baby girl!!! I know it's scary, but you have every reason to celebrate today!
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    Congratulations on a sweet baby girl!
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    Congratulations on your little girl!!  I can understand how prior experience can really taint great news, but I hope that at some point the sunlight will break through for you and you can enjoy this.  I'm so happy for you!

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    I think everything sounds good! Congrats on your baby girl! I over analyze and worry about details at every us, even if the doctor says everything is great. So, I understand where you are coming from.
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    Congrats on your little girl!  Sorry you couldn't fully enjoy it.  (((HUGS)))
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    Congrats on team pink!  I know it's hard not to stress, but it sounds like your doctor is feeling pretty good about this little girl.
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    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
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    Congrats on an overall good scan!
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    Congrats on Team Pink. At my a/s all of LOs measurements e different also (range from 19 weeks 2 days to 20 weeks 4 days), remember everything is based on averages, it is not an exact science. ((hugs))
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    This is good news!!  We will never forget our prior experiences, but this is your take-home baby!!
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    Congrats on the little girl!!!!!
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    Congrats on a healthy baby girl!
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    Congrats on your daughter!!  Just try and take one day at a time and find comfort that you had a great scan.  ((((HUGS))))
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    Yay for good news!  Congrats on Team Pink!
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    Congratulations on getting through a major milestone and on your baby girl! I hope you are able to feel less anxious as time goes on (although I completely understand why you feel the way you do). Sending hugs!!
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    Congrats on your little girl! I hope everything turns out ok!

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    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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    Congratulations!  It sounds like the scan went really well, even if your experiences with Jane affected it this time around.  Congratulations on being team pink as well!
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    Congratulations on your baby girl!  So glad everything looked good.
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    Congrats on another little girl!  Wonderful news that she's looking good and measureing on track.

    I've heard a bunch of people mention the heart anomaly you described.  If I remember right, in a lot of cases it works itself out.  Its a good sign if they didn't want to do the amnio.  Oh & regarding the measurements...our little guy had some that were a little off as well.  Basically they were all in the normal range, just some were a much lower percentile.  We were also told not to worry about it.

    ps.  How is it even possible that you're far enough along to be having an a/s already?!?!! Seems like just the other day you were sharing your BFP.

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    Congrats on getting great news and another baby girl!  ((hugs)) because I know it's still very hard to swallow and process.  I hope that you continue to get nothing but the best news :)
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    Congrats on the girl! I am so sorry you were so worried, I think that is completely natural. I'm glad your doctor isn't worried though and you're feeling okay with everything. So happy for you!
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    Congrats on team pink! I hope you have an uneventful PG from this point forward. 
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