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Advice: Ok responce for a rude private message?

cbear1995cbear1995
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I am sorry you feel I dont belong here. and YES I did cause my own infertility.  Maybe you should ask me why instead of demanding my exit from an IF board..I have been nothing but nice to everyone.  You have 2 posts maybe you are a drive bye.  I will give you a quick history of me.. I dont think you deserve it. But maybe you will think twice before talking to someone the way you did.

I was married very young at 18. I had 1 daughter who is now 20. 11 months later I had another little girl who is now 19. She was had a traumatic birth injury her umbilical cord snapped in half. and placental abrupt. She Has Cerebral Palsy She doesnt walk or talk and depends on my and my DH for all her care. 3 years later my son was born. He has a genetic disorder called West Syndrome.. He is now 17 and is blind, Cerebral palsy mental retardation G tube fed and non ambulatory.  I was terrified. I got my "tubes tied"  before the genetics concluded that my sons disorder was paternal.  

My ex husband is deceased now.. I met my current husband in 1995.. WE want to have a child together before I am 40. So please please don't judge my IF. You don't even know me. 


Tubal reversal 3/2002, Right tube 2.5cm,
Clomid 4,5,6/ 2002 = BFN,
Failed Adoption 2005 (scammed)
Tumor left ovary and tube removed 6/2006,
Natural cycles until now =BFN
August 2007 Kinship foster a relative for 3 years.
**Re on 5/2 **
5/16 Day3 FSH=7, HSG 5/25 Blocked. SA normal,
DH and I found out we are cystic fibrosis carriers
our fertility journey comes to an end.
Updating homestudy and back round check to Adopt from
Foster care
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Re: Advice: Ok responce for a rude private message?

  • Courtney5583Courtney5583 member
    People are ridiculous!  I'm sorry that someone sent you such a rude message.  I would have done the same thing if I was in your shoes.  You sound like an amazing mother for your selflessness in providing the care your children need.
    "We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope." ~ MLK, Jr. ?
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    IVF with ICSI #1 ~ Long Lupron starting 06/26/11, stims 07/05/11, ER 07/14/11 - 19 eggs, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!
    07/19/11 - transferred two embies (5AA and 4AA), 7 frosties!
    Betas...07.27.11 ~ 11...07.30.11 ~ 41...08.01.11 ~ 84...08.03.11 ~ 221...08.05.11 ~ 579
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    I'm sorry if someone was rude to you.  Sometimes people type without thinking.....no, this doesn't excuse it-it just is what it is.  Sounds like you have been through alot and I wish you all the best and that you have your chance at a healthy baby.  I am 42, and have a son who is 18 and graduated HS.  My DH is legally blind and widowed, but he wants more than anything to have a child of his own.  Hoping that we can make that happen-but prepared if it doesn't.  Best wishes to you. 
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • KLMFKLMF member
    Some people are so bitter.  Don't let one person shake you, their are a lot of people on here ready and willing to support you...including me. 
    DH VR 5/08 5/11 DIUI #1 clomid 100mg + ovidrel= BFN
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  • JennPierogJennPierog member

    I'm so sorry you were made to feel unwelcome. People really can be rude, sometimes there own heartach is some much that they need to be rude to others to make them self feel better. Good luck and I wish you the best






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  • MrsLisaGMrsLisaG member
    Fudge them!  You sound very strong.  Good luck to you!
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  • labdemonlabdemon

    People can be so mean-- yuck! Karma will come around for them.

    Good luck to you!!

    TTC since September 2010
    March 2011: Diagnosed with PCOS
    First cycle 3/11: 50mg Clomid = No response
    Second cycle 4/11: 100mg Clomid = No response
    Third cycle 5/11: 2.5mg Femara + 150IU FSH CD7 and 8 = Follies, but BFN
    Fourth cycle 6/11: Femara + FSH again = Follies, but no ovulation and another BFN :(
    Fifth cycle 7/11: Femara + FSH again = Wait and see!
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  • DesiraeSunshineDesiraeSunshine
    wow, some people can be judgmental a$$holes.
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  • krod2010krod2010

    Anyone who is struggling with infertility shouldn't judge anyone else who is going through it. This should be a safe place to post where everyone can feel that they won't be judged.

    I don't think you owe anyone an explanation. Sorry you had to deal with that. Its unfortunate.

     

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  • jmartin882008jmartin882008 member
    I had a bad experience on this board a while ago and it made me so angry! I am so sorry you had to go through that.  I am here for you if you need anything.  
    TTC since August 2009 DH dx=low motility BFP naturally June 2009=miscarriage (blighted ovum) July 2009 2 rounds of Clomid natural cycles=BFN IUI #1 no meds=BFN IUI#2 50mg Clomid + Ovidrel= BFN HSG=normal, no blockage IUI#3 50mg Clomid+ Ovidrel= BFN IUI#4 5mg Femera+ Ovidrel=BFN April 2011 LAP=Stage II endo, blocked ovary, scar tissue (everything was fixed) IUI #5 May 2, 2011 5mg Femera + Ovidrel=BFN IUI #6 June 8, 2011 Femera+Ovidrel=BFN IVF#1 July, 2011 ER August 24, 2011 (17 Retrieved, 14 Mature, 8 Fertilized) ET Day 6 Transfer (August 30, 2011) Transferred 2 perfect blasts, 2 snowbabies HPT September 5 + Beta 9/7/11
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