to transfer to another ob group and it just dawned on me that we have an envelope on the kitchen counter which has a piece of paper that states the sex of our baby. I immediately licked the envelope closed.. Why didn't I ask for them to omit that little detail?! This is just weird.
Re: picked up my medical records today
I don't know how you do it!! I would be dying to know.
IVF Oct/Nov 2012
Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
Cautiously optimistic.
Yea... it is weird! But I won't look
I really want to find out from K. I figure I get to carry the baby, she should have a special moment of her own so she, in theory, will know first and tell me. I can't wait to hear it from her!
Do you have a gut feeling? I knew. I just did. K was supposed to announce the sex but I remember that at the moment LO was born I didn't really care. So there was a delay (partly because the cord was too short and the baby couldn't reach my chest) and then I said something like "What is it?" and K said "a girl." But I remember the feeling of just asking so someone would confirm what I knew.
yeah, that. (my DP's an L also)
We compromised by finding out and not telling anyone. I surprised myself by not wanting to know yet at the anatomy scan, so we had the tech seal it in an envelope. Dr said it wouldn't stay shut for one night, but we actually held on to it for about two weeks, I think. I thought that was strength!