Attachment Parenting

2U2 and bedsharing....

we have had G in our bed since he was 3 weeks old and he loves sleeping all snuggled up to me and of course dream feed 2-3 times a night. my worry is how do i handle this once the new baby arrives in january?
We have the crib side carred (sp?) and for the first half of the might G sleeps in it fine, then he sort of wakes climbs over to me feeds and goes back to sleep(not that he really fully wakes up)
so do i keep the baby in  between me & hubby?
do i keep baby in crib and G in between us?
i don't know what to do and i know i have plenty of time but i can't figure this one out.
BFP #1 May 2000 ~ Darren was born Jan 13, 2001 ~ 6lbs 2oz 191/2" ~ 39 wks due to low fluid, otherwise perfect pregnancy
July 2004 abnormal pap, colposcopy and LEEP procedure ~ paps every 3 months all normal for 1 year
2006 all clear to start TTC
HSG Nov 2007 ~ all normal except mild left tube blockage
BFP #2 Dec 2007 EDD sept 3 ~ missed m/c ~ Feb 14 2008 ~ 9wk 2d D&C
BFP #3 Apr 2008 EDD Dec 10 ~ ectopic ~ May 2008 ~ 5wk 2d ~ emergency lap surgery, lost left tube
BFP #4 Jul 2008 EDD May 5 ~ missed m/c ~ Aug 2008 ~ 5wk 2d D&C - trisomy 16
RPL panel Aug 2008 ~ diagnosed with compound hetero MTHFR
BFP #5 Nov 2008 EDD Jul 31 ~ blighted Ovum ~ Dec 2008 ~ 4wk 3d ~ natural m/c at home for my birthday
BFP #6 Feb 2009 EDD Oct 15 ~ 4wk 3d ~ chemical pregnancy ~ Mar 2008
BFP #7 May 18 2009 ~ Gabriel Michael ~ Jan 19, 2010 ~ 7lbs 2oz 21"
TTC again since Jan 2011
BFP #8 Jun 2011 EDD Jan 20 ~ 5wk 6d ~ missed m/c ~ D&C
July - Hysterscopy removed some polyps, all clear for IUI with clomid
Aug-Oct - IUI - with Clomid all BFN
Nov-Jan - IUI - with femara and trigger = BFN
back to TTC naturally on our own hoping for another miracle.
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Re: 2U2 and bedsharing....

  • My youngest was always on the outside of me. The older child graduated to between me and DH full time.
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  • I'd put baby in the crib and older DC between you. You'll probably have less issues with him crawling into the crib than with him crawling out of it.
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