update on letter to co worker

Mrssjb · May 2011

Ok Dh hasnt gone into work yet but the female co worker in question just texted him saying " Do her nipples look different yet? Mine changed just before I had labor w/ my last one and *other co worker who is pregnant* is already leaking i think" WTF?!!!!! He almost threw his phone. Everyone at work is required to have everyone's numbers or else he would change his right now ( they have to cover their shifts and such). Cannot wait til that chick gets her note tonight....gah

gymnst1013 · May 2011

What the fvck is wrong with this chick????

tesary · May 2011

She is clueless! I would be livid!

IdigDirt · May 2011

He has already asked her to stop making these comments, right? If so I would be heading to the supervisor. That is not OK and I am pretty sure asking your coworker about their wife's nipples/ telling them about your nipples is harassment. If he has asked her to stop and she won't I think it is time to get the supervisor involved.

Also I can not wait to read the update of what she says when she reads the note.

JayElleJayCee · May 2011

gymnst1013:
What the fvck is wrong with this chick????

THIS!!!! Oh I can't wait to hear the update to this update..

Marissa423 · May 2011

He has every right to report her to their boss as well for harrassment, especially if he has asked her to not comment on your body before. She is also using his personal contact information for inappropriate purposes.

cvl105 · May 2011

That's strange!

Is there a pre-story that I missed?

TXwife9 · May 2011

I would FREAK OUT!!!

EmmysMom08 · May 2011

Marissa423:
He has every right to report her to their boss as well for harrassment, especially if he has asked her to not comment on your body before. She is also using his personal contact information for inappropriate purposes.

This!

She's crossing a major line and there needs to be more then a letter from you now. If it was a man asking a woman this he'd be seriously punished already.

erinlovesdavid · May 2011

I am speechless. Who is this b!tch!? She clearly has major issues if she thinks this type of question is even remotely appropriate to be asking!!! I am absolutely appauled. Your note is mild compared to what I would want to say to her!!

HulaPie · May 2011

JayElleJayCee:

gymnst1013:
What the fvck is wrong with this chick????

THIS!!!! Oh I can't wait to hear the update to this update..

Ditto, ditto, ditto!! A talk with the supervisor is definitely called for, this lady is nuts!

LoveOfMikesLife · May 2011

She would NOT be getting a note from me but a phone call! I myself would tell her that her questions are inappropriate and then inform her that I will be calling the boss! Fvck a note, she has way crossed a line!

Magenta728 · May 2011

cvl105:

Is there a pre-story that I missed?

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/53780067.aspx

TashaK2011 · May 2011

That is super creepy and so annoying. I can't wait to hear about her response to the note!!!

kaitylin · May 2011

Wow, weirdo. She is definitely crossing a lot of lines with her questions. Good luck with the note.

Tellyb0228 · May 2011

I agree with a lot of the ladies on here. She has completely crossed the line not only with her comments but with inappropriate use of contact information. I would forget the note and talk with her supervisor. I think the note will just egg her on since it doesn't really come with any consequneces. If her boss got involved there would be (hopefully) consequences. Good luck

Mrssjb · May 2011

Well the note wasn't necessary! My Dh has complained to the owner/manager (male) a few times about this girl and a few others w/ the questions and the TMI's but nothing was done. Apparently when he walked in yesterday she was leaving and wouldnt even look at him w/ a pissy attitude. I guess she held a fit to a few people about how he is such a snob who wont answer questions and a whole bunch of co workers flipped on her for being rude, ignorant, and an all around nosey beast of a girl. The female manager told her to get some class and that if any man talked to a woman the way she was talking to my DH they would of been fired so quick.Needless to say my DH is going into work today w/ 5 dozen homemade double chocolate chip cookies for his co workers :-)

DreamChaser246 · May 2011

cvl105:

That's strange!

Is there a pre-story that I missed?

dittto, what is this note that you sent!

that is jut, egads!

gymnst1013 · May 2011

Mrssjb:
Well the note wasn't necessary! My Dh has complained to the owner/manager (male) a few times about this girl and a few others w/ the questions and the TMI's but nothing was done. Apparently when he walked in yesterday she was leaving and wouldnt even look at him w/ a pissy attitude. I guess she held a fit to a few people about how he is such a snob who wont answer questions and a whole bunch of co workers flipped on her for being rude, ignorant, and an all around nosey beast of a girl. The female manager told her to get some class and that if any man talked to a woman the way she was talking to my DH they would of been fired so quick.Needless to say my DH is going into work today w/ 5 dozen homemade double chocolate chip cookies for his co workers :-)

Yay!!!!!!! So glad she got reamed!! Boy did she deserve it.

Syncronicity09 · May 2011

Mrssjb:
Well the note wasn't necessary! My Dh has complained to the owner/manager (male) a few times about this girl and a few others w/ the questions and the TMI's but nothing was done. Apparently when he walked in yesterday she was leaving and wouldnt even look at him w/ a pissy attitude. I guess she held a fit to a few people about how he is such a snob who wont answer questions and a whole bunch of co workers flipped on her for being rude, ignorant, and an all around nosey beast of a girl. The female manager told her to get some class and that if any man talked to a woman the way she was talking to my DH they would of been fired so quick.Needless to say my DH is going into work today w/ 5 dozen homemade double chocolate chip cookies for his co workers :-)

Awesome, looks like everyone thinks she is an ass.

absoluteremix · May 2011

Mrssjb:
Well the note wasn't necessary! My Dh has complained to the owner/manager (male) a few times about this girl and a few others w/ the questions and the TMI's but nothing was done. Apparently when he walked in yesterday she was leaving and wouldnt even look at him w/ a pissy attitude. I guess she held a fit to a few people about how he is such a snob who wont answer questions and a whole bunch of co workers flipped on her for being rude, ignorant, and an all around nosey beast of a girl. The female manager told her to get some class and that if any man talked to a woman the way she was talking to my DH they would of been fired so quick.Needless to say my DH is going into work today w/ 5 dozen homemade double chocolate chip cookies for his co workers :-)

YAY!

bookkitten · May 2011

Mrssjb:
Well the note wasn't necessary! My Dh has complained to the owner/manager (male) a few times about this girl and a few others w/ the questions and the TMI's but nothing was done. Apparently when he walked in yesterday she was leaving and wouldnt even look at him w/ a pissy attitude. I guess she held a fit to a few people about how he is such a snob who wont answer questions and a whole bunch of co workers flipped on her for being rude, ignorant, and an all around nosey beast of a girl. The female manager told her to get some class and that if any man talked to a woman the way she was talking to my DH they would of been fired so quick.Needless to say my DH is going into work today w/ 5 dozen homemade double chocolate chip cookies for his co workers :-)

That's fantastic! SO GLAD she got told off!

germanpickle · May 2011

I am really glad that she got called out by her colleagues - however I am p!ssed that because she is a woman she isn't getting fired. The street goes both ways - if a man gets fired for that behavior, she should too. Period. Otherwise, why should a man be fired for it if its okay for a woman to do it?

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