Ok so I feel stupid for asking, but can anyone describe what contraction pain feels like? I'm feeling a different kind of pain that seems to coincide with my BH. (?)
I never felt any of the contractions with DD (wierd I know) and wouldn't have even known I was in labor if my water hadn't broken.
Re: NER: Contractions (stupid ?)
to me, a contraction was like the worst pain ever. like imagine you had a car land on top of you......x3..... w/a giant jumping up and down on it lol. worst.pain.ever.
i'm hoping to have a different attitude this time around (doing hypnobabies) and hopefully can deal with the contractions in a more productive way than i did w/ds.
ETA: it was also similar to like the worst poo cramps EVER. i don't know if you've ever had a poop that felt like your intestines were twisted... but it feels a lot like that. (i thought i was just having the worst poo pains of my life, turned out to be labor...oops!!)
Mine were achy, low down in my belly and hips... even when they weren't super painful. It actually wasn't like the menstrual cramps I have - very different kind of ache. It definitely felt like someone was squeezing me with a seatbelt... right across that same area - kind of a pulling pain, like when you're exercising and your muscles are getting stretched/pulled.
Does that make sense?
I swear you'll know it when it happens. But I can say that as someone who's always had contractions, I guess. I had BH for weeks and weeks that were very uncomfortable, and sometimes 10 minutes apart for hours, to where I'd think maybe I was in labor (even though I'd already had two babies, I still wasn't sure). The first real contraction I had this pg I knew it was different - and I remembered how different it feels from everything else.
Or... maybe your water will break? Or maybe you should have some water and rest, because I think your baby needs to bake a little bit longer!
Squeezing/pulling/sharp pinching is the best way I can describe it and it's really low down but not all the way across my pelvis, kinda just in the center. I drank a couple glasses of water and propped my feet up on the couch and it's better now (unless I have to get up and walk around). I think I just overdid it today with DD.
I never had belly contractions w/DD because she was sunnyside up - so they were all in my back & felt like horrible menstrual cramps. But since being pg again, I have had some VERY painful, show-stopping BH's that literally took my breath away & were way more painful than the back labor I had with DD.
Take it easy for the rest of the night...
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