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princessjulia28princessjulia28
in July 2011 Moms

Why is it that people just like to tell you what you are def going to do??

my co worker keeps saying well she is going to "try" to go natural but she wont be able to..She is like IDK why you would want to go natural, I told her its something I want, she says its so dumb you wont be able to handle the pain. I said well I have been preparing, she says yea right and laughs and than that I should def get an episotomy because it is way better than a tear. She had a tear she said it was horrible, I told her to talk to ppl about episotomies she says I have Dr's I said how about a women who's had one..

Than she says your def going early, because your baby is going to be huge.. O really well thank you, but im pretty positive i am right on target for my belly size, but dont worry I havent been an emmotional wreck about my weight gain or how I look by all means call me huge and make me feel like CRAP!!!

 Its actually to the point where she might get smacked.. I may claim baby craziness and do it!! friggin A I dont even know why I am responding to her.. UUGGHHHH

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  • MarshaBradyMarshaBrady
    imageprincessjulia28:

    Why is it that people just like to tell you what you are def going to do??

    my co worker keeps saying well she is going to "try" to go natural but she wont be able to..She is like IDK why you would want to go natural, I told her its something I want, she says its so dumb you wont be able to handle the pain. I said well I have been preparing, she says yea right and laughs and than that I should def get an episotomy because it is way better than a tear. She had a tear she said it was horrible, I told her to talk to ppl about episotomies she says I have Dr's I said how about a women who's had one..

    Than she says your def going early, because your baby is going to be huge.. O really well thank you, but im pretty positive i am right on target for my belly size, but dont worry I havent been an emmotional wreck about my weight gain or how I look by all means call me huge and make me feel like CRAP!!!

     Its actually to the point where she might get smacked.. I may claim baby craziness and do it!! friggin A I dont even know why I am responding to her.. UUGGHHHH

    Last night in my childbirth education class the instructor said less than .5% of women have episiotomies now.  She said years ago they were much more common, but they are rather "old school" now.  I don't know if it's from being on the TB, but I thought they were a lot more common than that. 

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  • miller4285miller4285
    A tear actually heals faster and easier than an episiotomy. It's because it isn't a "clean cut"-the "jagged edges" actually heal together faster. Tell her to stick that in her pipe and smoke it.
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  • samanthadarneillesamanthadarneille member

    I would tell her to back off and stop saying all this stuff about you and how she thinks you are going to handle labor. (Every women is different)

    If she doesn't back off then I would probably tell a supervisor, or I would come up with some things to talk bull *** to her to make her feel just as bad as she is making you feel. =)

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  • lissiealkielissiealkie
    Your co-irker sounds like my mom did when I had DS.  I can sympathize with you there.  Try to avoid her, or at the least change the topic to something other than your pregnancy.  If that doesn't work, throw back a few verbal jabs when you get stuck in a conversation with her. 
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  • Arwen31Arwen31 member
    She sounds awful. You have my permission to smack her!!!!! :)
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  • BethD76BethD76

    Is this the same one who is carrying the bosse's baby? I would ignore her too.

    I know I'm going to lose my filter after I put my notice in. I have ignored stupid co-irkers for a while now.

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  • princessjulia28princessjulia28
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    Is this the same one who is carrying the bosse's baby? I would ignore her too.

    I know I'm going to lose my filter after I put my notice in. I have ignored stupid co-irkers for a while now.

    yup which I think makes me more mad

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  • MrsCase1MrsCase1 member
    she sounds like a tool. ignore her. :)
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