Love it or not?

Danac210 · May 2011

Do you love being pregnant or not so much? Some people love every minute of it, while others just want it over.

Personally, I have my days where I'm uncomfortable, but having gone through multiple losses I try to savor every new feeling.

I would say I verge on one of those hippy mamas who makes some ppl sick by saying I love pregnancy. My skin, nails, and hair have never looked better. I love my waddle, my bump, and talking about it.

Even if you loathe being pregnant, please share honestly and openly (I know the ladies on this board are always sweet so no judgements).

I would love to hear all answers

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wkfouts · May 2011

I used to absolutely adore being pregnant... Not so much anymore. It's getting way too close to the end and I'm becoming seriously impatient. Every thing is 10x harder to do with a giant belly, it's getting hot out, swelling... I'm just ready to meet my little guy. But like I said, I did enjoy every minute of it at the beginning.

KOscar · May 2011

I loved being pregnant with my first son. I had a very easy pregnancy and nothing but great things to say. This time it's a little harder. Chasing and lifting a 30 lb toddler has made it more exhausting. Plus this time I've gained more weight and am bigger overall. Still I try not to be too negative as all is healthy and well.

darmca · May 2011

I haven't liked being pregnant through most of my pregnancy. I had fairly bad morning sickness (puking 2x a day most days) until about 16 weeks and after that had constant indigestion which again made me nauseous and sick to my stomach if I ignored it. I was overweight when I got pregnant so that means I had a lot of "do I look pregnant or just fat" moments and even had a store clerk look at me yesterday and say "Oh, are you pregnant?" (Um yeah- only about 40 weeks). I feel like my life is on hold until he comes out.I have also had bad cramping for the last 5 weeks and 2 false alarms that have just left me feeling stupid.

I will totally do it again for number 2, but I have not enjoyed being pregnant.

heysupnatalie · May 2011

Some days I love it and some days, eh not so much. I will certainly miss him not being nice and cozy in my tummy and getting to feel him moving around in there, but I am sure I will love having him to play with once he's out Smile

Now that it's practically impossible for me to do anything because my stomach is getting so big and my feet are swelling, I would love to get this little man outta me.

justme04 · May 2011

No matter how uncomfortable I am I love being pregnant.

cherokeemomma87 · May 2011

I hated it so much in the first tri, I had really bad morning sickness. But once that went away I started to like it much more. This is my second so its a lot different than the first time around. I enjoyed my fisrt pregnancy a lot more because I didnt have a toddler to chase around. But I do love to feel her move around, and now that I only have a few weeks left I am getting excited to be able to meet her and hold her. My fisrt is a boy (he was/is so much fun) but now I get to experience having a little girl and I am so excited!!

croberts22 · May 2011

I was okay with it from about 16-33 weeks. I had m/s during to start and was so exausted I didn't want to get up in the mornings. Now I'm just so miserable and done with sciatic pain, carpel tunnel, crazy acne, etc that I am done. The only really good thing has been that my nails don't chip as much as they used to, but I think that's more due to the prenatal than anything. I'll just always take the prenatal and that will stay.

LizS81 · May 2011

I love being pregnant! I love the attention and I love my bump. The only issues I have had are that my back has broken out and wont stop! But my husband love me being prego too!

As I get bigger things do start getting harder and I HATE when people say " Almost There?" or " You about to POP!". But over all I have loved it!!

calgal1683 · May 2011

KOscar:
I loved being pregnant with my first son. I had a very easy pregnancy and nothing but great things to say. This time it's a little harder. Chasing and lifting a 30 lb toddler has made it more exhausting. Plus this time I've gained more weight and am bigger overall. Still I try not to be too negative as all is healthy and well.

I could have wrote this exact post. My first pregnancy was wonderful! This time it is so much harder. Not sure if position has anything to do with it, but LO is Frank Breech and I am so uncomfortable! Don't get me wrong, I know that being able to get pregnant is a wonderful gift that not all women get to experience, I am just over being pregnant this time around.

google123 · May 2011

I wouldn't say that I've enjoyed the pregnancy symptoms, but I wouldn't go as far as to say I hate being pregnant. I love the fact that I can carry my babies' and that they are doing great so far with their development. I wouldn't give it up for the world. But definitely all the aches and pains are not fun. I'm just thankful to be pregnant at all, so I just take all of those bad things with a grain of salt. I'd do it all over again.

and I am in significant pain. My back KILLS me. I'm measuring full-term or bigger and I still have 2 months left. I can't bend over. I can't put my shoes on without being out of breath. Just getting ready in the morning causes me breathlessness and takes up all my energy. I've gained a TON of weight, not just in my belly, but in my face/arms/legs etc.

But yeah, it's still all worth it. I'm hoping next pregnancy, I'll exercise more, eat a little less cookies, take yoga or something. I think that might help with a bit of my symptoms.

katie623 · May 2011

At first I thought it was awesome, then having like 16ish weeks of throwing up all the time, I was OVER IT! Now that it has stopped, I'm enjoying it again. Minus this heat! But I will def. be glad when July gets here and I get to hold my little booger! Smile

crabbypatty426 · May 2011

I like the idea of being pregnant, but in practice it's not my favorite. Which is silly, because I've had pretty easy pregnancies with little sickness and no major complications. Overall, of course it's completely worth it and I'm so happy to be pregnant. I love my boys and wouldn't change a thing about the experience, but I'm beginning to wonder how people manage to do this over and over to have lots of kids.

12bailey18 · May 2011

I love being pregnant, I did last time too. I don't always enjoy 1st trimester but overall I love it!

bunnybiter · May 2011

Honestly, not a fan at all. I pretty much have no benefits with being pregnant and only problems (though not big ones, I'm well aware). My hair and nails have always been healthy and strong, so nothing new there. I didn't have m/s so I was lucky in that respect. But faster growing body hair, faster growing nails, skin bumps, stretch marks, sciatic pain, unable to sleep on my stomach, leg cramps, GD, lack of energy, shortness of breath, depression amplified, stiffness, dealing with three doctors (baby has health issues), back pain, headaches, waking up to pee.... yeah, I could go back to not being pregnant and would be just fine with that. I'm pretty sure this will be our one and only.

HappyKlamb10 · May 2011

I just had this conversation with DH last night. I wouldn't say I loathe pregnancy, but I definitely don't love it either. And I always thought I would be one of those people that just absolutely adored pregnancy. But I've had a lot of days where I think, "Wow, I'm going to have to do this again for LO #2?...ugh." lol.

I think the physical limitations are the hardest thing for me. I really haven't had a lot of bad pg symptoms (minimal m/s, some heartburn and trouble sleeping, not much more than that). But before the BFP, I was VERY active. I exercised a lot, did a lot of outdoor activities, always helped out with things like lawn work, etc. Not being able to do these things (at least not nearly to the same degree as before) has been a real struggle for me. Even little things, like not being able to carry heavy loads of laundry up and down the stairs, is very hard...makes me feel helpless and frustrated.

I know some people revel in the "put your feet up" aspects of pregnancy, but I definitely don't. I yearn for the day that I'll be able to be 100% functional again!

That said--I am thankful for the relatively easy pregnancy I've had. And I love being complimented on my bump, feeling LO move, etc. So pregnancy is definitely not terrible. I just would prefer for LO to get here so I can have the best of both worlds.

Danac210 · May 2011

I agree, the 1st trimester was rough, but the 2nd a dream!

ElatedMom2B · May 2011

First time around with DD#1 - loved it, minus some sciatic pain for about 2-3 weeks in the beginning, the rest of it was uneventful and I never felt healthier. I didn't get sick (virus) once during my pregnancy with DD#1.

This time around, having to chase after a 2.5 year old and working (up until a month ago), was torture! I got every cold and sickness during the winter months and was miserable and tired. My aches and pains have been so much worse since everything has already been stretched out - there is no support so its felt like her head has been in my crotch this entire time. My pelvis has been shifting daily and I feel it the worst at night when I am sleeping - either its too close with no pillow between my legs or its too spread out with something between my legs so when I get up its sheer agony. After my first (well after the initial year of "baby hell") I could see why people have kids again and (obviously) was all about having a second. After this one though, I am sewing myself SHUT cause there is no way I am ever going through this again! I hope the next several weeks are uneventful and fly by quickly!

AKBrideinMD · May 2011

I am not as far along as most of you, so while I have my uncomfortable moments/days, for the most part I love it. The only part that I hate is I have gotten way more unsolicited belly rubs and "You're huge" comments than I expected. Like, they come almost daily. But other than that, I really am enjoying it. I have a feeling I won't be saying this in a few weeks though because I am already swollen and feeling pretty big.

JrsMommy11 · May 2011

Danac210:
Do you love being pregnant or not so much? Some people love every minute of it, while others just want it over.

Personally, I have my days where I'm uncomfortable, but having gone through multiple losses I try to savor every new feeling.

I would say I verge on one of those hippy mamas who makes some ppl sick by saying I love pregnancy. My skin, nails, and hair have never looked better. I love my waddle, my bump, and talking about it.

Even if you loathe being pregnant, please share honestly and openly (I know the ladies on this board are always sweet so no judgements).

I would love to hear all answers
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Absolutely am with you. Everyday I wake up to the feeling of him kicking me is such a blessing. Even the aches and pains I am amazed by lol crazy I know. The one thing I can do without, is the anxiety of not knowing his health inside me, but I try to stay positive and I believe that is why I have had a great pregnancy. My mentality has a huge impact on my body, honestly I have never felt healthier than right now.

I can't say my opinion wont change in a few weeks but we will see.

twohniyt · May 2011

I am one of those who loves being pregnant. I have had a very easy pregnancy, so far. The best part is when I feel my LO moving around. I can't help but smile and laugh at her. I hope the rest of my pregnancy remain just as easy.

Jen&Peter · May 2011

NOT!

Three kids was always the number I had imagined. After this one, I will never be pregnant again and that is so exciting to me. I love the result - it truly is a miracle. I cannot stand the journey. My nausea never goes away the whole 9 months!

lizz00344 · May 2011

I loved, loved, loved being pregnant with DS1, so much so that after having him was like grieving a loss of him being a part of me. This pregnancy? Not so much. I don't know if it's the 'been there, done that' thing, knowing what labor is really like and how much it sucks, or just that I have no time to really think about it while chasing a 17 month old around. I'm ready to be done with this one. This will most likely be our last, so maybe it's the anticipation of never having to be pregnant again and this chapter of my life closing that I so look forward to.

scorpiomom2005 · May 2011

I'll be honest...at the beginning it was so bad I thought of throwing myself down the stairs so many times. I was sick ALL day every day and not just morning sickness, I had broncitis, laryngitis, and strep all within the first month after I found out. My husband and I weren't really talking that much because he was on third shift and either sleeping or too cranky to talk to. I'm glad I stuck with it though, things are better with hubby since he went to second shift, my morning sickness finally went away at about week 30, we were enjoying really great sex till about a week ago when LO dropped and I'm just kinda uncomfy now. In 27 days we will be holding our baby and it will all have been worth it.

jvines · May 2011

I agree with OP! I am 36 weeks + pregnant after 2 losses so every symptom is welcome! I have moments (ok...alot of moments) of being uncomfortable but I have keep telling myself that it is all worth it in the end. Overall, I have no complaints and have had a pretty normal pregnancy. I can't wait to not be pregnant though, since I will have my beautiful baby boy to cuddle and spoil!!

Danac210 · May 2011

JrsMommy11:
Danac210:

Do you love being pregnant or not so much? Some people love every minute of it, while others just want it over.

Personally, I have my days where I'm uncomfortable, but having gone through multiple losses I try to savor every new feeling.

I would say I verge on one of those hippy mamas who makes some ppl sick by saying I love pregnancy. My skin, nails, and hair have never looked better. I love my waddle, my bump, and talking about it.

Even if you loathe being pregnant, please share honestly and openly (I know the ladies on this board are always sweet so no judgements).

I would love to hear all answers

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Absolutely am with you. Everyday I wake up to the feeling of him kicking me is such a blessing. Even the aches and pains I am amazed by lol crazy I know. The one thing I can do without, is the anxiety of not knowing his health inside me, but I try to stay positive and I believe that is why I have had a great pregnancy. My mentality has a huge impact on my body, honestly I have never felt healthier than right now.

I can't say my opinion wont change in a few weeks but we will see.

For sure! We've had 11 losses in 6yrs. Gone thru IUIs, fertility drugs, etc. I think the pain, both physical and emotional makes the pains of pregnancy more bearable.

I agree about the mental stress of baby's health. I too try to keep positive.

Jessynlove · May 2011

I loved it at first. I loved it even more when I started showing...and I loved it the most when I found the motherhood store. One thing I absolutely dont like...is how fast absolutely nothing in my closet fit anymore...including my bras and undies loll. But, despite not liking how much i grew in "normal clothes " size... I loved that my pregnant body was finally starting to show! So , I wasnt just getting chubby...people actually started noticing me as a soon to be mommy.

I dont really agree with you about liking my waddle. lol .... I waddle because I am so uncomfortable and off balance.

I can not wait to meet our son... and I know that all of these emotional ups and downs... and pains and discomforts will soon be all worth it!

WorkingMomofTwo · May 2011

Honestly, I am getting too big and too tired, so I am ready for these 9 weeks to be over! It seems like this pregnancy is taking way longer than DS's. I do love having this time to share with my LO and all, but sometimes I feel tired of being pregnant.

P0upette · May 2011

I love it and every moment of it, the bump, the waddle, feeling the baby move, the special connection with the baby....

I had a really rough time TTC, after 2 years of fertility treatment and followed by complications with IVF, I feel so blessed being pregnant and truly enjoy it.

alovelylady · May 2011

okay, so I am going to honest in hopes that I don't get flamed. This is my 4th PG, and I have never been sick for any of them. I have had great PG and love being PG!!! Unfortunately, I m/c my last at 16wks, but it was still a wonderful PG during. And this one, I have been constipated some, but nothing to complain about. Luckily, I am still able to sleep comfortably, sometimes even on the side of my stomach. I can remeber with my oldest who is 9, at the end, it felt like she was in my throat. That was really uncomfortable, but not too bad!

JaqiDec04 · May 2011

I've loved being pregnant. People ask me if I miss being able to sleep, yes, but it doesn't bother me much anymore. I'm on bed rest now, and I hate that, but still love being pregnant, and really hope I can make it all the way to 40 weeks. I can't wait to meet her, but I know its only going to get harder. I'm going to enjoy this while I can.

FutureMrsWittig · May 2011

I love some aspects, hate others. Love my bump. Hate my maternity clothes. Love feeling her move. Hate having to pee every 15 minutes.

But the end result... so worth all the things I hate.

duhdaisy86 · May 2011

My pregnancy with DS was horrible and I hated it...this time knowing it is our last I am trying to enjoy it a little more.

I haven't had nearly the same experience with both pregnancies and would do this one all over again in a heartbeat.

Stellasmom · May 2011

I don't love all of it, and I have my bad days, but for the most part I'm really savoring the experience the second time around. This is the last time I'm planning on being pregnant, and I realize how special it is. I'll probably be upset right before DD is born because I love the anticipation of pregnancy, feeling kicks, the cute round stomach, etc...

angelproberts · May 2011

KOscar:
I loved being pregnant with my first son. I had a very easy pregnancy and nothing but great things to say. This time it's a little harder. Chasing and lifting a 30 lb toddler has made it more exhausting. Plus this time I've gained more weight and am bigger overall. Still I try not to be too negative as all is healthy and well.

I could have written this myself verbatim. At this point I'm really ready for this to be over. I'm a single mom that's unemployed living with my mom so I have a lot of stresses that just add to my overall feeling. I'm also think I'm a little impatient to meet my little guy and see if he will look the way I think he will.

kacelle · May 2011

I loved it until I hit 39 weeks. Now it's like every late 3rd trimester symptom is hitting me with full force.

Duffgurl · May 2011

I am Loving every minute of being pregnant. Yes I know the back pain, no sleep and beauty marks left on your body are not the best but over all I Love knowing that our baby boy is growing in my tummy and just the whole experience is wonderful. I honestly think I will miss it a little when he is born because I love being at work and then just feeling him kick it?s so wonderful and since I don?t plan to be a SAHM I will miss being with him. Smile

KayJ88 · May 2011

I love being pregnant. My skin, nails and hair look amazing and to be honest I haven't felt super awful, at least not since the first trimester. A lot of people at my work seem surprised at how mobile and happy I am. I rarely get back pain (usually only at night when I'm laying down) and I've only had swollen feet from doing to much walking. I've learned not to push myself more then I can handle, and if I don't do that I feel incredibly comfortable.

I think I am going to miss being pregnant so much. Many friends and family have told me it suits me! Lol... And I absolutely LOVE feeling Evey moving around in there!

scorpiomom2005 · May 2011

OOOH I do like the special treatment, like today. I went to BBandB and got a bigger item...they put it in my car for me. Went to the hardware store for weed and feed..they brought it out to the car for me. Went to my son's school to pick up his cookie dough, they called someone to take it to the car for me. Granted I'm the one who got to bring all of this inside once I got home but it's nice to be waited on every now and then. The guy at the hardware store was funny though, he took one look at me and said "Now the free deliveries doesn't include that!"

just kita · May 2011

I hate it, except for feeling LO move, that part I love

The entire thing feels like a never ending hangover plus the flu or some other gross sickness. I don't have that pregnant woman glow...instead I've had a rash/hyperpigmentation ON MY FACE since 1st tri that DH says makes me look like a zombie. I can't wait to feel like myself again.

KendraJoette · May 2011

I love being pregnant, I dont love having to carry on with normal life and my job while pregnant.

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