Be honest...!
My mom sent out shower invites last week, and I've noticed a few nice purchses off of mine already! Crib mattress (MIL), infant seat, PNP, two different bouncers, diaper bag.... and a few other stuff too...
Is it bad that I feel like Im going to become addicted to checking it?
Re: How often do you stalk your registry?
I have a shower this coming weekend and next weekend. I've stalked it about 1x per week and feel guilty every time! Today a friend at work said she bought stuff off the registry but Target didn't take it off. Then another girl said Babies R Us didn't take off her items either. I wanted to say that I see things that are "bought" so it must work sometimes, but didn't want to let everyone know I was snooping.
Where are you registered? How can you tell who bought what?
We are registered at Target and BRU. We have already had two showers, you can't tell on the registry. One shower I had was a joint shower and both the other moms were due in May so we had it in April. And I am high risk to go early so my MIL had one last weekend and my final shower will be on the 14th.
Really not looking on purpose but:
1. When I was trying to see about using a coupon for our bedding several weeks ago, I saw something was purchased! (our bedding wasn't included in sale - boo!)
2. A friend just told me last week that she has an item she said she hasn't used much so will just give it to me so I went on to delete it & saw something was purchased.
3. We went on today b/c H & I decided to use BRU coupon & purchase our carseat b/c we saved $32 plus paid less in tax!!
This is me too. I looked at it once to check on an item a friend got and said she didn't mark it on my registry, so I did it for it. But other than that I haven't looked at it and don't plan to. It would ruin the surprise!
Let me make an argument for occassionally checking -- sometimes stuff becomes unavailable. The crib we want went out of stock everywhere on Friday, and I saw on Saturday, so I found a store that had one left and bought it.
But yeah, mostly it's a bad idea. My family shower is Sunday, and not much has been purchased, so serves me right.
Never. But, if 1) knew when my shower was and 2) people knew about my registries I'd be checking it all the time. LOL! I hate surprises and would totally peek at every opportunity.
I do know I will have a shower though. I will stalk once people know I have the registry.
My rationale: you don't know who buys the things for you, so you are still surprised.
We'll miss you sweet Debbie Girl (4.21.12) and sweet Cindy Girl (8.9.12)

not often.
I have three showers - one this weekend, one next weekend and one in June. It drives DH crazy that I look... but I can't help it.
The way that I justify it is that we picked it all out so really there is no surprise to ruin... I know its a lame justification.