Two weeks ago I found out that FI had been posting on Craigslist personals since October and had received/responded to several e-mails. I couldn't find any proof in the e-mails or on his phone that he ever actually met anyone IRL from these e-mails but I feel like he may have. So I left. So right now my little guy and I are living with my parents which is slightly above getting a root canal with no pain meds on the "fun" scale. I've told my ex that we can continue to speak and see what happens. Our first "conversation" was a couple days ago and he just said he was sorry and he won't do it again yadda yadda yadda. It's just not enough, and I don't know if I'll be able to trust him again or if I'll ever want to go back. But I also am terrified of raising my little guy on my own. So this is a scary/painful time for me...as I'm sure you ladies know!
Thanks for reading.
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150% positive he DID act on something. That little feeling in your gut is important, don't ignore it. Any man who would consider doing that with a FI and a child is chickenshiit. I went through something similar when I was pregnant. Run, run away while you have the chance. I write about it a lot in my blog if you ever care to read it.
Oh and welcome!