I am sure it will be some piece of jewelry. I would love a pendant with the baby's initials or name on it. something simple and tasteful that i could wear everyday - maybe silver with a pearl in it. maybe something like this
Dream gift: I would really love a diamond tennis bracelet, but would actually be upset if DH spent that much and would insist he take it back.
My husband is getting me a small bracelet from Alex and Ani with an owl charm, since the nursery "theme" is owls. We don't know gender or name, so he didn't want to do anything with an initial. He used a coupon code b/c he said he spent under $20.
While I think it is tacky to ASK for a gift from your husband, If he wants to buy you something and wants your input, why is that 'silly'? I think it is really sweet that husbands want to get their wives something to mark the occasion. I think it is sad when husbands (and wives) don't want to do sweet gestures (even just a card or a notes) to let your significant other know how much you appreciate them.
I am getting my husband a state of Texas flag flown over the capitol on our daughter's birthday. He loves Texas (we both do) but he brings new meaning to Texas Pride and I know it will be the perfect gift for him. I also got our daughter a pink onesie with the battle of Gonzales flag (Come and Take It) and a few other things.
A baby! I don't need a push present. My husband has been a rock through this thing and nothing more than a stellar husband for the last 8 months. That is my present!
I agree that I think asking for a "push present" is completely stupid!
However, I do also agree that if DH/SO wants to buy you something - then let him do it.
The only thing I want is sushi after delivering! I am requesting that SOMEBODY bring me some Crazy Tuna and Rainbow rolls as soon as that baby is out of me!!! Mmmmmmmmmmm.... so hungry
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We aren't actually calling it a "push present" but I've always wanted to do stackable right hand rings for each of my children. Each ring would alternate with a diamond and the child's birthstone and be thin similar to my wedding band. I won't be getting it in the hospital since baby might be born in May if he's early and if he is in June, I think we'd go with alexandrite over pearls.
I understand people think that push presents are dumb, but I like the idea of having something for each of my children that's subtle and doesn't scream baby. Plus MH is finally finished with all his medical training (after 10 looong years) so we are each getting something to celebrate (he's getting a new mountain bike)
Sushi: extra spicy tuna rolls and a Philadelphia roll, cherry coke, and a white chocolate mocha from Starbucks! All I want are some of the things I gave up in order to keep my baby safe and healthy. My baby will be the best 'push' present I could ever get!
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My H is getting me the Elsa Peretti Diamonds by the Yard Bracelet. We skipped Xmas and B-Day gifts this year, so this is what I wanted instead. I can't wait, I've been eyeing it since last September. We are pretty low key on the gift giving, so everyone once in blue moon(e.g. 30th birthday, master's graduation) I want something big and my H indulges me.
My H is getting me the Elsa Peretti Diamonds by the Yard Bracelet. We skipped Xmas and B-Day gifts this year, so this is what I wanted instead. I can't wait, I've been eyeing it since last September. We are pretty low key on the gift giving, so everyone once in blue moon(e.g. 30th birthday, master's graduation) I want something big and my H indulges me.
After reading, apparently this makes me tacky. Hahaha, I can live with that.
When the lady at the hospital said something to my husband during our tour, he immediately asked me when we left what he needed to get me. I told him I don't want him spending any money on me for a push gift. I think it's silly and I think that money is better spent other ways. I told him if he insisted just get me a card, and perhaps down at the gift shop I was sure they had a ballon or something he could get me and the LO!
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I've never even heard of "push gifts" until the Bump. DH and I barely even give each other Christmas gifts. I will be getting a baby out of the deal, and that's fine by me.
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My H is getting me the Elsa Peretti Diamonds by the Yard Bracelet. We skipped Xmas and B-Day gifts this year, so this is what I wanted instead. I can't wait, I've been eyeing it since last September. We are pretty low key on the gift giving, so everyone once in blue moon(e.g. 30th birthday, master's graduation) I want something big and my H indulges me.
After reading, apparently this makes me tacky. Hahaha, I can live with that.
My sweet baby boy.... But, I have a hunch that DH will be getting me something small for mother's day..He keeps hinting that technically I'm already a mother in his eyes, which I think is sweet
Um I won't be asking for anything, should DH magically decide to get me something I'll accept what he gives.
And really it's a month after mother's day (which I know he's planning to get me something, again which I have no asked for) AND we'll have a brand new, healthy (God willing) baby....I don't need anything else.
This sounds really simple, but I would really love a big bouquet of pink flowers. Since we dont have any family where we live, I'm sure we wont be getting any from other people at the hospital. Nor will we have any visitors until about a month after she is born.
(There is also a flower stand on the corner by our apartment and they are super cheap, so this makes this REALLY easy for him.)
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BFP #1- Feb 2010 - M/C at 8w March 2010
BFP #2- Oct 2011 - Claire Lillian born June 21, 2011
BFP #3- Feb 2012 - M/C at 4w4d March 2012
BFP #4- Aug 12th, 2012 - EDD Apr 25th, 2013. T&P that this one stays put!
Re: What's your "push" gift going to be?
My husband told me he's going to get me new underwear because mine have "had a rough go of this pregnancy". He's a real romantic.
(I've also asked for a gift certificate to a spa).
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The baby! I don't see the point in push gifts. But then again, I'm not a huge gift person.
ETA: Oh, and a beer! I love Summer seasonal beers and I imagine I'll need one by then!
I am sure it will be some piece of jewelry. I would love a pendant with the baby's initials or name on it. something simple and tasteful that i could wear everyday - maybe silver with a pearl in it. maybe something like this
Dream gift: I would really love a diamond tennis bracelet, but would actually be upset if DH spent that much and would insist he take it back.
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Yup.
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Yep.
i'm with most of the ladies here: i'll be getting to meet my son. that's all the reward i need
Besides the baby? I'm hoping for a big, chewy, chocolate chip cookie for my push gift. I've had to give that up since I was diagnosed with GD.
Other than that, I'm not expecting anything!
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My husband is getting me a small bracelet from Alex and Ani with an owl charm, since the nursery "theme" is owls. We don't know gender or name, so he didn't want to do anything with an initial. He used a coupon code b/c he said he spent under $20.
https://www.alexandani.com/store/product_info.php?products_id=501
While I think it is tacky to ASK for a gift from your husband, If he wants to buy you something and wants your input, why is that 'silly'? I think it is really sweet that husbands want to get their wives something to mark the occasion. I think it is sad when husbands (and wives) don't want to do sweet gestures (even just a card or a notes) to let your significant other know how much you appreciate them.
I am getting my husband a state of Texas flag flown over the capitol on our daughter's birthday. He loves Texas (we both do) but he brings new meaning to Texas Pride
and I know it will be the perfect gift for him. I also got our daughter a pink onesie with the battle of Gonzales flag (Come and Take It) and a few other things.
I agree that I think asking for a "push present" is completely stupid!
However, I do also agree that if DH/SO wants to buy you something - then let him do it.
The only thing I want is sushi after delivering! I am requesting that SOMEBODY bring me some Crazy Tuna and Rainbow rolls as soon as that baby is out of me!!! Mmmmmmmmmmm.... so hungry
We aren't actually calling it a "push present" but I've always wanted to do stackable right hand rings for each of my children. Each ring would alternate with a diamond and the child's birthstone and be thin similar to my wedding band. I won't be getting it in the hospital since baby might be born in May if he's early and if he is in June, I think we'd go with alexandrite over pearls.
I understand people think that push presents are dumb, but I like the idea of having something for each of my children that's subtle and doesn't scream baby. Plus MH is finally finished with all his medical training (after 10 looong years) so we are each getting something to celebrate (he's getting a new mountain bike)
After reading, apparently this makes me tacky. Hahaha, I can live with that.
oh boy, not this subject again...
it's very nice if your dh just buys you something out of the blue, without you dropping hints or asking him
but since he's asking you for ideas, why don't you tell him "thanks but no thanks"
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This exactly!
oh yeah, no kidding, i forgot mother's day is coming up so soon
i'd rather have something for mother's day than a push present... not that i'll get anything for mother's day either lol
my DH asked what I wanted...
I said a treadmill
Um I won't be asking for anything, should DH magically decide to get me something I'll accept what he gives.
And really it's a month after mother's day (which I know he's planning to get me something, again which I have no asked for) AND we'll have a brand new, healthy (God willing) baby....I don't need anything else.
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This sounds really simple, but I would really love a big bouquet of pink flowers.
Since we dont have any family where we live, I'm sure we wont be getting any from other people at the hospital. Nor will we have any visitors until about a month after she is born.
(There is also a flower stand on the corner by our apartment and they are super cheap, so this makes this REALLY easy for him.)
haha!!! Love this!