Hmm...I'm not really sure if this pre-baby counseling thing would really work. It's kinda like the childbirth classes where they gave us a doll to change a diaper and pretend to give it a bath. It's a nice idea, but it's NOTHING like having a real baby.
I think you just have to realize that you'll have to work on your marriage just like you'll have to work on being a new mom/dad. For example, we are giving LO to MIL and FIL on Friday night so we can go out and then have some time alone here at the house (usually if someone babysits they come to our house instead).
I agree with pp. I think it is going to take communication and making time for each other to keep marriage strong. These things should already be in place prior to having kids and its up to the couple to really make efforts to applying in the relationship.
Hope (32), James (36), Sophee (1 year old), McKenzee (7 weeks)
I agree with pp. I think it is going to take communication and making time for each other to keep marriage strong. These things should already be in place prior to having kids and its up to the couple to really make efforts to applying in the relationship.
This!
Not related but "had720" - your baby girl is gorgeous!
I agree with pp. I think it is going to take communication and making time for each other to keep marriage strong. These things should already be in place prior to having kids and its up to the couple to really make efforts to applying in the relationship.
This!
Not related but "had720" - your baby girl is gorgeous!
I was just going to say that!
I agree. I don't think "dividing up household chores" is a huge strain on my relationship, or any of the other things they really focused on. Communication is key in any marriage, baby or no baby.
Re: here comes baby there goes marriage! wsj article
Hmm...I'm not really sure if this pre-baby counseling thing would really work. It's kinda like the childbirth classes where they gave us a doll to change a diaper and pretend to give it a bath. It's a nice idea, but it's NOTHING like having a real baby.
I think you just have to realize that you'll have to work on your marriage just like you'll have to work on being a new mom/dad. For example, we are giving LO to MIL and FIL on Friday night so we can go out and then have some time alone here at the house (usually if someone babysits they come to our house instead).
Not related but "had720" - your baby girl is gorgeous!
I was just going to say that!
I agree. I don't think "dividing up household chores" is a huge strain on my relationship, or any of the other things they really focused on. Communication is key in any marriage, baby or no baby.