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Back from my mini vacay but sad to say goodbye

Jmendez83Jmendez83
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As some of you know I left last thursday to celebrate my 2nd wedding anniversary (4/24/09) in Atlantic City, NJ. Things went great and had an awesome time! But the excitement and happiness came to an end yesterday afternoon where I went to meet with the "normal" obgyn for the first time. DH and I were so devastated to find out the once upon a time strong heartbeat stopped beating. The baby did measure 10weeks, so it must have just happened. I've had no warning of any sort and I am scheduled for a D&C this Saturday, April 30th.

So with that being said,  I would like to say thank you to you all for making me feel welcomed here and I hope to be back soon for a longer stay! Wishing you all a Happy and Healthy pregnancy.

Married April 24th, 2009 BFP May 13, 2009 Blighted Ovum-6/18/2009 8wks M/C 7/1/2009-lasted 2 and half weeks 1st round of Provera 10/1/2009-10/10/2009 =still waiting!?!?! FIRST AF showed up: 10/25/2009-10/30/2009 SECOND AF 12/2/2009-12/6/2009 THIRD AND FINAL AF BEFORE TTC: 01/12/2010-12/18/2010 2nd round on Provera: 3/3/2010-3/12/2010 AF- 3/17/2010-3/23/2010 1ST ROUND CLOMID CD5-9: 3/21/2010-3/25/2010 BFP-April 25th, 2010 M/C-May 15th 2010 (NO HEARTBEAT @ 8.5wks) AF #1 since mc on July 15th, 2010 (TTC since this date) AF #2 since mc on Sept 27th, 2010 (TTC) Oct. 2010-decided to go see an RE Dec. 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS Dec. 11th 2010 AF #3 since mc AF #3 since mc-Dec 11th, 2010 Jan 25th, 2011- 1st IUI w/ ovidrel Feb 7th 2011- TOTAL BUST~~BFN AF showed her face Feb. 10th 2011 Feb.25th 2011-IUI #2 w/ Clomid and ovidrel shot-??? Pregnancy Test on March 11th-BFP Daisypath Anniversary tickers image
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  • DowagerCountessofNJDowagerCountessofNJ
    I'm very sorry to hear this.  I hope the physical recovery is quick for you.  Take care of yourself and I hope we see you back here soon.
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  • Karen1998Karen1998 member
    Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry.  It's just not fair, not fair at all.  Big, squishy ((((((hugs))))))).
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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  • KiKiMeKiKiMe member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. :::hugs:::
    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
    Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
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  • LifeInANutshellLifeInANutshell member
    I'm so very sorry ((((hugs))))
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    Oh no, how awful. I am so sorry you are going through this, that is so unfair and upsetting. (((HUGS)))
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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    I am so very sorry ((((HUGEHUGS))))
    * PAL/PgAL Bumpie & NBC-Twi Nestie * imageBloggity Blog BFP #1 in 2001 ? natural m/c @ 9w4d ? TTC our first since 2009 ? BFP #2 on 8/25/2010 ? natural M/C @ 7w6d on 9/25/2010 Clomid cycle #1 @ 50mg = BFP #3 on 1/1/11 ~ EDD 9/14/2011!!! Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • JoAnna914JoAnna914 member
    I am so sorry.  My heart breaks for you.
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member
    I am so very sorry for your loss.  Sending T&P for peace and healing your way.  ((Hugs))

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    BFP #2 2/2011
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  • DCWJesDCWJes member
    I am so sorry to hear this. I hope to see you back here again soon.
    I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
    No longer trying to conceive at all.
    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
     Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
     Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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  • HadleySHadleyS member

    I am so very sorry. =(  I hope that you get your wish and are back here again soon for a full happy and healthy nine months.  Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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    BFP 03/03/11, EDD 11/09/11, We love you so much already, our sweet little munchkin!!!
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    *Congrats to my buddy, Izabella22 (BFP 5/11/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
    *Congrats to my buddy, myaddiwaddi06(BFP 10/31/11)!!!Sending you Ts and Ps for a healthy, take-home baby!
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  • molRNmolRN
    So sorry for your loss (((HUGS))). 
    Nov. 19, 2010 BFP #1--m/c Dec. 24th, 2010 First cycle after m/c on Feb. 2, 2011--March 8th, 2011 BFP #2 EDD Nov. 19, 2011. Nadia Dorothy Grace born on 11-18-11 @ 3:04pm 6lbs 14oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • NeenyWNeenyW member
    I am very sorry to hear this. Sending lots of T&Ps your way.
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  • samm1983samm1983 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Many thoughts and prayers to you!
    7 mm/c
    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

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  • jess252jess252
    I am so so sorry. Its not fair at all . My T&P's are with you. I wish you the best. And i will be praying for you and your family. ((HUGS)) I hope to see you back here soon.
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  • 704bride704bride member
    I am so, so sorry.  I hope you're back here again really soon.
    Baby Boy #1 born on 3/21/08 
    BFP 8/2/10 (3w5d); No more heartbeat on 8/30/10 (7w4d); D&C on 9/2/10 (8w) - Baby Boy with Triploidy
    BFP 12/3/10 (4w2d); Natural miscarriage 12/12/10 (5w4d) - Unknown cause
    Diagnosed with Compound Heterozygous MTHFR
    BFP 3/9/11; Baby Boy #2 born on 11/7/11
    Currently TTC Baby #3

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  • hugs&hissyfitshugs&hissyfits
    I'm very sorry for your loss. It is not fair that this continues to happen to some of us. I pray your surgery goes well and you have a speedy recovery. Again, I'm so sorry!
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  • HappyLaLa0914HappyLaLa0914 member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Sad
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  • ginamcpginamcp
    I'm so very sorry for you loss.
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  • Heidikins27Heidikins27
    I'm so sorry. Sending T&Ps to you and your DH.
    BFP#1 20/10/10, natural mc 17/11/10 at 9wks; BFP#2 16/1/11, sticky baby dust required Lilypie Pregnancy tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • TigerFanTigerFan
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member
    I am so sorry. How devastating. My thoughts are with your and your DH.
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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member
    I am so sorry. How devastating. My thoughts are with you and your DH.
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    BFP#1 5.27.10 DS became an angel at 21 weeks on 9.22.10
    BFP#2 4.16.11 Healthy baby girl born 12.14.11
    BFP#3 9.3.12 A healthy, bouncing baby SISTER on the way! EDD 5.12.13

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  • damabo80damabo80 member
    Huge hugs. I'm so sorry.


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • Froggy76Froggy76 member
    Oh no.  I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    Huge hugs. I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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    BFP 2: 12/28/10
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  • babes12babes12 member
    I'm sorry.
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • sunflowr0803sunflowr0803 member
    Oh no! I'm so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))
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  • mommy411mommy411 member

    I am so so sorry

    Big hugs!

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  • KozieKimKozieKim member
    So sorry for your loss. T&P to you and your husband
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  • StaceyM06StaceyM06
    I'm so sorry for your loss. T&Ps for you. 
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    I'm so very sorry.  (((hugs)))
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • anonomityanonomity
    I'm so, so sorry to hear this. ((HUGE HUGS)) to you.
    TTC since January 2010
    BFP 5/9/10. U/S - no heartbeat 6/2/10 (7 weeks). Induced miscarriage 6/7/10.
    Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
    dx: RPL due to poor quality uterine lining; begin progesterone January 2011
    BFP 3/10/11. EDD 11/19/11. E arrived 11/15/11!

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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    I'm so sorry
    BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
    ITS A BOY!!!! Born 11/13/11 BFP #4: 10/29/12 edd 7/11/12
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  • Ernie52408Ernie52408 member
    So sorry for your loss.
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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    I am so so sorry.  ((huge hugs))
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  • MsPegeesMsPegees
    I'm so sorry. HUGS
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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    I am so sorry.  ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • mgduke19mgduke19 member
    HUGE (((HUGS))). I am so very sorry
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  • MrsAtchMrsAtch member
    I am so sorry you're going through this again. I'll keep you in my T&P.
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
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  • OrangeDaisy13OrangeDaisy13
    I'm so very sorry!  (((hugs)))
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