TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

ET on Sat.

All the embryos (11!) are almost to the Blast stage.  The Dr. said they are "compacted".  Because they are doing so well, they want to transfer 1.  I am okay with that, b/c all I want is a healthy, happy baby and multiples can have problems.  BUT DH isn't so happy with that and neither is my mom.  Both want 2 transferred.  I had the Dr call DH and talk to him about it, b/c really HE is the one that wants 2 transplanted.  If we end up freezing 10 embryos that is fine, we can FET for our #2.
Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

imageimageimage

Re: ET on Sat.

  • How exciting! It sounds like a great plan and as long as you're ok with it that's all that matters.
  • Loading the player...
  • So exciting!!!  So glad that the embies are all growing so well!! 

    Ultimately, you have to be okay with your decision and the outcome, you can't do something you will regret.  YH's opinion matters of course, but you are the one who has to experience everything, so I think that carries a little more weight.

    Good luck tomorrow!!!!!   

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Sending lots of luck your way. I will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow and hoping in 2 weeks you have some good news to share.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

    my blog

  • So glad all is looking well.  Will be thinking about you tomorrow!
  • That is awesome news.
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers IVF #1 BFP Beta #1 528 & Beta #2 1514
  • Gah!  That is SO exciting.  Can't wait for the update!

    image

    Missed m/c 11.09 | Missed m/c 3.10 | We miss you & love you so.
    ~ ~ ~
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Formerly toddandjulie
  • (TICKER WARNING)

    Go embies, go! I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and hope that everything goes well!  Will it be done in RV again? 

    Oh, Baby Bean! We will always miss you! With us for 6w3d -- June 9, 2008.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    2 years of TTC, Seeing RE Feb 09, 2 medicated TI cycles - BFNs, 3 medicated IUIs - BFNs, back to medicated TI cycles until IVF approval, IVF approved in March 2010. BFP on last medicated TI cycle.
    Lilypie Fifth Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • Very exciting!  I don't know what the compromise between 1 and 2 is, but I hope you reach a decision that is good for both of you.  Good luck!
    imageimage
    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • Wow, that's fantastic! Sounds like you're about to have a bebe and some sibs in the fridge!

    Also, your mom? The one who didn't even want you doing IVF because of the risks? Wants them to do 2? Uf. Feed her some wine so she forgets :) 

  • Good luck! I'm crossing everything for you!

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Best of luck to you.
    BFP #1: 5/3/10 Natural MC: 5/11/10 BFP #2: 3/24/11 C/p: 3/29/11 BFP #3: 5/17/11 C/P: 5/20/11 BFP #4: 11/13/11 Daisypath Anniversary tickersImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic ~*~Congrats to my TTCAL buddies toshbosh233 & clairenmonique, EDDs 4/2011; bekahjen, EDD 5/2011; MCH77, EDD 7/2011; HokieMomma, EDD 8/2011; shanna82, EDD 9/2011; Rachel4127, EDD 10/2011~*~
  • This is very exciting.  I have my fingers crossed for you!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    imageimageimage
  • Many T&P's for all to go well! I have so much crossed right now...
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Great news! Fingers crossed that things go smoothly tomorrow!

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers



    Lilypie First Birthday tickers

  • imageColindaP:

    Wow, that's fantastic! Sounds like you're about to have a bebe and some sibs in the fridge!

    Also, your mom? The one who didn't even want you doing IVF because of the risks? Wants them to do 2? Uf. Feed her some wine so she forgets :) 

    Yep. Same one. DH and I talked and are only doing one. He said your body your choice. I choose not to have a litter :-)
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

    imageimageimage
  • Sending good thoughts your way today!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • We had great results with our IVF too, which was really surprising considering the crappy results of our IUI's, which is why our RE suggested only 1 embryo too.  In the end, i'm glad we did listen to the doc, since a) it worked, and b)multiples are soooo hard on the body.

     I know it's a hard decision, but it sounds like your doctor is making the right choice for you.  I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.  Take it easy, and i'll be keeping everything crossed for you!  Big hugs!!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Good luck!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"