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Logged into FB...FML

Jackie2200Jackie2200 member
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I used to be a Facebook addict.  I wasn't much of a poster but I was a huge lurker.  I've barely logged into FB since losing my boys becasue there are too many pregnant people and too many newborn photos on there.  I don't know why but this morning, I logged in and saw so many new babies and so many pregnancy reglated posts.  :(  I am so sad....This just isn't fair.  :(

On a related note, my SIL's due date was 4/16 so any day now, we'll be getting "the call."  UGH....I'm so selfish but I can't bring myself to even be excited or happy for them. 

I just want time to stop until I have a baby for myself.  :(


TTC Since 10/08 4 IUIs=BFNx4
IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
IVF#2=BFN
IVF#3=c/p IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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Re: Logged into FB...FML

  • cookie_queencookie_queen

    I know sweetie. It sucks and FB can be a death trap some days. I have definitely been using the hide function liberally since my boys died.

    I wish time could stop too. 

    TTC with severe MFI since 9/08 IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
    Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    FET #1 April 2011= BFN
    FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
    FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138 Pregnancy Ticker
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member

    (((hugs))) I'm so sorry. I am going through the same thing and it is hard. SIL just had a baby and I was never friends with her on FB but she has sent me 3 requests so I friended her finally. Ugh. It is non stop. How can someone w/ a newborn have so much time to post on FB?

    I wish someone knew of a trick for us all to cope with this. I don't know about you but when I finally feel like I can manage an issue, I get slammed with something else.

    I wish things were easier for you. Damn FB.

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  • softbalangelsoftbalangel
    I'm so sorry hun. ((Hugs))
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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    ::hugs:

    I have defintely shyed away from FB in the recent months. I feel better!

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

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  • AmberB75AmberB75
    Your feelings are totally understandable and I think we can all relate. I try to tell myself that whatever is happening in someone else's life cannot affect whether I get pregnant or not. It's not an either or. It helps sometimes. Big hugs!!
    DS born 10/2008 TTC #2 since 8/2009 MFI and natural killer cell activation diagnosis IVF #4 = BFP!! Due 10/12!!
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