TTC After a Loss

There needs to be a limit..

There needs to be a limit on how much a person can deal with.  My BIL has just gotten out of the hospital last week and is still on oxygen at home.  Now my mother (the one that had surgery 2 weeks ago) has been admitted to the hospital.  She is on a ventilator and they don't know what the hell is going on yet. I CAN'T HANDLE THIS ANYMORE!!!  FML
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  • I am so sorry ..many prayers for your family {{{HUGS}}}
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  • Oh hon that's awful- lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way----
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  • I'm so sorry.  *hugs*
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  • I'm so sorry! It does seem like there should be a limit....it makes no sense sometimes. Many hugs and prayers for you and your family.

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  • I'm so sorry, many (((hugs))) to you.  Try and stay strong for them...T&P's with your family...
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  • Very sorry to hear this.  *Big hugs*.  Sending T&Ps your way.
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  • I'm so sorry. My prayers are wit you and your family.
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  • I am so sorry, Meg!!!
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • You and your family are in my T&P!! :::HUGS::
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  • I agree! There should be a limit!

    T&P to you and your family.

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  • Lots of prayers said for you and your family.  I'm so sorry this is happening.  I hope they get some answers and gets well soon!!!
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  • Keeping your family in my thoughts!!

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  • I am so sorry...T&P
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  • Oh goodness. I'm so sorry. I hope they figure out what is wrong with your mom soon and your BIL heals quickly.
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  • *massive hugs*  Many T&P's headed your way.
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  • I'm so very sorry and sending you lots of T&P's to your family and big huge ((hugs)) to you. 
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  • ((HUGS)) I'm so very sorry and I'm sending my T&P's to your family. 
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  • imageSweetTurnip:
    I agree- we need a limit to this kind of sh!t!!! I am so tired of it. **Big hugs** and many T&P for your family, hon.
    this exactly.

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