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pinktulips · April 2011

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pinktulips · April 2011

I had to count the title of this post 3 times to make sure I did it correctly. I still am not sure.

I agreed to participate in a study with the Univeristy here and they came to do a home visit yesterday. They videotaped Thea and I doing various tasks/playing together. When I watched the video all I could think was how badly I needed a haircut and a bra that put the girls back up where they are supposed to be (vs the nursing tank I was wearing).

I am participating in the newest Craft Hope project. It's making bracelets for orphans in Russia. I am going to make some, even organize a group to do it - but, I don't get it. I mean, I think the idea is to give those precious children hope, that someone is thinking of them. But, a bracelet? I guess I am feeling like in the scheme of surviving, it is a weak, weak gesture. Those kids need so much more then a bracelet.

ChubbyCheekiesMom · April 2011

ABC Canceled my favorite Soap opera "All my Children" and I cried, literally. I PPH that show, it's been a staple in my life for a very long time. It cannot be replaced. I'm soooo Sad.

LauraLynneC · April 2011

I judge people for leaving the house in sweats. For even errands.

Today I'm wearing "cotton pants" to work. They are - for all intents and purposes - sweats with trouser-like pockets.

I don't care.

smilingjb · April 2011

I don't want to go to work today, but I know I should. I want to sleep in and I am not looking forward to my horrible commute home. Can I call in lazy?

IkesHawaiian06 · April 2011

LauraLynneC:
I judge people for leaving the house in sweats. For even errands.

Today I'm wearing "cotton pants" to work. They are - for all intents and purposes - sweats with trouser-like pockets.

I don't care.

You'd judge me, I wear sweats out of the house a lot. And I don't even care.

Mine is that my husband is being incredibly insensitive about this pregnancy. He doesn't seem to understand that when you're nauseous, it's hard to do things. I think he thinks I'm faking it and it annoys me. I want to kick him really hard sometimes.

zazzu · April 2011

I haven't totally unpacked my suitcase from my trip, and I got back a month ago.

Last night, I was so angry at to stupid, trashy, rude woman at the grocery store that went through the check-out line buying cigaretts. She was gabbing on the phone and just handed the cashier a wad of crumpled up money. I judged. However I was there buying wine and formula, so someone probably judged me too, so it balances out I think.

preston18 · April 2011

I have gained 3lbs in a month of WW online. I track, I weigh my food. I Plan ahead.

So last night in a moment of "Fucck it!" I bought a carton of my fave ice cream. I'd eat it before and not gain so why give it up and gain?

This morning, I dug through it to get the good stuff out, and threw the rest of it down the sink. I had a lovely small mug with the perfect balance of PB and chocolate and no further temptation.

I wonder if DH will notice?

HayHay · April 2011

I am in SUCH a funk. This divorce business sucks. Yes, it was my decision, and I have no regrets, but I'm tired of it being my reality right now. It's a huge adjustment, and I just want it to be six months from now.

I like pp's idea of calling in lazy.

Also, I have a huge preso in front of upper mgmt on Monday. I finished my rough draft yesterday and have practiced it once. Really need to get on that.

BethS2006 · April 2011

I went to get my mirena placed yesterday. I may or may not have left with tears and a rx for femara. Indifferent

God help me if I get ktfu with a second set of twinkies (sorry jody)

WatchPot · April 2011

BethS2006:

I may or may not have left with tears and a rx for femara.

Yes Yes

Kathzoo · April 2011

I am going nuts from a complete lack of meaningful adult conversation. For a variety of reasons, I've missed my usual social opportunities the last 2 weeks and it is making me crazy. I am angry at DH and the kids, even though it's not their fault, and trying to find something to do today that might allow for some interaction. I feel like a total loser/clingy SAHM. I just joined five new meetup groups in hopes that I can find some things to do next month to keep the crazy at bay. Thank goodness for KNemo and our morning runs because that is the only grown up time I've had this week. DH just stared at me blankly last night when I tried to explain how I feel. He doesn't get it.

jcyahne · April 2011

I stayed home to cuddle a sick Hayden on Monday. DH could have probably handled it himself, but I never get to cuddle with H like I did J. Plus I'm about to start a new job and will have crap for sick and vacation leave.

DH and I both have colds. The kids feel great. We're miserable. I think it would be easier if the kids were sick and we were feeling fine.

A friend on FB had to get up at 5:30am this past week for a class. I'm so tired of hearing how hard it was and how she slept through her alarm. I get up at 5am every damn day. I need to stay away for the rest of today to avoid making a snarky remark.

KNemo · April 2011

Kathzoo:
I am going nuts from a complete lack of meaningful adult conversation. For a variety of reasons, I've missed my usual social opportunities the last 2 weeks and it is making me crazy. I am angry at DH and the kids, even though it's not their fault, and trying to find something to do today that might allow for some interaction. I feel like a total loser/clingy SAHM. I just joined five new meetup groups in hopes that I can find some things to do next month to keep the crazy at bay. Thank goodness for KNemo and our morning runs because that is the only grown up time I've had this week. DH just stared at me blankly last night when I tried to explain how I feel. He doesn't get it.

Oh, I know exactly how you feel! I feel alone so much, and I need more girl time. I am so sorry I couldn't meet up with you today, but I would feel so bad if I got you sick before your trip! I am here for you whenever you need me! We can even try to get away from the kiddos. You know where I live! Stop by any time.

gina000 · April 2011

My inlaws arrive today, I know I should be thankful that they want to come and be part of their Grandson's life, but I wish MIL was a little less annoying. They are only here for the weekend so it could be worse, but I really like spending my weekends with DH and DS since it is really the only time I really get to see them.

MrsAmyB · April 2011

I don't understand the point of having a baby name list (especially a long one) and asking people to vote on it when they aren't even TTC.

Last year when everyone was buzzing about Bigger Dance, I thought it was a TV show that was a cross between the Biggest Loser and So You Think You Can Dance.

tfarabians · April 2011

Kathzoo:
I am going nuts from a complete lack of meaningful adult conversation. For a variety of reasons, I've missed my usual social opportunities the last 2 weeks and it is making me crazy. I am angry at DH and the kids, even though it's not their fault, and trying to find something to do today that might allow for some interaction. I feel like a total loser/clingy SAHM. I just joined five new meetup groups in hopes that I can find some things to do next month to keep the crazy at bay. Thank goodness for KNemo and our morning runs because that is the only grown up time I've had this week. DH just stared at me blankly last night when I tried to explain how I feel. He doesn't get it.

This is me, except the thought of leaving the house makes me exhausted and the thought of staying home drives me nuts! God I hope this zoloft kicks in soon!

LuvBug12683 · April 2011

I had a super naughty dream about Dexter (Michael C. Hall)...

I guess it wouldn't be so bad if he wasn't a KILLER, I wonder what that says about me!?! Indifferent

tfarabians · April 2011

LauraLynneC:

I judge people for leaving the house in sweats. For even errands.

Oh boy you would judge me big time! I have been living in my yoga pants for months now!

tfarabians · April 2011

I called my OB yesterday and got on zoloft after I walked out of the grocery store without any of my groceries...at least I didn't leave my children there right?

I hate fridays, I don't have anything going on for Cruz which means I am the sole entertainment for the day for both boys!

blueLu25 · April 2011

1. I have no idea what Bigger Dance is, I guess I should google it.

2. I miss CG. CG where arrrrrrre youuuu?

3. This is a big one that I am kinda embarrassed to say, but need to get it off my chest--

Last night I had a MAJOR breakdown. Home alone with the kids, while dh was at school. Something in me just snapped and for a moment I could understand why the lady who drove off the bridge with her kids did it. Except that I would never do it with the kids in the car. There was a lot of screaming and I went up to our room to be alone for a min and slammed the door as hard as I possibly could. I was kind of hoping I would break it, but I guess I'm not that strong. Anyway, I have never felt that angry and out of control in a long time. But not at the kids, just in general, so overwhelmed. I texted dh and told him he needed to come home. I have been doing EVERYTHING by myself for so many weeks now, I guess the stress had to come out somewhere.

I drove the kids around the neighborhood hoping they would sleep, til dh got home and we barely even talked about it. He just went and fell asleep on the couch.

I need some time away. But strangely, I feel a lot better today. I need to learn how to ask for help tho.

AnnetteWalker · April 2011

I am not really excited for DS's 3rd birthday party. I feel like I have to do some big thing and it is getting expensive.

Daycare is a thorn in my side and has been for a few weeks. They only want DS in Pull ups and they say he can't come in underwear. Yeah like he is gonna learn that way. Grr. We are look at new daycare/preschools but I don't want to change his care again.

I bought a spa day thing on Living social and I am thinking of making my appt for the day I took off on DS's acutal birthday. I took 2 days off and I was planning on spending the one day with him doing something fun then the next day will be my spa day. Hmmm I need to call to make an appt.

MrsAmyB · April 2011

blueLu25:

3. This is a big one that I am kinda embarrassed to say, but need to get it off my chest--

Last night I had a MAJOR breakdown. Home alone with the kids, while dh was at school. Something in me just snapped and for a moment I could understand why the lady who drove off the bridge with her kids did it. Except that I would never do it with the kids in the car. There was a lot of screaming and I went up to our room to be alone for a min and slammed the door as hard as I possibly could. I was kind of hoping I would break it, but I guess I'm not that strong. Anyway, I have never felt that angry and out of control in a long time. But not at the kids, just in general, so overwhelmed. I texted dh and told him he needed to come home. I have been doing EVERYTHING by myself for so many weeks now, I guess the stress had to come out somewhere.

I drove the kids around the neighborhood hoping they would sleep, til dh got home and we barely even talked about it. He just went and fell asleep on the couch.

I need some time away. But strangely, I feel a lot better today. I need to learn how to ask for help tho.

I understand it, too. And a lot of people have said "people need a license to breed", well, guess what, they were probably perfectly sane when they got pregnant! Being a mom is HARD. You shouldn't be embarassed. You did the right thing and took a minute to yourself. I'm totally all for leaving Meg in her crib when she was small and just taking a breather outside.

I haven't really told anyone, but a month or so ago, I packed my bags and left (with my kids) to my parents house 7 hours away. Sometimes husbands need a wake up call

breebree13 · April 2011

I feel like so many of you...desperate need of adult convo, stressed from taking care of the kiddos solo (my hubs has a physical handicap so he cant pick up kids, change diapers, give baths or dress kiddos). So my confession would be that i take every chance i can to dump the kiddos off on my Mom. Also I am very excited a little to excited for my delivery of whipped cream vodka and skinny girl margarita coming next week.

WatchPot · April 2011

MrsAmyB:
blueLu25:

Last night I had a MAJOR breakdown. Home alone with the kids, while dh was at school. Something in me just snapped and for a moment I could understand why the lady who drove off the bridge with her kids did it. Except that I would never do it with the kids in the car.

I haven't really told anyone, but a month or so ago, I packed my bags and left (with my kids) to my parents house 7 hours away. Sometimes husbands need a wake up call

I had this feeling yesterday, too! (although just me in the car). And a lot lately I've been wishing we had good friends or family closer so that getting in my car and driving away were an option. When DH and I were living in the mid west I would often go to my BFF's house or to my parents for the weekend and I can't do that now. I have no where to go and it requries way too much planning to just "get away". I have really been missing my family a lot lately for this reason alone. Sometimes I just want to pack up and text him from the car "see you sunday". He knows I can't do it though and I think that makes it worse. He doesn't have to try.

Thanks for sharing, I feel better not being alone in these thoughts!

MSTie24 · April 2011

Hugs to the mamas who have had some rough moments. You are all fantastic moms and it's important to do what you need to take care of YOURSELF too, and not just your little(s.)

I have a cleaning lady coming Monday (yay!) but I have hardly done anything around here to get ready. DH works all day the next 2 days (aka no help) and we're going to the Puyallup Fair on Sunday, so I foresee a mad scramble in my near future. And yet here I sit while C naps.

AnnetteWalker:
Daycare is a thorn in my side and has been for a few weeks. They only want DS in Pull ups and they say he can't come in underwear. Yeah like he is gonna learn that way. Grr. We are look at new daycare/preschools but I don't want to change his care again.

Can you use a cloth trainer as a compromise? I've heard good things about the Blueberry brand trainers- fit like underwear but have hidden absorbent/waterproof layers. That must be so frustrating, I've heard so many times that Pullups are not helpful at all for PLing. Possibly why my friend's almost 4 year old was still not PL'ed, because he wore nothing but those.

iHeartHimMore · April 2011

IkesHawaiian06:
LauraLynneC:
I judge people for leaving the house in sweats. For even errands.
Today I'm wearing "cotton pants" to work. They are - for all intents and purposes - sweats with trouser-like pockets.
I don't care.
You'd judge me, I wear sweats out of the house a lot. And I don't even care.

What about someone who wears the same pair of jeans all week long? ::hangs head in shame::

MSTie24 · April 2011

Thought of another- I am in the middle of re-reading the Little House series and I love it now just as much as I did when I was a kid. You're never too old for a good story.

MOHjen · April 2011

blueLu25:
Last night I had a MAJOR breakdown. Home alone with the kids, while dh was at school. Something in me just snapped and for a moment I could understand why the lady who drove off the bridge with her kids did it. Except that I would never do it with the kids in the car. There was a lot of screaming and I went up to our room to be alone for a min and slammed the door as hard as I possibly could. I was kind of hoping I would break it, but I guess I'm not that strong. Anyway, I have never felt that angry and out of control in a long time. But not at the kids, just in general, so overwhelmed. I texted dh and told him he needed to come home. I have been doing EVERYTHING by myself for so many weeks now, I guess the stress had to come out somewhere.

I think we all have these moments. You aren't alone. And you definitely did the right thing by taking a minute and getting it back together. So sorry you are having a tough time.

My Confessions:
So remember last week when I confessed that Maeve's b-day decorations were still up, well yeah they are still up again this week. I will take them down this weekend though!

Maeve's 1 year appt is tomorrow and I think I'm going to push to get her gross motor skill evaluated. Our doctor is pretty laid back, which I usually love but I need to press this. She is really behind and I don't care if I come across as being a crazy mom. I have a very strong feeling that she needs some sort of PT.

iHeartHimMore · April 2011

Lately I have been ridiculously lazy, low energy, and unmotivated. I'm sure part of it is the weather and being stuck in the house. But I've seriously wondered if maybe I'm dealing with some depression or something. Then I wondered if that's not just me looking for an excuse.

cmcmillan · April 2011

blueLu25:

3. This is a big one that I am kinda embarrassed to say, but need to get it off my chest--

Last night I had a MAJOR breakdown. Home alone with the kids, while dh was at school. Something in me just snapped and for a moment I could understand why the lady who drove off the bridge with her kids did it. Except that I would never do it with the kids in the car. There was a lot of screaming and I went up to our room to be alone for a min and slammed the door as hard as I possibly could. I was kind of hoping I would break it, but I guess I'm not that strong. Anyway, I have never felt that angry and out of control in a long time. But not at the kids, just in general, so overwhelmed. I texted dh and told him he needed to come home. I have been doing EVERYTHING by myself for so many weeks now, I guess the stress had to come out somewhere.

I drove the kids around the neighborhood hoping they would sleep, til dh got home and we barely even talked about it. He just went and fell asleep on the couch.

I need some time away. But strangely, I feel a lot better today. I need to learn how to ask for help tho.

I am so sorry L, I have done the samething. I will pack up the boys, drive thru a coffee stand and go for a long drive. It can be so overwhelming at times, and long days seem to take forever to end. I am glad your feeling better today.

ohyeahdollface · April 2011

iHeartHimMore:
IkesHawaiian06:
LauraLynneC:
I judge people for leaving the house in sweats. For even errands.
Today I'm wearing "cotton pants" to work. They are - for all intents and purposes - sweats with trouser-like pockets.
I don't care.
You'd judge me, I wear sweats out of the house a lot. And I don't even care.
What about someone who wears the same pair of jeans all week long? ::hangs head in shame::

When I am working as a nanny, I think I ONLY wear the same clothes for a week. (Minus shirts, and underclothing, those are changed daily.) But between the drool, the food, and the unpredictable and mysterious stains, I have set aside clothes for work. Same jeans, and same hoodie. They get washed on the weekend, and back to work the next week. I only work three days a week, but that is a TON less laundry for me to do during the week. I hate the community laundry at our apartment.

I hardly ever participate, but heres mine for the week.

I am somewhat irritated at DH lately. Little things that have been adding up along the months have left us bickering a lot. I know its been hard for him to find a job, but I have been the sole money-earner since we moved in together. I pay all the bills, the child support for Emma, and take care of a good chunk of housework. (The housework is my fault because I am really anal about how things are cleaned. I am slowly letting him take things over, but its hard!)

Now we are moving to Arizona to be closer to his mom when the baby is born, and hopefully it will be easier to get jobs. His mom is paying for the first months rent, and the deposit, and buying us a fridge and washer/dryer. She is being SO generous, and even though shes a little nutty, I am so thankful. But her ex-H, Dh's Ex-Step Dad (yeah I know) lives about thirty minutes south of us. On the way to her house, (1700 miles) she asked if we could stop and grab the bikes he doesn't want and bring them in the truck. Shes been a little annoying, asking EVERY day, but she is doing so much for us that I have no problem with it.

DH threw a FIT. Claiming they would get his couch dirty. (Ahem, I paid for it! and the cover that we are putting on it for the move). He needs to get over it. And rub my feet. =P They are killing me!

Vent over.. I guess that wasn't really a confession!

DH and I are going to have a LONG talk when we drive to Az. 26 hours in the car to sort things out, make a goal sheet for a few months, and get *** on track!

jcyahne · April 2011

blueLu25:
3. This is a big one that I am kinda embarrassed to say, but need to get it off my chest--
Last night I had a MAJOR breakdown. Home alone with the kids, while dh was at school. Something in me just snapped and for a moment I could understand why the lady who drove off the bridge with her kids did it. Except that I would never do it with the kids in the car. There was a lot of screaming and I went up to our room to be alone for a min and slammed the door as hard as I possibly could. I was kind of hoping I would break it, but I guess I'm not that strong. Anyway, I have never felt that angry and out of control in a long time. But not at the kids, just in general, so overwhelmed. I texted dh and told him he needed to come home. I have been doing EVERYTHING by myself for so many weeks now, I guess the stress had to come out somewhere.
I drove the kids around the neighborhood hoping they would sleep, til dh got home and we barely even talked about it. He just went and fell asleep on the couch.
I need some time away. But strangely, I feel a lot better today. I need to learn how to ask for help tho.

Nothing to be embarrassed of. I've felt out of control many times. Just last night I had both kids and DH was out at dinner. Hayden was screaming for reasons I couldn't figure out and puked on me twice (an upset stomach? who knows). At the same time Jillian was on the other side of my lap crying about her elmo PJ's until I unbuttoned them for her and then cried because they were unbuttoned. I nearly cried along with them.

You acted like an adult. You took a breather. Nothing embarrassing in that.

cmcmillan · April 2011

tfarabians:

I called my OB yesterday and got on zoloft after I walked out of the grocery store without any of my groceries...at least I didn't leave my children there right?

I hate fridays, I don't have anything going on for Cruz which means I am the sole entertainment for the day for both boys!

Were you able to get your groceries? I hate to ask but how/where did you leave them, in the cart return I assume?

Hopefully today goes well, atleast it isn't raining. You can get the boys outside and Cruz can run off energy.

cmcmillan · April 2011

MSTie24:

AnnetteWalker:

Daycare is a thorn in my side and has been for a few weeks. They only want DS in Pull ups and they say he can't come in underwear. Yeah like he is gonna learn that way. Grr. We are look at new daycare/preschools but I don't want to change his care again.

Can you use a cloth trainer as a compromise? I've heard good things about the Blueberry brand trainers- fit like underwear but have hidden absorbent/waterproof layers. That must be so frustrating, I've heard so many times that Pullups are not helpful at all for PLing. Possibly why my friend's almost 4 year old was still not PL'ed, because he wore nothing but those.

Sorry Annette, pting was such a pita for me last year, I went through so much it was awful. Is he pt at home? Does he use the pullup or the potty while there.

Also what he heck is PLing/PL'ed?

Ciaram22 · April 2011

I love my family dearly but when I get 4 phone calls in a matter of hours asking if I have gone into labor yet I feel like I want to scream.

There are days that I feel alone. I have a couple friends that have new babies but they are too far away for me to visit and spend time with. I try to get out of the house once a day, but it's really tough when everyone thinks that I need to be taking it easy and they all give me grief for getting off the couch. Yes maybe I was on bed rest but at this point the doctors want me up and moving around to start get things moving. I just want someone to go have a cup of coffee with and just chat or be invited when everyone goes out to lunch or dinner instead of just trying and never finding anyone to go with me other than DH.

Maddimom · April 2011

I need sun. I'm going to start tanning. It is fake sun but I will take what I can get

MSTie24 · April 2011

cmcmillan:
Also what he heck is PLing/PL'ed?

PL= potty learning. Training just sounds like what you do for a dog, I heard the term potty learning and liked it better. Forgot that it's not in super common use yet

ttgcole · April 2011

breebree13:
I feel like so many of you...desperate need of adult convo, stressed from taking care of the kiddos solo (my hubs has a physical handicap so he cant pick up kids, change diapers, give baths or dress kiddos). So my confession would be that i take every chance i can to dump the kiddos off on my Mom. Also I am very excited a little to excited for my delivery of whipped cream vodka and skinny girl margarita coming next week.

I am shy so I haven't made an effort, but let's make an effort to get together very soon, evenings and weekends work for me especially since DH is about to start playing ball like 5 nights a week. We only live 2 houses away from each other so I would love to get together with our boys!

cmcmillan · April 2011

MSTie24:
cmcmillan:

Also what he heck is PLing/PL'ed?

PL= potty learning. Training just sounds like what you do for a dog, I heard the term potty learning and liked it better. Forgot that it's not in super common use yet

Ok, totally understandable. But it is "training" taking them to the bathroom every 20 minutes and most likely cleaning up messes along the way. They don't need to learn how to go to the bathroom, just where.

ttgcole · April 2011

I don't know if it's the weather or what but I feel like I am losing my mind. Besides the pregnancy hormones, I am taking a business math class, I am about to be confirmed, and work is sucking the life out of me. I just want to cry all the time. I doesn't make me much of a mother or a wife. I am supposed to meet with my boss this afternoon, and I am afraid I am going to lose it.

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