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CherryStarburst
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sooo, who DO you judge?
CherryStarburst
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Anyone up for a round of who do you judge? Obviously you don't judge pregnant people in HS sweatshirts so who do you? :P. ... I can't think of anything right now, hmmm.
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Re: sooo, who DO you judge?
I judge people who are smoking with their kids (any age) in the car.
Even if the window is open, I don't care. Bottom line: don't smoke anywhere near children.
I judge people who are on government assistance but have on name brand clothing and drive expensive cars.
Maybe I don't know the full story, like they could afford those things at one point but now can't. Yet in my mind I judge first then remind myself there could be something else going on I don't know.
I judge lots of people. Here are a few examples:
People who live outside of their means.
People who put their wants above their kid's needs (example: a child is in ratty clothing, snotty nose, etc while the parent is decked out in designer clothes and put together).
Parents who let their children become obese because they do not feed their children a healthy diet.
People who b!tch that their 1-2 month old is not sleeping more than 3-4 hours a night. Um, what did you expect?
I judge moms who post about having their hair and nails done all year long on FB but then at Christmas time cry because they don't have any money to get there children anything. (Yes, I'm talking to YOU FB friend!!!!)
I also judge moms who don't make date nights with their husband's a priority.
Hey, I saw on the Today Show where they are making a comeback, watch out because you may be wearing one! Lol.
I have a friend who is constantly going on about money problems. she went as far as to tell me how sweet her dd is becuase she told her that she knew money was tight this year and she completely understood if the easter bunny couldnt make it to their house this year. fast forward to next conversation, and she tells me how excited she is because her cell carrier is going to let her upgrade from her phone that works but she doesnt like to a different one. the kicker came when she told me the new phone was going to cost two hundred and fifty dollars. i about hit the roof.
she is also one that wears name brand clothes, but her daughter never has weather appropriate clothes. that has always been a huge one that causes me to judge.
My SIL. She lives in Aspen (aka one of the most expensive places to live in the country). She b!tches about money all.the.time. She declared bankruptcy due to medical bills from an emergency operation (she refused to get another job or even work with the hospital).
We just found out yesterday that she lost her job in Aspen (sh!t hourly job at the rec center there). Of course she has no money saved. She can't even collect unemployment because her employer railroaded her into signing a voluntary resignation form.
Guess who probably gets to deal with her? That's right...us. We are her closest family and I know she doesn't want to leave CO. Effing great. If she comes here it's going to be hard. She's a slob, she's selfish, she smokes....ugggghhhhh.
/rant
ETA: so I guess I judge people who live beyond their means, declare bankruptcy the moment anything gets a bit difficult and leave family/friends holding the bag because of making the afformentioned dumb decisions.
I judged a mom I met who told me that her daughter had a horrible and constant diaper rash. I asked her how often did she change the baby's diaper and she told me she keeps her in the diaper for 6+ hours. The reason? She can't afford to change her every 2 hours.
But she CAN afford a $100+ baby shower gift (we were at my SIL shower and she kept bragging about how expensive it was), well maintained acrylic nails, a Juicy purse, a coach diaper bag, an iphone, and a newer acura.
I felt so bad for her daughter and judged the shiit out of the mom.
i judge people who throw their cig butts out the car window.
tsk tsk tsk!
look at the birds | bless this food
I do a lot of judging.
My main issue are the people that have problems with the military -those people that "don't support the war." I don't support the war but I support the military.
Cheaters, there is just no excuse.
I could honestly go on and on. But I would look like a tool, so I will stop there.
ETA: When I say I don't support the war. I mean I, personally, believe that we a fighting for a lost cause. And nothing more than that.
This is awful. I can't believe people would do this.
I can't wait to tell my father he is in style once again! ::skips off::
Oh he!! yeah. Especially here in wildfire country. There was a huge fire (still smoldering) that took at a lot of homes. The cause...cig butt thrown out of a car window. We have a cabin on some acreage in that area and it was very close to being lost.
Nevermind the fact that throwing a cigg butt out the window is littering.
Lol! You can just borrow his
It is beautiful here. I love it and can't imagine living anywhere else. You should definitely try to get out here!
I judge you for your judgement of everybody. Judger McJudgerson.
JUDGE.
I judge people that smoke anywhere around their kids even if it is outside.
I also judge parents who take their young children to R or PG-13 rated movies where there is blood gore and sex.
WTF is wrong with people?
I wouldn't want to take away his prized possesion, I can just ask for one for Christmas or my next birthday!
I judge stay at home WIVES. I do not understand the logic behind this at all. If you are a stay at home wife I would hope that you are at least using a portion of your time to do volunteer work. Otherwise, I judge the shiit out of you.
I have a former "friend" who is a stay at home girlfriend. She refers to herself as a "housewife" which is hilarious, because she is not married. She spends her days poolside and getting her nails done.
I have two.
I judge pet owners that can't control their animals. It pains me to see a lost animal sign or dead animal on the side of the road. I realize sometimes some things are beyond our control but I make triple sure my dogs wear tags, are microchipped and my yard is secure.
Anytime I see a random dog wandering with tags, I will try and catch it to call the owner. I don't own cats so maybe I'm offbase with "outside" cats.
I also judge people who don't take care of their homes/lawn.
There are a handful of neighbors that refuse to take care of their property in my neighborhood. Why do you own a home if you don't want to take care of it? Maybe I'm weird, but I take pride in my house and community.
Wow -- what a life! I imagine I would get bored pretty quickly. I once was a stay-at-home wife (in between jobs for 2 &1/2 months) I made sure the house sparkled every day because I felt so guilty just living off DH's money. I hated it. I got a job asap!
I judge people who don't work, but have more than one full-time nanny for one (healthy) child.
ETA: I also judge people who wear open-toed shoes that are one size too small. You shouldn't be able to feel the pavement with your toes. Buy the size 9 and get over it.
I judge people who don't put their carts up in parking lots. It really really grinds my gears.
I also judge people with whom I disagree with their political wharglebargle bumper stickers - but I realize that is not fair
Snort. She should contact Bravo. Sounds like a perfect candidate for one of their Real Howives.