I just wanted to see when did you pop the first time and when did you pop the second time? Was it sooner the second time?
Also, when did/will you tell work?
I am a bit hesitant saying anything at work this time around as I came back from Maternity leave a little over a year ago and now I am pg again. Not sure how my boss will react to it this time. She was happy last time around, but then she was also pregnant.
Re: 2nd or more time moms come in
I actually never really popped with either of mine. I started wearing maternity at 19 weeks with #1 and 7 weeks with #2. My kids grow in my butt. I seriously didn't look like i as pregnant until 8 months along with either of them. And they both came a month early so there wasn't much time with my belly.
I am hoping it will be different this time and I can finally have my basketball belly I have been wanting. ( A girl can dream right? )
I popped with #1 around 24ish weeks and with #2 around 20-21 weeks.
I told work around 15-16 weeks with each pregnancy. This will be my 3rd mat leave in 3 years so yeah, I hear you on being hesitant to tell work.
I have to tell work immediately due to the nature of my job. Sometimes I work with dangerous chemicals/paint and I work on a boat doing law enforcement/search and rescue.
With DD I didn't pop until around 20 weeks and I'm still not showing with this one.
With DD I didn't show until maybe 4 months but I was alot thinner 6 years ago.
With DS I popped around 16-18wks but I'm so bloated with this one and my skin is still so loose from DS that I look about like I did at 13 wks last time. I'm already having to use the bella band and early maternity pants. BOOOO!!!
I was hoping to wait awhile to pull out the box of materinty clothes but oh well. What do you do right?