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June 2011 Moms
Clicked on the wrong board and OMG..
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Re: Clicked on the wrong board and OMG..
I'm pretty sure the OP here was referring to the post you just quoted. So why so defensive?
relax people. I agree with this comment whole-heartedly "What Duhdaisy did was an amazing thing for Mefunkho." I don't think ANYONE other than the OP on your board's thread said anything other than that.
I don't stalk your board and had no details other than the quick skim I did of that thread. So I based my opinion off of that. Merely an opinion. I don't know why you girls feel like you need to come defend yourselves here. No one was attacking you.
Maybe because of the implications of 7/11 board being a "drama war zone" so to speak, or the fact that a few are questioning why we did for one bumpie and not another with out knowing all the facts. Just a theory though.
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No one here suggested that.
Meh...our overall character was attacked by the AE, and in doing so but a black mark on something really genuinely good.
Having other people talk about it is to be expected, but the details were getting muddy.
Sorry 7/11 has their issues yes, but we stick together lol, and if it feels like one of us is being "pin pointed" we all rouse to their defense....Loyalty is booger huh
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My main point was why just her. We have been updated by many mothers having complications or problems. Because she is a part of their FB group (who causes made up drama all the time) they felt to send her presents because they were closer with her than other moms. I feel that it is unfair for one mom because she is a part of a clique to get more consideration ect. than others. Also, why couldn't they just send a present from their small group. Would you like to know why because THEY wanted the attention for doing such a great thing. The most sincere thoughts are the ones unmentioned or millions of posts about. That is all.
More power to ya
Don't you fcking dare. Link to the posts where we should have known about other bumpies having babies! LINK IT YOU STUPID CVNT!!
In no way where we saying you favored one girl over the other. We think what those girls are going through is horrible and it is extremely nice for the July girls to want to help. What we were talking about in our post is the lady who accused the one girl of keeping the money. Which i think is crazy and childish, you ladies where doing something nice and someone put drama in it.
I could see your argument had we known about mrs lee but we didn't so drop it. We have also said quite clearly and more than once that it IS NOT TO LATE to do the same for mrs. lee and there is a bumpie I think we can all trust that would be willing to head it up if you would get your head out of your a$$ and read what was being posted.
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None of you were being pinpointed by anyone on this board. So I'm not sure where that defense is coming from. Loyalty is a good thing. But no one attacked any of you or questioned your motives over here.
My point above "I would question "why just her" too." was only in point to reading the first little bit of that thread. I assumed (yes, a bad assumption I guess) off of the OPs post that other girls had gone through the same thing and they weren't sent these gifts too. After hearing you guys say that the others were after the fact, etc...then it makes sense. I didn't question that you weren't doing the right thing. I just stated that I would wonder the same thing if that was truly the case.
I'm sorry if my comment came off differently than I meant it. I really didn't mean any offense to anyone over on July.
Bahahahaha!!! Nope, no drama from the July girls. None.
You have no idea what the fuuck you're talking about.
Can I get a list of all these 7/11ers with hardships please because until 7 this morning the only person to any of our knowledge with any issues with preterm labor was Mefunkho.
Im sorry, but Im not going to send somone flowers over bedrest or a sore back, I will however send them when its looking like at 22 weeks their baby isnt going to make it & then when their baby is born at 23 weeks 3 days which is before magic number viability date of 24 weeks where they have a 50/50 shot at survival you better believe I feel justified in doing it even more so.
You are a rotten jealous b!tch. Stick with the June board, I think they'll like you more here.
Its because of YOU that no one else is going to be able to benefit from the exreme generosity of the 7/11 TB group.
None of this had ANYTHING to do with the FB group. Nothing at all whatsoever. Mefunkho wasnt even an active poster on the FB group.
Stay here, leave us alone. You make me sick you nasty fuucking troll.
Sorry that I came off as bitchy about it, but we have been going back and forth with this all day. My only intent was to make sure everyone understood that it wasn't a favortism thing, we just didn't know. Once again sorry if I came off the wrong way.
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I see where you are coming from. honestly. But the AE posts her BS and then acts like she can't read the responses and continues on like there is no way she could be wrong. They have been doing this since early this morning and we are tired of hearing it. We have been posting totally bogus posts all day trying to get her venom to the 2nd page and praying mefunkho or mrslee doesn't come on and read them. It's just beyond frustrating at this point, but they won't stop posting.
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Hi, Im from July!
The only reason Marissa was sent flowers and things was because we all knew about her situation. She was texting one of the other July moms and keeping us updated through her whole ordeal (it was a very long and scary process before her baby actually came) the other mom did not keep us updated so unfortunately we did not know we had two mothers to send gifts to. One person would never deserve flowers over another but sadly we only had the details for one of the mothers. Its so sad that all the drama was started when someone was trying to take time out of her day and do something kind for someone in pain. We pray for all the early July babies equally and would have organized something for the mother two twins if we had known.
I'm sorry but I held my tongue all day and she just sent me over the edge, she has no idea what she is talking about. If she can't link to a post about it then how are we supposed to know.
I'm sorry, but I cannot believe what this has turned into! I think I can talk for a lot of the June mama's when we say that we think what you did for that woman was wonderful! No one was undermining that, at all. It is heartbreaking to think what she is going through.
I think it sucks that you were all flamed for not doing the same for the other mom that had her babies. From what I understand, you were not aware of the twin mama, and therefore didn't think to set anything up for her. However, that being said - there's no need to fly over here and get so incredibly defensive. We are not attacking you.
I commented earlier how "boring" our June board was, because we are all really tame and respectful & don't jump in with random snark. You have officially made June more entertaining today.
Now that you have infiltrated your snark upon us, I've realized that it's just sort of childish. (Especially the comment about unicorns and puppy dogs.) I think it's time that everyone moves on past the drama that has unfolded. Instead we should focus our time and energy into praying for those sweet little babies and their families.
OK, to clarify formy July Bumpies, you all have us wrong. We do Not appreciate drama.. that is why we were all trying to defend our fellow friend. This quoted post is the most drama in our month.
Side note: All of you June Bumpies who say that you are happy that you don't have drama like we do can kiss it! Why must you dip into our board and bring it back here to discuss with each other if you hate drama so much? You can think what you want about us, but we all are there for one another like family. I don't expect you to understand that just by seeing one bad post from one bad poster.
We are all adults, so just let this bs go..... get over it!
To the OP of this post. Sad to say but maybe it's time for a C/D (Clean Delete) Since the TROLL has made it's way to the June board. And you know what they say about Feeding the Trolls.
What. The. Eff. Seriously? This is excellent.
We have been trying to pass it by ALL day. The AE continues to post her nasty little posts and we'd prefer if Mefunkho and MrsLee didn't see them. Soon as the posts are off the first page, she posts another one.
The comment was because the immediate comments were back patting for being a cheery perky drama free board.
If thats not puppies & unicorns than what is it? I do not believe that you are all really that nice, there has to be some mean one faking it.
See how fun and exciting this makes your lame board. Much better than unicorns and rainbows. LOL
Alright, alright, you caught me. I'm really a terrible person.
to all the July mommies : my post was not in ANYWAY saying what you did was wrong it was simple to point out someone decided they needed to flame you all for a sweet thing you all decided to do. If anything we are on your side as far as that OP (on your board) being totally out of line. Im sorry but this back and forth really just needs to be done read our comments WE WERENT FLAMING JULY MOMMIES!!!!!!! (just that op who made up the fake name jsut to post drama).
June Mums are Mellow Mums!!! i love there is no drama here!!!! it's my favourite board!!!
i can't believe theres been so many premies on the July Board, we've only had the 1 right?
Thank you
With that huge hunk of amazing sexy manliness in your siggy you cant be a terrible person. You just cant be. Even seeing him from behind gets me all excited.
Haha! You caught us! We are all crazy biitches just hiding under the pretext of women who actually just want to be a means of support for one another.
Seriously though -I think it's awful that she keeps re posting as soon her previous post moves to page 2. Really, truly I do. I understand that you are all wanting to save those mama's the pain of having to read such gutless cruelty. I can support this 100%.
He is pretty effing awesome isn't he? And such a nice guy to boot
I totally agree with this. Let's not encourage this troll anymore. We're giving her what she wants!!
I know! I can't believe that there have already been so many babies born for July. I think we have only had 2 (correct me if I am wrong!) From what I understand we have lost a baby girl, and there was another baby born last week.
Ack, my heart aches just thinking about what those mama's must be going through. My cousin was born at 24 weeks and the pain my family went through for 6 months of touch and go was almost impossible.
Que the wild pregnancy hormones and tears!
This post makes me feel like my head is going to explode. No where in this post did the OP say ALL JULY MOMMAS are dramatic. She pointed out one girl who is creating drama, the same person you all seem to be annoyed by AND said she feels bad for those involved. Which I think we can all agree that we feel bad for these women and that the drama create by the AE is ridiculous.
And a lot of this post was about the June Mom who thinks we are evil because we think the named Desire and Lovely are ridiculous, which I am willing to bet most of the July mommas agree.
Breathe ladies, I know the drama can get everyone worked up.
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Actually myself as well as a few others posted not because of OP but because of someone else in the thread who was making misinformed accusations, then back peddled.
We're all here now making sure the troll stays here with you & doesnt come back to July, thats all.
heh, your siggy pic is half the reason I lurk on 3rd tri >.<
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