Unpopular Opinion Thursday

mrs.lizzieb · March 2011

Weighing in on previous UOs- I think being a SAHM is way harder than my 9-5 job, if you have a great pregnancy body- flaunt it!, I'm not a lush or alcoholic by any means, but I definitely miss a nice, cold beer after a long day, and I hate the skinny jean trend.

For my own UO (and I definitely think this is an unpopular opinion), I'm not into those frilly, elastic headband thingies on babies' (girls obviously) heads. Maybe I'll change my mind if I have a girl, but for now, I think they look a little ridiculous.

ETA: spelling

LauraLP · March 2011

I hate seeing 15 new pics of someones baby on Facebook - DAILY. One or two will suffice. Not excited about having a baby shower. Annoyed everyone around me knows what's best for me and baby. Someone telling me they will be getting my baby when it is born. NO. You ask... I probably have a problem with you 'taking' it, or assuming you will get by unharmed by doing such. I feel better now!

Janimal · March 2011

lisajay09:
lissasue3:

My opinion is that being a SAHM is easier than working.

Check in with me again when I have two living kids, then I'll probably be saying the opposite.

I don't know what you did for a living, but I completely disagree. At work I could go to the bathroom when I needed...eat when it was lunch time...shower every morning and actually blow dry my hair and put on makeup...I could make a phone call undisturbed...I could come home to a house that didn't look like a tornado hit recently...I could have adult conversation...I had breaks and down time...I could make and go to appointments alone or at all...I could enjoy a car ride alone and maybe blast the radio if I so desired...go into a store and get in and out quickly....so many things that I almost NEVER have time for/can do being a SAHM. It is so much more work staying home than going to work...I would have to say you are the very first person I hve ever heard say different.

I think it's all relative. SAHMs think they had it easier when they worked, but when they were working, they didn't also have a kid. Working moms come home and still have to do all the stuff the SAHMs have to do, but they have less time to do it. BUT - I get the impression from some of my SAHM friends that because they SAH, their DH's don't do so much around the house, and that sucks and makes their lives harder. I am grateful that I get some adult interaction during the day, and I know it's hard on SAHMs to be on duty as Mom all day. But also -- my SAHD gets to take midday naps sometimes.

You know, all kids are different, and all parents are different. For me personally, I think my life would be easier if I were a SAHM instead of having a stressful job and trying to juggle that with being the best mom I can. I know my DH is MUCH happier and less stressed as a SAHD and working parttime freelance from home than he was fulltime working and trying to be a good Dad.

sewpinkgal · March 2011

I'm really not a fan of the super cartoon-y baby clothes. I'm not talking about a cute elmo shirt or something. I mean, the very babyish cartoon animals and prints with crazy sayings and wacky colors. It's just too much. My mom, on the other hand, loves that stuff, so I'm sure we'll have plenty of it in the closet and I'll happily accept it. But, I don't plan to buy it myself.

RobotLegs · March 2011

Oh man, the alcohol thing. Alcoholism = a dependence on alcohol. Wanting a beer or glass of wine once a week or so =/= dependence. Not everyone drinks alcohol to get drunk. I love the taste of good, craft beers. So, I miss the flavor.

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

My unpopular opinion is that I hate self rightous pregnant ladies that try to make me feel like cr@p because I'm not eating vegitables at every meal, or I have a Dr Pepper once ever few days, or that I have some sugar every now and then.

Seriously get over yourself.

(I haven't seen this on this board but on a lot of first tri)

lindylogana · March 2011

KindraMc:

I don't think pregnant women should drink coffee. I'm sorry - just because you are allowed one cup a day - doesn't mean you should do it.

The studies stating that it is safe to drink caffeine during pregnancy were probably conducted by pregnant woman who love caffeine. I love caffeine just as much as the next person, but what's more important - my "fix" or my baby?

You don't need caffeine, you are probably dehydrated - try water - if that doesn't work, caffeine free teas can (especially peppermint) can do the same job.

Haha that's cute. I drink one cup of coffee or 1 coke a day. I did with my daughter and she didn't come out shaking from a caffeine addiction.

lindylogana · March 2011

AmorXAeterna:

My unpopular opinion is that I hate self rightous pregnant ladies that try to make me feel like cr@p because I'm not eating vegitables at every meal, or I have a Dr Pepper once ever few days, or that I have some sugar every now and then.

Seriously get over yourself.

(I haven't seen this on this board but on a lot of first tri)

Amen!! Our babies will come out just as healthy.

Mandy747 · March 2011

This is getting ahead of ourselves, but I hate baby clothes that sexualize children.

I give you the serious side-eye if you dress your infant in clothes that indicate he's a 'pimp' and all the ladies want him or you dress your toddler in skimpy clothes that show of her 'figure'.

lts29 · March 2011

RobotLegs:
Oh man, the alcohol thing. Alcoholism = a dependence on alcohol. Wanting a beer or glass of wine once a week or so =/= dependence. Not everyone drinks alcohol to get drunk. I love the taste of good, craft beers. So, I miss the flavor.

Agreed. I want a Diet Coke and rum because I like the flavor of Diet Coke and rum. When I did drink them, I would drink one, because it's enough to get a slight buzz and it tasted good to me. I don't think saying "I miss alcohol" is that awful of a thing to say. Though I think insinuating that women who say this are alcoholics who don't know it yet is pretty awful.

Mrs. Mo · March 2011

btsrc5:
cantalopes24:
PappsMcgee:

btsrc5:
I am already dreading having a shower. I hate being the center of attention. My sister already wants to start talking about one and planning one- maybe she can just pretend to be me. LOL

I'm the same way! My family wants me to have two since I live out of state from a lot of friends and family.... I'm hoping I can just get by with one

They usually throw people at work showers too.... too bad you can't have a nice cocktail prior to it lol

I love you ladies and this is not directed at you, but I find it so annoying people on here are already worried about showers. You don't need to register and give your BFF a guest list at 8.weeks. If someone wants to throw you a shower they will, and if they want you coming up with a guest list they will ask. I would hope between your mom, husband and a close friend they would be able to figure out who is important to you.

I agree... I definitely did NOT bring it up. My sister says she is so excited that she just can't wait to start planning. I keep putting her off.

Ditto. My sister has actually been hounding me for weeks to tell her some dates that will work for us & send her a list.

alison2379 · March 2011

Um. I miss the buzz that a couple glasses of wine yields. I love the taste too. FLAME AWAY. Wink

KindraMc · March 2011

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

dlast09 · March 2011

Mrs. Mo:
btsrc5:
cantalopes24:
PappsMcgee:

btsrc5:
I am already dreading having a shower. I hate being the center of attention. My sister already wants to start talking about one and planning one- maybe she can just pretend to be me. LOL
I'm the same way! My family wants me to have two since I live out of state from a lot of friends and family.... I'm hoping I can just get by with one
They usually throw people at work showers too.... too bad you can't have a nice cocktail prior to it lol
I love you ladies and this is not directed at you, but I find it so annoying people on here are already worried about showers. You don't need to register and give your BFF a guest list at 8.weeks. If someone wants to throw you a shower they will, and if they want you coming up with a guest list they will ask. I would hope between your mom, husband and a close friend they would be able to figure out who is important to you.
I agree... I definitely did NOT bring it up. My sister says she is so excited that she just can't wait to start planning. I keep putting her off.
Ditto. My sister has actually been hounding me for weeks to tell her some dates that will work for us & send her a list.

I wish I didn't have to think and worry about the stupid shower. Any time I am around my MIL it is always brought up. And I am like uhhh I don't know, I haven't thought that far ahead....

EmilyOTR1 · March 2011

I don't believe 1 glass of wine is ok for a pregnant woman. We are well aware that alcohol affects babies. There is no evidence of how much alcohol it takes to do harm, so WHY drink it at all???

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

KindraMc · March 2011

AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

cantalopes24 · March 2011

lts29:

RobotLegs:
Oh man, the alcohol thing. Alcoholism = a dependence on alcohol. Wanting a beer or glass of wine once a week or so =/= dependence. Not everyone drinks alcohol to get drunk. I love the taste of good, craft beers. So, I miss the flavor.

Agreed. I want a Diet Coke and rum because I like the flavor of Diet Coke and rum. When I did drink them, I would drink one, because it's enough to get a slight buzz and it tasted good to me. I don't think saying "I miss alcohol" is that awful of a thing to say. Though I think insinuating that women who say this are alcoholics who don't know it yet is pretty awful.

This. Coming from a background in chemical dependency counseling I can assure you that liking the taste of alcohol and missing socially drinking is not a sign of alcoholism. Continuing to drink while pregnant using the excuse you like the taste of alcohol would be. For anyone who disagrees I will be more than happy to explain what goes into diagnosing alcoholism

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

somebodysmama21:
AmorXAeterna:

My unpopular opinion is that I hate self rightous pregnant ladies that try to make me feel like cr@p because I'm not eating vegitables at every meal, or I have a Dr Pepper once ever few days, or that I have some sugar every now and then.

Seriously get over yourself.

(I haven't seen this on this board but on a lot of first tri)

I agree I have been getting sick from even looking at fruits and veggies and for a while even water, we all want the most healthy baby we can have its not like we want to hurt it but we have to make our choices and other people need to shut it!

AMEN SISTER! Big Smile

shediva1 · March 2011

AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

I feel NO guilt in having a cup of coffee a day, my frozen yogurt the other night, and my Subway and or sandwich several times a week.

KindraMc · March 2011

AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

I am not self righteous or "holier than thou". My doctor has given me a list of things that could potentially harm the baby that I am carrying, and therefore I stay away from those things. And, quite frankly I think it's selfish if you can't give up those things for a short period of time.

I'm don't care about your pizza and other unhealthy things...my doctor said nothing about Pizza.

Eat away...

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

I am not self righteous or "holier than thou". My doctor has given me a list of things that could potentially harm the baby that I am carrying, and therefore I stay away from those things. And, quite frankly I think it's selfish if you can't give up those things for a short period of time.

I'm don't care about your pizza and other unhealthy things...my doctor said nothing about Pizza.

Eat away...

Your crossing a line miss fussy britches. And quite honestly your not only insulting me but your insulting all the other ladies on this board that also have those things.

I don't appreciate being told I'm selfish because of what I eat or drink, and just from that comment bolded up above you just clearly marked yourself as 'self rightous'.

Embrace it, enjoy it, and go suck on an egg.

mlstagner · March 2011

I believe my UO on this board is: I'm a republican Surprise

KindraMc · March 2011

AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

I am not self righteous or "holier than thou". My doctor has given me a list of things that could potentially harm the baby that I am carrying, and therefore I stay away from those things. And, quite frankly I think it's selfish if you can't give up those things for a short period of time.

I'm don't care about your pizza and other unhealthy things...my doctor said nothing about Pizza.

Eat away...

Your crossing a line miss fussy britches. And quite honestly your not only insulting me but your insulting all the other ladies on this board that also have those things.

I don't appreciate being told I'm selfish because of what I eat or drink, and just from that comment bolded up above you just clearly marked yourself as 'self rightous'.

Embrace it, enjoy it, and go suck on an egg.

Done - I Love Eggs

saffie2011 · March 2011

alison2379:
Um. I miss the buzz that a couple glasses of wine yields. I love the taste too. FLAME AWAY.

Yes . This. LOL. I am totally with you Alison.

I also drink coffee every day and I don't think I am harming my baby at all (neither does my doctor or a ton of research conducted by doctors/scientists). I do worry about all the crack I'm doing though...

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

I am not self righteous or "holier than thou". My doctor has given me a list of things that could potentially harm the baby that I am carrying, and therefore I stay away from those things. And, quite frankly I think it's selfish if you can't give up those things for a short period of time.

I'm don't care about your pizza and other unhealthy things...my doctor said nothing about Pizza.

Eat away...

Your crossing a line miss fussy britches. And quite honestly your not only insulting me but your insulting all the other ladies on this board that also have those things.

I don't appreciate being told I'm selfish because of what I eat or drink, and just from that comment bolded up above you just clearly marked yourself as 'self rightous'.

Embrace it, enjoy it, and go suck on an egg.

Done - I Love Eggs

Outstanding Big Smile

newmomma72 · March 2011

mlstagner:
I believe my UO on this board is: I'm a republican

LOL you have company then Big Smile

AmorXAeterna · March 2011

newmomma72:

mlstagner:
I believe my UO on this board is: I'm a republican

LOL you have company then

You have my company as well. Big Smile

Sugarpea90 · March 2011

somebodysmama21:
AmorXAeterna:
newmomma72:

mlstagner:
I believe my UO on this board is: I'm a republican
LOL you have company then
You have my company as well.
Me Four!

Me five... Drinks

RobotLegs · March 2011

KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:
AmorXAeterna:
KindraMc:

Are people really comparing caffeine to crack and heroine?? LOL

I would like to believe that the addiction levels are just a tad different. And as for withdrawals - if my SEVERELY diabetic father who is in kidney failure and on Dialysis every day of his life can quit smoking and coffee with minimal side effects - i'm pretty sure you caffeine addicts can do the same. Suck it up!

But here's the difference, your father had NO choice, life or death. My babies are not going to die because I have a little caffeine. Get over it.

I'm pretty sure this thread was called Unpopular Opinion Thursday - That was my opinion and I could care less if it was unpopular. Stop being so defensive. I think that the only reason that people post on here that they have ONLY had their one cup a day, is because they feel somewhat guilty about it and it makes them feel better if they know other people are doing it too.

Your allowed to have your unpopular opinion, just as I'm allowed to have mine. BUT your the self rightous person telling people to 'suck it up'. Lemme guess you don't eat hot dogs or lunch meat either?

This is the crap I'm talking about, ladies trying to bring their hollier than thou attitude onto other people.

Oh and I feel no guilt about the fact that I had some Dr Pepper yesterday, or that I had two corn dogs the other day and some greasy pizza today. nom nom nom

Flame away...

I am not self righteous or "holier than thou". My doctor has given me a list of things that could potentially harm the baby that I am carrying, and therefore I stay away from those things. And, quite frankly I think it's selfish if you can't give up those things for a short period of time.

I'm don't care about your pizza and other unhealthy things...my doctor said nothing about Pizza.

Eat away...

Biitch please.

Do what you want, but you need to get off that high horse before you fall on your azz.

kat72883 · March 2011

mrs.lizzieb:
For my own UO (and I definitely think this is an unpopular opinion), I'm not into those frilly, elastic headband thingies on babies' (girls obviously) heads. Maybe I'll change my mind if I have a girl, but for now, I think they look a little ridiculous.

This. I don't mind the tiny little headbands, where you just want people to know that it's a little girl . . . but the ones where the flower or bow is almost as big as the child's head? Ridiculous.

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