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October 2011 Moms
To all you B!tch3s
I have noticed that some of you women really like to be hateful. Just because some one has a question or has a personal problem that they need advice doesnt mean you can badger them until they feel horrible about the choice they have made.
THE BUMP is a site to help people not treat them like they are stupid
For the people who have been picked on because of their questions you will totally understand this, for all you high and mightie women out there who think you are better than others because of your status in life doesnt make you a better person.
No one is perfect so get down off your high horse next time you decide to post on some ones question...
I am sure you will show your self on this one and then everyone will know what I am talking about if they already dont know.
Foff!
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Re: To all you B!tch3s
I'm guessing your one of the hatefull ones that wants to make me feel like a retard.
I am not racist. I said that because the person who was going to hire him told him that. Dont hate on me because I quoted what he was told.
Well, you obviously aren't very nice or a member of the 21st century if you are going to continue using this word.
THIS! I can't believe people think it is acceptable to speak like this.
WOW. THIS.
She DD'ed. Lives near family in TX. Dated a guy with a felony in his past for all of 9 months and decided to plan to get pg with him. Now he's laid off and can't find a job with all the "illegal immigrants" in Texas taking the jobs from the felons. He wants to move to Alabama and wants her to go with him for a job he may have there that might last 7 months.
People gave her honest advice and she DD'ed.
Oh well clearly she has awesome decision making skills. I can't believe those awful illegals stealing work from criminals!! Making a huge move for a job that might last through the end of her pregnancy makes perfect sense. I would get uppity with all you biotchs too if you were mean to me about something!
Thanks for the recap - I was wondering, too!
I think she deleted the post. She wanted to know if she should move out of state with a boy friend she had for 9 months who was a felon and had no job prospects lined up.
I think you got grown up advice. You made rash decisions and now life is tough. You best toughen up because you have a lot on your plate. I wouldn't waste your energy on us.
She DD'ed. Lives near family in TX. Dated a guy with a felony in his past for all of 9 months and decided to plan to get pg with him. Now he's laid off and can't find a job with all the "illegal immigrants" in Texas taking the jobs from the felons. He wants to move to Alabama and wants her to go with him for a job he may have there that might last 7 months.
People gave her honest advice and she DD'ed.
yikes...if you don't want people's honest advice then you shouldn't post on the bump lol.
Ummm, no. The Bump is here for entertainment purposes and should not be taken that seriously by anyone. Support and help for "personal problems" should be expected from your friends and family not from internet strangers.
Thank you for being our greatest source of entertainment today.
Oct 2011 Blog: Pumpkin Patch
I know we need some more drama!!
When you are asking for advice and opinions you have to be prepared to hear the truth. The ladies on here do not sugar coat.
Also, the whole jobs taken by immigrants comment was (mostly) what threw your whole post off for me. You do realize some of us are here because our families migrated? Yet, somehow you were surprised when we called you out on it.
I do agree that babygaga would be a better fit.
Hasta luego!
I'm 50/50 with this one... TB as well as any message board, when you post something, everyone is going to share the opinions they have, good and bad. You will be judged. Spending two minutes reading posts, you'll see that's how this board works. For the most part, it's pretty tame in here.
On the other hand, I don't agree with a lot of the crap she posted, BF had a felony in his past, and Brother had a job lined up for him in Alabama, it didn't mention anywhere that it was only part time. Some girls even gave her really good advice.
OP, most of the women on here aren't going to agree with how you chose to do things, but you are in a really crappy situation now regardless of what you chose, or your inappropriate words/phrases you have used. If that was a real post and an honest question, you should stay with your support system, your family, until he has his life together and is ready to make you and the baby his family. He needs to show he is responsible and able to keep a job for a steady period of time before you uproot everything you have and know on a whim, esp. with a baby growing inside of you. I honestly wish you the best of luck. But seriously watch what you say, this is a public message board, and people will rip you a new one, with honest answers that you may not want to hear.
What does that mean, DD'ed? I looked on the glossary and i couldn't find in there. thank you
I think it means "dirty deleted".
no problem!
Okay... I do see sometimes that people are brutal here and say some pretty nasty things but seriously... these arent your BFF's... we are all people talking over the internet and a lot of people are very realistic here. IDK why you are so upset over your post... I honeslty thought you got some decent responses but like others said.. you put your personal business over the internet and asked opinions... what did you expect? This is a very open place where people can say whatever they want...
It's mightY, actually. But other than that...
I second the thanks. I thought DD meant Drunk Driving - you see where my mind is at after having to lay off wine and cocktails for only two months!
I didn't see the original post or comments but it sounds like this lady is in a very unfortunate situation. That doesn't justify racism - and as a Latina and a New Yorker I really get aggravated by people who try to use immigrants as scapegoats for their own personal failures - but I honestly can have nothing but pity for this woman. She's got a rough road ahead.
Ladies why soo much hate? We all on the same journey ending in us having our LO here.. Is all this extra added stress needed? Really? Yeah it may be some women on this board that throw off a bad vibe, but thats what IGNORE is for... Mentally ignore them if you have too.. This is my first child too, so I have all sorts of questions.. I have not ran across the high horse women yet, everyone I ran across has been supportive and helpful at the same time.. But just mentally ignore it and keep on about your business..
Stepping off my soap box now.....
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I thought it meant drunk driving too. it didn't make much sense that's why i asked. lol
i totally agree with you!!!
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Thank you B!tch3s... for making my day.
Ugh... this!! That word is unacceptable, and you can move on, or leave now.
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