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do you and DH watch porn together? (poll)
Me and DH like to watch porn together and some of my friends think its so awkward. Whats everyone think?[Poll]
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Re: do you and DH watch porn together? (poll)
This is exactly how my DH is!
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Mine too!
Haha... I've think we've used it more since TTC ! !
same here!
LOL what, you don't believe us? Or our husbands?
I'm pretty sure about MH. But I know it seems hard to believe.
p.s. And I hope it doesn't seem like I'm passing judgement or anything.. if that's your thing, that's fine, it's just not our thing.
my husband is the same way. We don't watch it together or alone out of respect for each other. I'm not passing judgement either.
I find it funny when guys say they don't masturbate because it's been pretty much proven that 99% of guys do. I can believe the not watching porn thing though.
Ditto. I even asked MH about it and he scoffed and said "Every guy does it." I'm not saying YH are lying to you, how the heck would I know, but at the same time, you don't really know if they do it or not when you're not around.
And it would be pretty funny that the 3 guys that don't happen to have their DW's on this board.
I never said my husband doesn't do it. he does just not often. At least not that i know of. I take care of him. Either with sex, oral, or a hand job.
I have to say that we have watched porn together in the past, and I somewhat disagree with your statement that it is disrespectful to do so. For us, it spices it up once in a while.
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This! MH respects me and I respect him, watching porn doesn't change that or make us bad people. Sometimes we watch it to get the mood going if neither one of us is feeling it but we need to BD. Sometimes we watch it just for fun.
After reading other comments, I figured I'd add my 2 cents!
DH and I do watch porn together, he used to watch it solo and wait for me to get home. He just said that for the past 3 years he hasn't watched it solo, nor taken care of himself since we've had sex nearly every night- and if we don't he's not been in the mood in order to do so! I don't tend to need to self-satify either...I just jump his bones if the need arises!
And the rest of us don't? Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but that sounded pretty sh!tty.
Anyway, in response to the original question - DH and I did once a few years ago but he didn't enjoy it at all. I don't know if he watches by himself, and I don't really care either way. I would like to watch it together, but it makes him uncomfortable (like he's competing with the guy on the screen), which I can understand.
We've watched it together a handful of times, but haven't for a while... might have to remedy that soon! (We actually picked out our own porn videos at a store a couple years back - it was hilarious because we both felt ridiculous, but it was a huge turn on).
I'm sure he does but i've never asked him outright, and I watch it occasionally when he's not home although I'm not sure if he suspects I do. Could be an interesting conversation! (I have no issue with it obviously)
We have never watched porn together, and since we have been together DH has only watched porn maybe once or twice, and hasn't taken care of himself since we have been married.
I watched porn ruin more than one marriage, and because of my beliefs I am strongly against it for our marriage.
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Your right i didnt mean it that way. Don't read into it.
We watch it separately.
DH likes garden variety porn and I like jerk-off porn, so our tastes don't really mesh.
Wow I just noticed how many replies there were on here. I'm not against it AT ALL! I didn't mean it to sound like that. I don't think anything is wrong with masturbation or watching porn, in past relationships it has always been there. My husband honestly doesn't watch porn or masturbate. I didn't believe it at first either and was very skeptical. But some men are different and some may be included in that 1%. I have nothing against it at all, but I don't think we should be looked at like our husbands are deceiving us. My husband works a good 60 hours a week and I work from home, and when I'm bumping he sits on the couch next to me. I just wanted to clear it up that I don't think anything is wrong with it and it is perfectly healthy in relationships!
In my case, my ex boyfriend was a "porn addict" and it really took a toll on my self esteem. Every time I left for work/college in the morning he would run to his computer and watch "MILF porn" and jack off. At first it didn't bother me and then he started not wanting to have sex with me (maybe once every two weeks) and he was masturbating 1-2 times a day. There was not a day that porn was not on his computer history. That really took a toll on my view of it. Before that, I watched it occasionally. I think with me it's more of a self esteem issue, and my husband too. He also told me that he feels like it's "dirty" and God would not approve. Which I don't agree with but whatever he feels comfortable with is fine. If you and your DH are comfortable with watching it and happy with your bodies then happy humping! I think it definitely spices things up!