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FFFC!
Mine is that I finally blocked XH and J (ex-BF who's not mentally stable) on my Verizon account and on Facebook. A long time coming to blocking XH but it felt good to do it. J represents drama and would message me from time to time on the guise of "just checking to see how you were doing" but would always make reference to getting back together. I don't need to be exposed to that.
I also am both looking forward to as well as dreading running in the upcoming half marathon because I know how hard it will be!
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Re: FFFC!
I quit my job last week and don't have another job lined up. They were treating me like crap and I was just so sick of it. Good thing I have quite a bit in savings.
I can't decide between two guys. One guy is HOTTTT and I met him a year ago and have somewhat been talking ever since. He wants to try and date but he lives 4 1/2 hours away and I'm not sure if I can do the long distance thing.
The other guy I've known for quite a while (his mom and my dad went to school together and she had a crush on him lol), but he really isn't my type. He's short and chunky, and since I'm so short it weirds me out for guys to be close to my height. He asked me to go eat with him this weekend and I told him yes, but I'm not sure if I really want to.
I did this once and it was the best decision I ever made. My family was so mad, but damn it felt good not to be stressed out everyday. GL on the job hunt!
I've been on a couple of dates with a guy, he's really nice and for the most part perfect on paper. I am not really big on the idea of getting deeply involved in a relationship right now, so I'm just looking at it as dating. It's not physical at this point.
The only thing thing FFFC-worthy is that he more than likely has a baby on the way. Not from a relationship. I know enough from hanging out on this board that sometimes things just happen... But I do wonder "What would the ladies at SP say?"
We watch YGG daily. And rock out to the CDs in my car.
Achase - be careful with Verizon blocking. I thought I had blocked a crazy co-worker who was recently let go, and she's still bugging me - to the point of a restraining order.
If you block someone it expires after so long and you have to do it again. I blocked some of X's pregnant booty calls friends because they wouldn't stop calling/texting, and noticed it said it would only last 3 months and I would have to do it again.
Why? Because she is my NBFF. At the beginning of the year, I sent her similar pictures. I was super excited when I started seeing some results (finally) in the mirror, so I snapped a pic.
I was in only my underwear. No bra!
Hoar!!
Whoa. This is flameworthy, but since it's FFFC, I'll bite my tongue.
Whether or not this means anything, I'll add my .02.
When I had been dating XH about 6 months he announced to me that there was a woman who was claiming that he was the father of her unborn child (from a ONS prior to me). He decided to tell me this tidbit of information when the child was about to be born. I was so stressed out about it that it consumed me. Eventually I broke up with him and that was one of the main reasons.
Turns out he wasn't the father (that sounds like Maury) and (obviously) we ended up back together eventually, but it just wasn't something that I would have been prepared to deal with at that time.
That is a lot to take on, especially when you have children of your own. IMO dating should not be this guys first priority. If he doesn't realize that, perhaps YOU should be the one to put the brakes on.
I know exactly what you mean!! Mine is talking about moving to Cali. I wish he would!!!!
Why didn't you just flush the weed?
"There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."
I found it in my pocket when my brother was with me, he asked for it, I gave it to him. He would have gotten a hold of some anyway, keeps him from getting caught at least this one time.
I was actually going to say "ignore the FF" part, because I do want to hear what you guys think about it. The only one of my friends who is not saying "Oh, it's just dinner" is saying "Who at that age doesn't know how to make sure he doesn't get someone pregnant when not in a relationship?"
Oh, the brakes are definitely on. With XH's schedule, I don't have time for a relationship and I'm up front about that with everybody I know. From this guy's demeanor, he's pretty introverted and passive, so I can't gauge if he's going to be the "whatever it takes" kind of dad or the "bare minimum" kind of dad. The latter would be a pretty big turnoff. He doesn't seem to know what is expected of him or will be expected of him.
Other than this, he's a really great guy, well-employed, responsible... you're right in that it's probably not something I'll be able to "take on" but right now we're essentially friends hanging out. No sloring.
I am sure you looked freaking HOTT!
Not weird at all. I absolutely love doing this for the same warm fuzzy feeling and I end up smiling for most of the day just for the simple pleasure of telling him "no"