FFFC!

achase123

Mine is that I finally blocked XH and J (ex-BF who's not mentally stable) on my Verizon account and on Facebook.  A long time coming to blocking XH but it felt good to do it.  J represents drama and would message me from time to time on the guise of "just checking to see how you were doing" but would always make reference to getting back together.  I don't need to be exposed to that.

I also am both looking forward to as well as dreading running in the upcoming half marathon because I know how hard it will be!

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sweetie0228

I love Yo Gabba Gabba and allow my teenager and tween to watch when ever they want!

haleyw458

I quit my job last week and don't have another job lined up. They were treating me like crap and I was just so sick of it. Good thing I have quite a bit in savings.

I can't decide between two guys. One guy is HOTTTT and I met him a year ago and have somewhat been talking ever since. He wants to try and date but he lives 4 1/2 hours away and I'm not sure if I can do the long distance thing.

The other guy I've known for quite a while (his mom and my dad went to school together and she had a crush on him lol), but he really isn't my type. He's short and chunky, and since I'm so short it weirds me out for guys to be close to my height. He asked me to go eat with him this weekend and I told him yes, but I'm not sure if I really want to.

mdotm0904

Ex BF/Child's father is going back to his home country to visit for a couple of weeks to "clear his mind"...i secretly wish he just wouldn't come back & I can raise this baby without him & his added stress.

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cbbc

haleyw458:

I quit my job last week and don't have another job lined up. They were treating me like crap and I was just so sick of it. Good thing I have quite a bit in savings.

I did this once and it was the best decision I ever made. My family was so mad, but damn it felt good not to be stressed out everyday. GL on the job hunt!

dimake

I've been on a couple of dates with a guy, he's really nice and for the most part perfect on paper.  I am not really big on the idea of getting deeply involved in a relationship right now, so I'm just looking at it as dating.  It's not physical at this point.

The only thing thing FFFC-worthy is that he more than likely has a baby on the way.  Not from a relationship.  I know enough from hanging out on this board that sometimes things just happen...  But I do wonder "What would the ladies at SP say?"

DarthNBJenni

We watch YGG daily. And rock out to the CDs in my car.

Achase - be careful with Verizon blocking. I thought I had blocked a crazy co-worker who was recently let go, and she's still bugging me - to the point of a restraining order.

haleyw458

DarthNBJenni:

We watch YGG daily. And rock out to the CDs in my car.

Achase - be careful with Verizon blocking. I thought I had blocked a crazy co-worker who was recently let go, and she's still bugging me - to the point of a restraining order.

If you block someone it expires after so long and you have to do it again. I blocked some of X's pregnant booty calls friends because they wouldn't stop calling/texting, and noticed it said it would only last 3 months and I would have to do it again.

r9stedt

I sent pictures to another nestie in my underwear. 

Why?  Because she is my NBFF.   At the beginning of the year, I sent her similar pictures.  I was super excited when I started seeing some results (finally) in the mirror, so I snapped a pic.

I was in only my underwear.  No bra!

Hoar!!

fauxshelley

dimake:

I've been on a couple of dates with a guy, he's really nice and for the most part perfect on paper.  I am not really big on the idea of getting deeply involved in a relationship right now, so I'm just looking at it as dating.  It's not physical at this point.

The only thing thing FFFC-worthy is that he more than likely has a baby on the way.  Not from a relationship.  I know enough from hanging out on this board that sometimes things just happen...  But I do wonder "What would the ladies at SP say?"

Whoa.  This is flameworthy, but since it's FFFC, I'll bite my tongue.

achase123

fauxshelley:

dimake:

I've been on a couple of dates with a guy, he's really nice and for the most part perfect on paper.  I am not really big on the idea of getting deeply involved in a relationship right now, so I'm just looking at it as dating.  It's not physical at this point.

The only thing thing FFFC-worthy is that he more than likely has a baby on the way.  Not from a relationship.  I know enough from hanging out on this board that sometimes things just happen...  But I do wonder "What would the ladies at SP say?"

Whoa.  This is flameworthy, but since it's FFFC, I'll bite my tongue.

Whether or not this means anything, I'll add my .02. 

When I had been dating XH about 6 months he announced to me that there was a woman who was claiming that he was the father of her unborn child (from a ONS prior to me).  He decided to tell me this tidbit of information when the child was about to be born.  I was so stressed out about it that it consumed me.  Eventually I broke up with him and that was one of the main reasons.

Turns out he wasn't the father (that sounds like Maury) and (obviously) we ended up back together eventually, but it just wasn't something that I would have been prepared to deal with at that time.

That is a lot to take on, especially when you have children of your own.  IMO dating should not be this guys first priority.  If he doesn't realize that, perhaps YOU should be the one to put the brakes on. 

Ali Anne

momack86:

Ex BF/Child's father is going back to his home country to visit for a couple of weeks to "clear his mind"...i secretly wish he just wouldn't come back & I can raise this baby without him & his added stress.

I know exactly what you mean!! Mine is talking about moving to Cali. I wish he would!!!!

haleyw458

momack86:

Ex BF/Child's father is going back to his home country to visit for a couple of weeks to "clear his mind"...i secretly wish he just wouldn't come back & I can raise this baby without him & his added stress.

X went on a cruise to Cancun for Spring Break (which is funny because only 1 out of the 4 guys that went are still in school) and has been gone for over a week. It's definitely a nice break. I truely wouldn't mind if he decided to stay longer.

momranda

I hate that exbf's mom wants to be called "Nonnie" when shes not italian. I also borrowed exbf's sister pants when J peed all over me, found a bag of weed in them, and gave it to my brother to smoke. His sister is 14, and should not be smoking, but I'm not saying anything, not my fault her mother is naive and thinks her daughter is an angel. (this little girl is in no way discreet about anything she does)

r9stedt

momranda:

I hate that exbf's mom wants to be called "Nonnie" when shes not italian. I also borrowed exbf's sister pants when J peed all over me, found a bag of weed in them, and gave it to my brother to smoke. His sister is 14, and should not be smoking, but I'm not saying anything, not my fault her mother is naive and thinks her daughter is an angel. (this little girl is in no way discreet about anything she does)

Why didn't you just flush the weed? 

Meliss227

(From my phone, sorry) I am always late now and even if its not because I'm getting C ready I say that's the reason. I'm doing a weight loss study because I need the money. I should just lose the weight to get healthy but the money is my motivation.

momranda

r9stedt:

momranda:

I hate that exbf's mom wants to be called "Nonnie" when shes not italian. I also borrowed exbf's sister pants when J peed all over me, found a bag of weed in them, and gave it to my brother to smoke. His sister is 14, and should not be smoking, but I'm not saying anything, not my fault her mother is naive and thinks her daughter is an angel. (this little girl is in no way discreet about anything she does)

Why didn't you just flush the weed? 

 

I found it in my pocket when my brother was with me, he asked for it, I gave it to him. He would have gotten a hold of some anyway, keeps him from getting caught at least this one time. 

dimake

fauxshelley:

dimake:

I've been on a couple of dates with a guy, he's really nice and for the most part perfect on paper.  I am not really big on the idea of getting deeply involved in a relationship right now, so I'm just looking at it as dating.  It's not physical at this point.

The only thing thing FFFC-worthy is that he more than likely has a baby on the way.  Not from a relationship.  I know enough from hanging out on this board that sometimes things just happen...  But I do wonder "What would the ladies at SP say?"

Whoa.  This is flameworthy, but since it's FFFC, I'll bite my tongue.

I was actually going to say "ignore the FF" part, because I do want to hear what you guys think about it.  The only one of my friends who is not saying "Oh, it's just dinner" is saying "Who at that age doesn't know how to make sure he doesn't get someone pregnant when not in a relationship?"

 

dimake

achase123:

fauxshelley:

dimake:

I've been on a couple of dates with a guy, he's really nice and for the most part perfect on paper.  I am not really big on the idea of getting deeply involved in a relationship right now, so I'm just looking at it as dating.  It's not physical at this point.

The only thing thing FFFC-worthy is that he more than likely has a baby on the way.  Not from a relationship.  I know enough from hanging out on this board that sometimes things just happen...  But I do wonder "What would the ladies at SP say?"

Whoa.  This is flameworthy, but since it's FFFC, I'll bite my tongue.

Whether or not this means anything, I'll add my .02. 

When I had been dating XH about 6 months he announced to me that there was a woman who was claiming that he was the father of her unborn child (from a ONS prior to me).  He decided to tell me this tidbit of information when the child was about to be born.  I was so stressed out about it that it consumed me.  Eventually I broke up with him and that was one of the main reasons.

Turns out he wasn't the father (that sounds like Maury) and (obviously) we ended up back together eventually, but it just wasn't something that I would have been prepared to deal with at that time.

That is a lot to take on, especially when you have children of your own.  IMO dating should not be this guys first priority.  If he doesn't realize that, perhaps YOU should be the one to put the brakes on. 

Oh, the brakes are definitely on.  With XH's schedule, I don't have time for a relationship and I'm up front about that with everybody I know.  From this guy's demeanor, he's pretty introverted and passive, so I can't gauge if he's going to be the "whatever it takes" kind of dad or the "bare minimum" kind of dad.  The latter would be a pretty big turnoff.  He doesn't seem to know what is expected of him or will be expected of him.

Other than this, he's a really great guy, well-employed, responsible...  you're right in that it's probably not something I'll be able to "take on" but right now we're essentially friends hanging out.  No sloring.

CPA04

STBXH broke it off with OW this week in an attempt to come back to me.  I don't think I'm open to that at this point, but we talked through some things last night and ended up having some relations (no sex-I was strong on that front) as I knew we would have if he came over.  It's a very odd feeling to feel incredibly guilty about kissing your own spouse, but that big O had been a long time coming....

blondnearby

r9stedt:

I sent pictures to another nestie in my underwear. 

Why?  Because she is my NBFF.   At the beginning of the year, I sent her similar pictures.  I was super excited when I started seeing some results (finally) in the mirror, so I snapped a pic.

I was in only my underwear.  No bra!

Hoar!!

I am sure you looked freaking HOTT!    

keychain01

I am can be very sadistic when it comes to E father. His girlfriend emailed me from his account about a lie he has circulated. I responded hopeing he would check it, which he did, and he had a few words for me. ANYWAYS when he gets all mad and angry with me, it gives me warm fuzzies inside. I actually get happy the more angry he gets! Weird I know!

sapphire angel

keychain01:

I am can be very sadistic when it comes to E father. His girlfriend emailed me from his account about a lie he has circulated. I responded hopeing he would check it, which he did, and he had a few words for me. ANYWAYS when he gets all mad and angry with me, it gives me warm fuzzies inside. I actually get happy the more angry he gets! Weird I know!

Not weird at all. I absolutely love doing this for the same warm fuzzy feeling and I end up smiling for most of the day just for the simple pleasure of telling him "no"