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advice( kinda long)
Hi ladies! So ive been on the 0-3 board and didnt realize this was here until now, and of course, I NEED ADVICE!
Lets start, I am 20 & DD is 2 months old. Her father and I were together about a year before she was born. I found out I was pregnant on Sunday and moved out of our apt and back in with my parents the prior Thursday because I was sure he was doing something behind my back. I am still with my parents but since DD was born we have been trying to make things work.
Lately I have been a little suspicious about what hes doing. So i checked my phone bill and there are all these cell phone numbers he calls AND a male interactive chat line and a singles chat line! Now im PISSED. I am not going to let him not pay child support and take DD to see him EVERYDAY he NEVER comes to us, if hes screwing around on the side.
What should I do? I plan to discuss this with him today but I am afraid of how it will turn out. BLAHH. 
i just want DD to have a 2 parents together but I dont see that happening.
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Re: advice( kinda long)
I'm sorry to hear this. IMO, he's already broken your trust twice, what's to stop him from doing it again. I would plan on being a single parent.
Definitely file for CS and get the custody in writing. And get checked for STDs. No matter what he claims, it's highly likely that he's been unfaithful, and therefore put you at risk.
blah! this is what i was avoiding. but i need to do whats best for DD. I made them run extra tests for STDs when I was pregnant because I didnt want LO to be exposed to anything and we havent done anything since, which is ALSO why i thought something was up!
thanks!