So, remember how I said we were working it out?

HayHay · March 2011

Yeah, that's over. I'm getting a divorce! And I am so happy and relieved about it! I wasn't ready six months ago, when I was thrust into making a decision, but now I've had time to come to terms with what I need and want.

Luckily, it's been very amicable so far. It's sad, but he understands.

Thank you all for your support, this has been quite the journey.

iHeartHimMore · March 2011

I'm so glad that you're happy with your decision! Good for you for taking care of yourself! Big hugs, lady!

itskacie · March 2011

I am so glad you guys have come to a decision and can start to move on! I don't blame you for trying one last time, it was good to know that you are sure you are making the right decision and now he can see it too. Good luck!

mishquiche · March 2011

I'm glad to hear you are happy with your decision and he has accepted it as well. Hugs to you!

iheartstuart · March 2011

iHeartHimMore:
I'm so glad that you're happy with your decision! Good for you for taking care of yourself! Big hugs, lady!

This! Glad you had time to come to a decision that is best for you.

doublem · March 2011

It was so smart of you to try to work it out and to come to a decision together with him. I think you'll be much happier that you gave it another shot and feel closure. Glad to hear that you're at peace about it!

JRS72206 · March 2011

itskacie:
I am so glad you guys have come to a decision and can start to move on! I don't blame you for trying one last time, it was good to know that you are sure you are making the right decision and now he can see it too. Good luck!

This! Hugs to you!

pinktulips · March 2011

I am happy to hear that a) you were able to find what you need and want b) and that he is being understanding.

Good thoughts and wishes to you as you travel this bumpy road.

Seattle_JiLLn · March 2011

I'm sorry it's happening but I'm glad you're at peace with it.

kaskade · March 2011

I am so happy you have come to a decision. You are a strong woman and you are going to do great!

IkesHawaiian06 · March 2011

I'm glad that you're at peace with your decision! I hope that you know that we're here for you! I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers! I hope that everything goes smoothly and quickly and stays peaceful.

Irishsapphire · March 2011

You have to do what it right for you.

My church Mars Hills had the topic of divorce today for the sermon, and it was interesting to here the biblical perspective on it. However, I kinda believe if you have taken the time to try to work things out, and it is still not working--then it is better to pursue a healthier option for yourself.

massagegirly · March 2011

IrishSapphire:
You have to do what it right for you.

My church Mars Hills had the topic of divorce today for the sermon, and it was interesting to here the biblical perspective on it. However, I kinda believe if you have taken the time to try to work things out, and it is still not working--then it is better to pursue a healthier option for yourself.

I have to say that whatever faith you have divorce at times is a must. And HayHay has gone over and beyond what I would have done if I were her. I give her props a million times over for giving it a second chance. If I were her I would have commited a way worse of a sin than divorce. And no divorce papers would have needed to be signed. So on that note I am sure God has forgiven her.

coribecca · March 2011

It sounds like you made a good decision. You must have a sense of peace now knowing that you did all you could to make it work. Now you can move forward with no regrets.

MrsH_08 · March 2011

Seattle_JiLLn:
I'm sorry it's happening but I'm glad you're at peace with it.

This! Sending hugs and strength, H!

mrssmith717 · March 2011

massagegirly:
IrishSapphire:
You have to do what it right for you.

My church Mars Hills had the topic of divorce today for the sermon, and it was interesting to here the biblical perspective on it. However, I kinda believe if you have taken the time to try to work things out, and it is still not working--then it is better to pursue a healthier option for yourself.
I have to say that whatever faith you have divorce at times is a must. And HayHay has gone over and beyond what I would have done if I were her. I give her props a million times over for giving it a second chance. If I were her I would have commited a way worse of a sin than divorce. And no divorce papers would have needed to be signed. So on that note I am sure God has forgiven her.

Yes

MrsEditorJax · March 2011

massagegirly:
IrishSapphire:

You have to do what it right for you.

My church Mars Hills had the topic of divorce today for the sermon, and it was interesting to here the biblical perspective on it. However, I kinda believe if you have taken the time to try to work things out, and it is still not working--then it is better to pursue a healthier option for yourself.

I have to say that whatever faith you have divorce at times is a must. And HayHay has gone over and beyond what I would have done if I were her. I give her props a million times over for giving it a second chance. If I were her I would have commited a way worse of a sin than divorce. And no divorce papers would have needed to be signed. So on that note I am sure God has forgiven her.

This x1,000. Well put, Katia. And H, I am glad that you have come to a decision and can be at peace with it and move on. Lots of supportive vibes headed your way.

stacylu · March 2011

coribecca:
It sounds like you made a good decision. You must have a sense of peace now knowing that you did all you could to make it work. Now you can move forward with no regrets.

This

HayHay · March 2011

massagegirly:
IrishSapphire:

You have to do what it right for you.

My church Mars Hills had the topic of divorce today for the sermon, and it was interesting to here the biblical perspective on it. However, I kinda believe if you have taken the time to try to work things out, and it is still not working--then it is better to pursue a healthier option for yourself.

I have to say that whatever faith you have divorce at times is a must. And HayHay has gone over and beyond what I would have done if I were her. I give her props a million times over for giving it a second chance. If I were her I would have commited a way worse of a sin than divorce. And no divorce papers would have needed to be signed. So on that note I am sure God has forgiven her.

Thanks Katia, and all of you. I know without the back story, this probably sounds somewhat cavalier. I really do feel at peace with my decision, and I know I've tried everything. I'm ready to move on with my life!

MOHjen · March 2011

so happy you have come to a decision that you are at peace with and happy about. You are an incredibly strong person and I know you will come out of this even stronger. Lots of luck!

AnnetteWalker · March 2011

Glad your at peace with your decision. Remember you may still be hurting and going thru stuff so don't hesitate to ask for help or counseling if you need it. Somtimes it takes time to really get over a situation.

Hugs to you.

tfarabians · March 2011

Totally here for you! Only you know what is best for you and I'm so glad your taking care of yourself! I know there are great things in store for you ; )

McJen715 · March 2011

I agree with all of the other ladies, I am so glad you are happy and relieved with your decision! Do what is best for you!!

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