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so happy with my decision to not reconcile

Raspberry807Raspberry807 member
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kids' dad and I have been separated for 3 years, and I briefly considered reconciling with him last summer.  he swore up and down that he changed and wanted our family more than anything.  he had a pregnant ex girlfriend at the time, and I came to my senses and told him no way. 

he texted me last night with a new phone number, and said he deleted his FB too.  I asked if everything was okay because that's not like him and I was worried he was in trouble or something, and he said that his girlfriend (and new baby's mom) caught him texting and talking to another girl.  he said he realizes now he has a problem with that so he decided to delete everything and start fresh, and only give his number to certain people so there's no temptation there.

I sorta feel sorry for his gf and baby because he did that to me twice... I don't think he'll ever change :(

SS10 - SD9 - DD7 - DS5 - DS born 10/3/12
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Re: so happy with my decision to not reconcile

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    yep, stick to your guns.  can't change the stripes on a zebra.  doesn't it feel like such a relief to you that you're looking at the situation from the outside, rather than having it be your life?

    you have to wonder if people who stay with douches like this have some sort of masochistic tendencies..... 

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  • achase123achase123
    Lemme guess, he has a "sexual addiction"?  What a douche, you are better off!
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    imageachase123:
    Lemme guess, he has a "sexual addiction"?  What a douche, you are better off!

    heh.  i wonder if he has pulled the "i need to go to 'rehab'" thing  

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    imageachase123:
    Lemme guess, he has a "sexual addiction"?  What a douche, you are better off!

    heh.  i wonder if he has pulled the "i need to go to 'rehab'" thing  

    he has the "grass is greener" mentality

    SS10 - SD9 - DD7 - DS5 - DS born 10/3/12
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    imageachase123:
    Lemme guess, he has a "sexual addiction"?  What a douche, you are better off!

    heh.  i wonder if he has pulled the "i need to go to 'rehab'" thing  

    he has the "grass is greener" mentality

    Oh man.  The grass is NEVER greener.   

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    Oh man.  The grass is NEVER greener.   

    Oh c'mon.  It is for a bit.  XH used to try to grow tired of things easily and need to upgrade.  He went from driving nothing (no license when I met him, hellllooo red flag) when I met him to changing trucks no less than five times in the course of our relationship.  Each time it had to be a slightly newer/better truck until he was driving a brand new $40K Dodge equipped with every bell and whistle and aftermarket part imaginable.

    That beautiful truck was literally in pieces the last time I saw it because he attempted to fix it himself.  Tweakers apparently don't make very good mechanics.

    I do think I got the last laugh though since he never did "upgrade" in the women department.  The last girl he was seen around weighed about 90 lbs, looked coked out of her mind, had no eyebrows (except for the ones she drew on) and took all of her FB pics with her asss facing towards the camera and a marijuana plant drying in the background.

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    imagekristinhart511:

    Oh man.  The grass is NEVER greener.   

    Oh c'mon.  It is for a bit.  XH used to try to grow tired of things easily and need to upgrade.  He went from driving nothing (no license when I met him, hellllooo red flag) when I met him to changing trucks no less than five times in the course of our relationship.  Each time it had to be a slightly newer/better truck until he was driving a brand new $40K Dodge equipped with every bell and whistle and aftermarket part imaginable.

    That beautiful truck was literally in pieces the last time I saw it because he attempted to fix it himself.  Tweakers apparently don't make very good mechanics.

    I do think I got the last laugh though since he never did "upgrade" in the women department.  The last girl he was seen around weighed about 90 lbs, looked coked out of her mind, had no eyebrows (except for the ones she drew on) and took all of her FB pics with her asss facing towards the camera and a marijuana plant drying in the background.

     

    1) tweaker = good word.  hilarious.  and sad that its associated with your xh.  it seeems like you got the best part of him. 

    2) Come onnnnnn that grass is totally greener for him.  That's seriously the best life ever.

     

    seriously considering shaving my eyebrows now.  

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