So Sick... Remember my son's father is on the knot?

Ritza · October 2008

I dont know, but you might remember that my son's father and his second wife-to-be registered on the knot and it made me gag.

Well, yesturday, my son's teacher approached me (and guess what she said)...

"Do you know?"

"No, not yet!" (Thinking she was asking about the baby's sex)

"Bebo (my son) didnt tell you?" She says

"Huh?" I say

"I've been dating his father off and on for the past several weeks, and I just wanted to let you know."

*OH SNAP!*

KateVA · October 2008

I am so confused.......

MrsL.inMarch · October 2008

Oh WOWIE

kada626 · October 2008

WOW! Are you going to say anything??

MrsL.inMarch · October 2008

KateVA:
I am so confused.......

Her son's Dad was/is getting married, but dating her son's teacher also.

Ritza · October 2008

Drama. I dont know what to do.

kabarbanel · October 2008

WEIRD!!!

PlannedChaos · October 2008

Ok, aside from the fact of the whole being registered with the second wife to be, that's HIGHLY inappropriate. Teachers are NOT supposed to start relationships with their student's parents. They couldn't wait until the school year is over? OMG.

Ritza · October 2008

KateVA:
I am so confused.......

My son's father is engaged to Bianca, but I found out yesterday that he's screwing around with my son's teacher...

And worse, apparently, my son knows about this.

I dont think the teacher knows that my son's father is engaged. I dont want to get involved... but I have to deal with her all the time... what do I do?

PlannedChaos · October 2008

I think I would call the school and ask for a different teacher for your son.

Jessimurph · October 2008

Ritza:
Drama. I dont know what to do.

Stay out of it. Distance yourself emotionally and physically.

the_magic_number · October 2008

PlannedChaos:
Ok, aside from the fact of the whole being registered with the second wife to be, that's HIGHLY inappropriate. Teachers are NOT supposed to start relationships with their student's parents. They couldn't wait until the school year is over? OMG.

That was my first thought. You could probably turn her in to the principal. if you really wanted to.

Garnetbaby09 · October 2008

You get to sit back and enjoy.... Don't say a word because it will just make you look pathetic. But doesn't your son know or have a relationship with his fiancee? I'd have a talk with him to see how he feels about his father's behavior and make sure he understand behaving like an asshat is not gentleman like behavior.

KateVA · October 2008

MrsL.inMarch:

KateVA:
I am so confused.......

Her son's Dad was/is getting married, but dating her son's teacher also.

Wow, okay, not sure how I would handle that one! I almost feel like you need to say something to the teacher. Your poor son, stuck in the middle of all this.....

Ashley Pharez · October 2008

So I'm confused is he seeing two women or is the woman he's marrying your son's teacher? ?Either way thats messed up.

LukyNLuv · October 2008

Damn you got some drama!

Aren't you the one whose sister's brother cousins baby daddy was supposed to go somewhere but you busted them?

Ritza · October 2008

PlannedChaos:
Ok, aside from the fact of the whole being registered with the second wife to be, that's HIGHLY inappropriate. Teachers are NOT supposed to start relationships with their student's parents. They couldn't wait until the school year is over? OMG.

That's my point!!! I SEE HER EVERY DAY!!???

Worst, I like her a lot... and I hate him a lot...

leslienpete · October 2008

Wow! So, let me get this straight. He is engaged to be married to one girl and dating your son's teacher on the side? Yikes!

You could have said, "Really? Are you the girl he is engaged too?" and watch her stutter...

MOHNikki · October 2008

WOW!

I don't think I'd want my son in her class any longer. I'd call the school and ask for a transfer for your son.

Gretchen kiolbasa · October 2008

um...wait so this is someone other than his fiance???

its also really weird that she would tell you that, talk about awkward....can you change teachers?

KateVA · October 2008

Ritza:

PlannedChaos:
Ok, aside from the fact of the whole being registered with the second wife to be, that's HIGHLY inappropriate. Teachers are NOT supposed to start relationships with their student's parents. They couldn't wait until the school year is over? OMG.

That's my point!!! I SEE HER EVERY DAY!!???

Worst, I like her a lot... and I hate him a lot...

I agree completely that it is inappropriate but switching classes on your son might just add to his trauma right now. Only you can make that call of course. If you like the teacher and DS is happy in the class, I would talk to her about the situation.

SummersJuly15 · October 2008

Ahhh - nice!

Ritza · October 2008

LukyNLuv:

Damn you got some drama!

Aren't you the one whose sister's brother cousins baby daddy was supposed to go somewhere but you busted them?

LMAO!!! YES!!!

I need to start writing a soap opera

Garnetbaby09 · October 2008

SpringPeeper:

Garnetbaby09:
You get to sit back and enjoy.... Don't say a word because it will just make you look pathetic. But doesn't your son know or have a relationship with his fiancee? I'd have a talk with him to see how he feels about his father's behavior and make sure he understand behaving like an asshat is not gentleman like behavior.

I agree. I wouldn't want to get in their business, but if your son knows his father is engaged AND knows about his father dating his teacher, it could have a real negative affect on him.

Yes! This is why he needs to have a talk with him. And now that I think about this more, the principal as well. DO NOT even discuss it with the teacher. She apparently does not understand what "appropriate/professional behavior" is.

TexasLadyBug · October 2008

Was the teacher telling you in a nice way or was she doing it because she just had to know that you knew?

If she was nice about it and was just wanting you to know, "Hey so if Bebo comes home and says he saw Miss X with Daddy at the mall then you would know why". If that is the reason then I would let her know that the last you heard your x was engaged (he may no longer be).

It seems odd that your x would cheat with someone you run into daily. So either he is just that stupid or he is no longer engaged, or the teacher could know and just does not care.

Either way it may be the best to just stay out of it unless it starts affecting your son.?

Ritza · October 2008

Garnetbaby09:
You get to sit back and enjoy.... Don't say a word because it will just make you look pathetic.

Yeah - that's the same advise my BF gave me... stay far, far, away from it. We're just mad because it kinda shows my son that two timing is ok.

Dorr_Evil_Twin · October 2008

whoa. this poor girl has no idea. I'm sure she wanted to be the one to tell you before you had to hear it from anyone else (in her mind).. stay out of it as much as you can, and try to keep your son away from him. you may want to tell your ex that if he is going to be screwing around with different women, that he should at least try to keep his son away from his distructive behavior. this sucks, so sorry you are dealing with his nonsense.

djdavis · October 2008

WOW! If you like her alot then I would maybe drop some not so subtle hints that he is a two timing prick! Other wise just sit back and watch him get caught. Kids can not hold secrets like that so the teacher or the fiance will find out soon enough.

Ritza · October 2008

gunnitk:

um...wait so this is someone other than his fiance???

its also really weird that she would tell you that, talk about awkward....can you change teachers?

I think her intentions were really inoscent... in other words she might be falling for him and wanted to let me know so that things between us dont get awkward (sp?)

Kaar17 · October 2008

Ritza:

That's my point!!! I SEE HER EVERY DAY!!???

Worst, I like her a lot... and I hate him a lot...

If the teacher is nice and you like her, I would tell her. Just like I would tell a friend if they were getting cheated on.

Mrs.Johnson08 · October 2008

I think I'd say something to the teacher about his being engaged. If you like her and have to deal with her on a daily basis it's going to be kinda hard not to say anything.

kada626 · October 2008

i wouldn't switch teachers for your son. Your son probably has friends in his class and he shouldn't be punished cuz his dad's a complete idiot. If it was me, I would tell the teacher that he's engaged and let her deal with it. You stated that you like this teacher & I think she was trying to be honest with you by letting u know she was dating your ex. So I would tell her and I would also chew out ur ex for being such an idiot and being a shitty example for your son and putting your son in the middle of it all! You don't want your son to turn out like his dad thinking cheating is ok.

Mrs.Johnson08 · October 2008

I think I'd tell her. She does have a right to know. And when she does find out she'll prolly wounder why you never said anything to her about him being engaged.

wifeypooh · October 2008

Wow, I bet you must be glad that your not involved with him anymove!

Mjmksb04 · October 2008

That is really shady that he is dating another woman other than his fiancee, that it is your son's teacher, and that he is sharing this information with your son. Even shadier that your son's teacher seems to not have an issue with it.

manic mama · October 2008

How old is your son?

It would be a shame if the teacher gets spurned and your son suffers.

And it seems like jerky boy is digging his own grave. Obviously he doesn't worry about it enough to be discreet.

iluvabrit · October 2008

if this didn't involve your son i'd say stay out of it... but i'm sorry, this kind of behavior from a father is the exact thing that screws up boys for life and teaches them behaviors that can affect relationships forever. does your son know about both relationships?

i would sit down and chat with son.

i would let the teacher know... she can deal with it however she wants.

i would chew the ex out like nobody's business. if he can't keep it in his pants, he can at least keep it away from your son.

spaolagonzalez · October 2008

Man that sucks!!!!! Well if you like the teacher alot then tell her the truth. She may not know that she is being used as the other woman. Only because you hate this man doesn't mean that the teacher may have to pay. She may not know and her feelings may be involved. About her being a teacher, well i don't know what to tell you. It's better you talk to her so things don't go further and to the ears of other people. About this man just sit back and enjoy how his secret comes to an end.

artsyandi · October 2008

Wow.

If I felt comfortable enough with her, I might just tell her that "I don't want to be involved in this situation, but you need to talk to him if you are under the impression that your relationship is exclusive."

Hard call though.

TimingisEverything · October 2008

Wow...I did not expect that!

Stronglove17 · October 2008

First, I would ream your ex for putting your son through this. Secondly, if you really like his teacher, I would mention something to her about it. I would ask her "when are they getting married?" and if she asks what you are talking about explain how you saw his profile on the knot stating that he's engaged. It's kind of a nice casual way to bring it up.

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