October 2011 Moms

Maybe next time (sad warning)

Well, seems like just when I was feeling like it was safe to get comfy here, I have to say goodbye.

Had my second u/s today and there was no heartbeat.  I was 9 weeks and 2 days and I asked the doctor what the baby measured and she said, "9 weeks" so it must have stopped within the past day or two.  No bleeding, no cramping, everything seemed to be normal complete with regular pregnancy symptoms.  Sometimes things just happen, and we have to think it was "for a good reason" or "for the best".  I know this is true, but it still sucks so bad.

This would have been my first and I'm heartbroken as you can imagine.  I nearly didn't write this post because I remember how hard it was for me to read them.  We worry so much and I don't want to make anyone worry anymore.  I only wrote because I so recently came out of lurking and made the big ol intro.  Guess I should have waited a few more days.

Just wanted to say how lovely this month board was and I wish you all so much health and happiness.

Me: 39 DH: 35 - TTC #1 since October 2010
BFP #1 2-1-11 Missed Miscarriage 3-14-11(9 wks)-D&C
BFP #2 9-17-11 EDD 5-29-12
Edward James born 3-14-12 weighing 1lb11oz at 29w1d via c section due to low fluid and growth restriction from crappy placenta.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My T+P are with you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. :( My thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss and your heartbreak.  (((hugs)))

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

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  • I am so sorry to read this.  T&P with you and yours
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  • I am so sorry - T&P to you and your family.
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  • thanks for sharing.. it raises awareness to everryone just how precious everything is in this world!  Take care of yourself and try to stay positive.. thoughts and prayers to you and yours...
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  • I am so sorry.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss Sad
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  • I'm so very sorry. 
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  • I am So sorry for your loss....T&P
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  • :-( So Sorry!! I had a chemical in Decemeber and successfully conceived the next cycle! Not sure if you are up for that but just know there is Hope!! T & P's your way!
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  • I'm so sorry, I know how bad this hurts.  saying a prayer for you and your family.
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  • My heart breaks for you, T&Ps.
    TTC#1 
    BFP 2/14/11, missed m/c 9 weeks. d&e 3/24/11
    BFP 12/10/11 d&e at 13wk+4days 2/17/12
    Dx with Balanced Robertsonian Translocation (13;14) moving on to IVF w/ PGD
    IVF #1 (May 2012) 13R, 10F, 5 blasts, ONE NORMAL frozen no transfer
    IVF #2 (July 2012) 17R, 8F, 5  blasts, ONE NORMAL 6dt on 7/12/2012- c/p
    IVF #3 (Sept. 2012) 39R, 25F, 13 blasts,  3 NORMALS! Freeze-all due to high E2.
    FET #1 10/23- 2 expanded blasts, Beta #1 11/1- 113, Beta #2 11/4-351, Beta #3 11/7- 1213
    Hailey Michelle born July 12, 2013

    TTC #2 
    FET -1/14- c/p
    IVF #4 (Feb 2014)- 49R, 28F, 13 blasts, 7 NORMALS! eSET of a normal blast on 2/24/14, 6 frosties.
    Beta #1 3/4/14- 105. Beta #2 3/7/13- 397 EDD-11/11/14. 1st u/s 3/20- 6w2d lil' bean with 120hb. 7w0d- lil bean's hb was 144. Graduated from RE 3/25/14.
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  • I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck!
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  • I am so sorry :(
    July 20th, 2012: Never forget the day the fb douchebags tried so hard, but ultimately failed. Viva la October 2011! Yeah, I called you douchebags.

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  • I am so sorry to hear your news. I hope that you are back on a birth month board very soon.
  • So sorry...
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  • I am so sorry. The same thing happened to me and my baby last fall. It's heartbreaking.
    Lucy 12.18.06, Will 6.21.09 & Adeline 11.2.11
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    BFP #2 10/23/13 EDD 7/1/14, MC 11/18/13

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Wishing you all the best.
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  I'm glad you wrote this post.  You don't need to worry about us.  This is about you.  You're the one going through something terribly painful right now, so the least we can do is support you.  The miscarriage and pregnancy loss board can be a great comfort, so you might consider checking them out, and TTC after a loss is a wonderful board filled with wonderfully supportive women.  Take care of yourself, hun.  (((BIG hugs)))
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Please don't worry about us, we're here for the good and the bad.  Take care of yourself, you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. *HUGS*
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  • So sorry.  T&P's your way.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))

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  • I am so, so sorry.  I can't imagine the heartbreak, but am saying prayers that you will return to a birth month board soon...
    BFP#1 1/31/11 ~ CK came on her due date, 10/10/11!
    BFP#2 11/20/12, EDD 7/30/13 ~ heard heartbeat at 6w2d ~ mmc discovered at 8w
    1st medicated cycle ~ 6/11/13 ~ Clomid ~ BFN
    2nd medicated cycle ~ 7/12/13 ~ Clomid and trigger shot ~ BFN
    SHG on 8/13/13 ~ uterus looked good!
    Diagnosed with DOR on 8/16/13 ~ AMH 0.27 ~ repeat AMH 0.19
    3rd medicated cycle ~ 8/9/13 ~ Femara and trigger shot ~ BFN
    4th medicated cycle ~ 9/4/13 ~ Bravelle, trigger shot, IUI ~ BFP! ~ EDD: 6/11/14 ~ heartbeat of 118 at 6w3d ~ mmc discovered at 9w1d
  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. T&Ps and well wishes for the future.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  • I'm so sorry ! {{{hugs}}}


    "Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
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  • I am so, so sorry for your losss.  My T&P's go out to you.
  • I am so terribly sorry for your loss =(
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  • i'm so sorry.  T&P's to you and DH.  ((HUGS))
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  • I am so sorry.  ((( hugs )))  lots of t&p

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    BFP 10/13/12 EDD 06/25/13 Born at 37w0d on 06/04/13

    BFP 12/11/15 EDD 08/23/16 Early miscarriage

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts are with you.  
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss :( You are in my thoughts!!! xoxo
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  • I am so so sorry. Please go to the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board, it's very comforting and helpful. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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  • I am so sorry. T+P for you.
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  • I am so sorry :-(
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