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My 5 day fever and stomach pain turned out to be.... (kids mentioned)

A pelvic infection. I have been posting about my high fevers and having stomach pain last week and talking to the doctors and they kept saying it was a viral thing and to let nature takes it course. By Thursday night I was in excruciating pain. I called the on call dr and he thought it might be my appendix and to go to ER. Well since the pain was coming and going I decided to wait through the night (we had two kids in bed) plus our good friend is a dr. so he came by in the morning to check on me. From where my pain was at he know it wasn't a viral thing and called in a CT scan to be done on my abdomen and pelvic. Well that came back out of whack and my white blood cells were really high. They knew I needed surgery so they admitted me (this was friday). I had to be cut open, they drained all the infection and remove my appendix just for precautionary. So after it is all said and done I find out it all started from my d&c. My uterus never shrank back down to normal size and an infection started in the left tube (I don't have my right tube/ovary) and just kept spreading for the past two months. I just can't believe they never saw anything on the two ultrasounds I had the past two weeks. I am on about 5 different antibiotics now, morphine, potassium and who else knows what. I just can not believe this all keeps happening to me. I feel there is no light at the end of the tunnel. My main concern is my left tube had to be patched up and the dr. said it may result in having problems getting pregnant but it was too early to tell and that we would cross that bridge in a few months once I get healthy again. I feel like this is a joke someone is playing on me. As if my miscarriage wasn't hard enough to deal with. I am able to get up and move around better today so my energy is coming back so that is good. I hope I don't have to keep posting these sad posts anymore! I just pray the worst is behind me. Thanks for listening! Happy Sunday to you all!
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Re: My 5 day fever and stomach pain turned out to be.... (kids mentioned)

  • I'm so sorry. That's just awful. It really is the last thing you need after what you've already been through. My thoughts are with you for a full and speedy recovery.
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  • I am so sorry all of this is happening to you! I'm glad that someone finally took your symptoms seriously! Fingers crossed and lots of thoughts and prayers that your tube heals and this has no lasting effect!

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  • I'm so sorry you had to go through this after everything else. I hope you recover quickly and that this is the end of your troubles. My T&P are with you.
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  • *huge hugs*  Sending many T&P's your way.  I hope you recover quickly, and that your left tube heals perfectly.  
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  • Oh my goodness!!  That is so terrible, I am so glad that you were able to get in to the hospital and they were able to catch it before it got worse.  But, really, I would be upset too - being that you had a D&C recently, you'd think someone might have considered that. 

    I hope that you have a full and fast recovery.  (((hugs)))

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  • Oh wow, I am so sorry to hear that. What a whirlwind. I hope you have a quick recovery and that you start to feel 100% very soon.

     

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  • I hope your left tube heals and you have a speedy recovery. You will be in my T & P. Huge hugs.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this. I can only begin to imagine how frightening this all is for you.

    I will be sending lots of good thoughts and prayers your way. I hope that each day brings you a little more energy and with that, lots and lots of healing. Sending my best to you.

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    So after it is all said and done I find out it all started from my d&c. My uterus never shrank back down to normal size and an infection started in the left tube (I don't have my right tube/ovary) and just kept spreading for the past two months.

    WOW ... I can't believe all of this has happened to you!  I'm glad to hear that you're already getting your energy back.

    I noticed you said your uterus didn't shrink back down to size.  Is this what caused all your heavy, heavy bleeding too?  I had this happen to me when I was in the midst of my m/c.   The ER had to give me some type of injectable medication to help it shrink back down to size.  I bled quite a bit, but not as much as you.

    So sorry you had to lose your appendix, but fingers double crossed that your left tube will heal to be as good as new!  Take care. <<HUGS>>

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  • I am so sorry to hear hon.   I will be sending T&P's your way.   I'm sorry that they couldn't find this for you earlier and glad that your friend took you seriously and checked it all out.   positive energy your way my dear.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Take good care of yourself.  I don't know about you, but I'd be furious with my dr that he/she never noticed this with previous u/s!!!!   ((BIG HUGS))

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  • im so sorry!!  how awful for you to have to deal with all of this.  - and then worry about your left tube.  im so so sorry.
  • Oh my, I'm sorry you had to go through all of that.  I hope the worst is behind you too and you heal quickly and completly.  How frustrating that it took so much before someone figured out the problem, but thank goodness it's fixed  *gentle hugs*
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  • That sounds awful!  I really hope you are feeling better soon.  Giant (((HUGS)))
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  • I sent you an email back - but I just wanted to tell you again I am so sorry you are going through all this and you are in my T&Ps ((HUGE gentle HUGS))
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  • Oh my goodness... you poor thing! I hope you are feeling better soon. I know that is a lot on your plate. Big hugs to you.
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  • I'm so sorry for all you've gone through! I'm glad you finally figured out what was wrong and hopefully you are on your way to a quick recovery. ((HUGS))
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    I'm so mad that you've had to go through all of this.  You know your body and have said all along that something wasn't right, and the medical professionals kept missing it.  It makes me want to scream, and I'm not the one having to live this.  I am so SO sorry you're going through this.  I'm praying for a smooth recovery and a resilient left tube.  (((BIG hugs)))

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  • Oh man - I'm so sorry!!!  Thank goodness someone FINALLY took you serious and figured out what is going on!  I'm soooooooooooo sorry you're having to go through all this.  The last three months have been nothing but awful for you, and I pray this is the end to it all!  I hope these doctors keep a close eye on what is happening and things heal as best they can.

    Are you considering getting a new OB?  I feel like the current one didn't monitior you the way he should have or even take your symptoms seriously.  This all makes me want to go smack him!

    Anyways, I hope you can find some rest and peace in the coming weeks.  I'll be praying for you!

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  • I am so sorry you are going through this. That is terrible that the other Dr.'s were not taking you seriously. Take care and I hope that you have a speedy recovery and that everything heals nicely. ((HUGS))
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  • Oh my ! I am so sorry I hope you are feeling better soon
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  • i am so sorry this happened to you and sorry they didnt manage to catch it sooner! i hope there is no lasting damage to your system once you heal up!
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  • Oh no!  I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that on top of everything else.  I can't believe your doctors didn't take you seriously earlier, but I am glad your family friend took you seriously, and I am glad they were able to start treating you.  I hope you tube ends up being fine.  Lots of T&Ps headed your way.
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  • Then you ladies. Today had been another whirlwind of emotions and just trying to get better. I am definitely considering switching obs. The one that was on call and helped with my surgery really knows his sh*t. I wasnt comfortable with a male dr but I don't care anymore. I just want a good dr.
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  • Hope you recover quickly. T&P going up!!
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  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this. {{HUGS}} FX you start feeling better soon and your body makes a speedy recovery.

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